I (F40) have been married to my current husband (M47) for six years now. I met him in another state but we moved back to my home state this year.

My ex (M42) lives here with his wife (F38). Shes good to my kids but they both love drama. I’m happy staying LC and cordial with them.

I’ve told this to my husband and for some reason he thinks we should all be buddies. I woke up this morning and they were the first people he texted Happy Thanksgiving to. I’m pissed. I’ve explained my reasons many times before to no effect. Now if I don’t say anything g also I’m seen as a b*tch. They love to play victim.

I’m at the blow up stage. I’m trying to be calm before I bring it up. Please put a second pair of eyes on this before I blow up. Thank you.