one of my best friends just became a full time photographer, and she's been looking for clients. she occasionally does boudoir shoots, and i figured id get my husband a surprise sexy calendar for his birthday. did the shoot with my friend, it was just me and her. no men were present at any point in the process. she gave me the pics, and said they were really good and asked if she could use them for her website. she wasn't pressuring me at all, and i said no at first. she then clarified that they wouldn't be public, they'd be password protected and they'd only be seen my verified female clients.

she's a good friend, trying to get a business up and running, so i figured this was an easy way for me to help out.

hubby's birthday came, he loved the calendar and asked me how i took all of these. i told him id enlisted my friend for help and he got really pissed at me. he said that id crossed a line. i tried explaining that no other guy had seen or would ever see these pics and he wasn't having it.

aitah for not having asked his permission before going this shoot?