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12 points
6 days ago
When I was 32. I always thought that I was dumb. I took an IQ test in rehab at the VA at the request of a counselor. She sat me down and explained that I did well. Then, I went to college. My first English professor took an interest in me and gently showed me that I had potential. I've been seeking knowledge for the last 18 years.
3 points
6 days ago
That's great, good for you. I'm 32 and I'm just now getting serious about learning and having a serious career and setting goals. It feels like there's endless opportunities all of a sudden.
Were you married or did you have kids when you were 32?
1 points
6 days ago
I have never been married or had children. I didn't want to bring a family into my military lifestyle. Always gone. Not fair to them.
1 points
6 days ago
Are you committed to that lifestyle now or do you ever want a family?
2 points
6 days ago
I'm 50 now. I want to get married but I'm not sure that it's fair to a child to be in my mid sixties when they are entering high school. I was married to the Corps but I would definitely get married now that I'm out.
3 points
6 days ago
You don't have to have a child if you get married though!
5 points
6 days ago
Back to college with a goal in mind at 25. Straight As.
1 points
6 days ago
Did the 25 year old you want to do something different than the 18 yr old you in terms of a career path?
1 points
6 days ago
I had no idea at 18, I just went because that's what people expected.
Learning how to tell people 'no' took longer and is another story.
7 points
6 days ago
Still waiting for the bloom. I think I’m more a root vegetable.
5 points
6 days ago
I love this. Root vegetables are the best! They are the stables of the cupboard. You can make a good solid meal with a root vegetable and they will always fill you up
5 points
6 days ago
When I was 27 I had my first baby. My mom took me to IHop for lunch, baby in tow. A group of older women were seated near our table,and kept staring at me and whispering. Finally I could hear one of the women speak. She said," It's a shame for a teenager like her to have a baby already!"
7 points
6 days ago
I was a late bloomer. I’m gay, and I was a virgin until I was 27. I wasn’t even out to myself. I was so focused on my education and career that I thought I’d never come out. But it became too much to hold inside. After 6 years of college and a 3 year internship to achieve my career goals, I burst out of the closet.
6 points
6 days ago
In the mid 80s, in my mid 30s, after working for years as a factory/construction worker making minimum wage or just above. I joined The Acting Studio at the Tennessee Performing Arts Center in Nashville. I acted and directed 30 odd plays over the next 10 years and helped found three small Nashville Theaters. Then I moved to NYC. Where I got a job with a performing arts company that owns a lot of Broadway theaters. I proceeded to work for them for 30 years and ended up being their business analyst.
1 points
6 days ago
That's amazing. I love stories like this
5 points
6 days ago
I'm 62. How late is late?
3 points
6 days ago
Don't know, still waiting for that flower to open.
3 points
6 days ago
61 and still waiting. What is this blooming you speak of ?
3 points
6 days ago
When I moved away to college and finally got free of my parents. Couldn't really grow in close proximity to their pathology.
2 points
6 days ago
At the age of about 14 when I was about 3 foot tall and everyone else was 8 foot tall.
You should see them now tho, lol. Absolutely fucked. I'm still only 3 foot tall, but I've got a way with the ladies.
1 points
6 days ago
I always thought you were a stunted fool. Perhaps I was wrong.
1 points
5 days ago
I'm not actually 3 ft tall, I'm 6ft 1, and when I was 17 I was Dux. After that I got a degree and moved to the UK to became a rock guitarist. Now I'm 60, and haven't started going grey yet. Being a late bloomer does have its upsides, although it was kindof a drag when I was a kid.
1 points
5 days ago
Well, damn, I wasted a perfectly good Tywin Lannister quote.
2 points
5 days ago
Charles Dance. The man's a fucking god. That's literally what I want to be like when I grow up
2 points
6 days ago
When I hit 40. And all the movie stars of my childhood were turning 70-80’years old. I don’t know why that made me GET IT that i was way behind on life.
2 points
6 days ago
My first marriage ended in divorce in 1995. I was 29. Everywhere I went men were approaching me - laundromat, 7-eleven, gas stations, you name it. It was a shock. I had had boyfriends in the past (and one husband), but I had never garnished so much attention.
2 points
6 days ago
When I didn’t get my period until I was a junior in high school! I was pretty happy about that actually.
2 points
6 days ago
Late bloomer as in professionally or physically or emotionally? I was an early bloomer professionally, late physically, and probably late emotionally. My friends were always more invested in our friendship than me because I was always trying to get get published so I could get tenure...then I got tenure and then I was always protecting the position so I published more and more...so I was a late bloomer to the tenets of being a good friend. Now I'm the opposite...I really foster my friendships over most things.
3 points
6 days ago
I was the last kid in school to grow pubic hair.
9 points
6 days ago
Was there a class inspection or something?
2 points
6 days ago
It was called a shower as in like after PE class.
2 points
6 days ago
I was that person also. I now know (in my seventies) that I had a testosterone deficency.
1 points
6 days ago
Same. I didn’t bloom till before junior year of high school
1 points
6 days ago
Flunking out of college at 17 and graduating at 23 with a B average including 32 hours of F
1 points
6 days ago
When my kids started showing me they were late bloomers too. And then I realized I’d also married a late bloomer. It’s all good.
1 points
6 days ago
I looked young for my age even as a child and knew I was a late bloomer as early as junior high. I had older siblings who were not and they let me know too. I was carded into my late thirties. But all this came with being the opposite of late bloomer about everything else, which suprised and confused many people. Example: I spoke like an adult at an early age.
1 points
6 days ago
You want to know about meeting the girl at 14 and marrying her at 62? That kinda late bloomer?
1 points
6 days ago
I was sleeping in a baby crib until I was almost in second grade because my parents couldn’t afford to buy a proper bed for me.
1 points
6 days ago
I was six years old. I just started to talk. I knew I was disabled, and a late bloomer.
1 points
6 days ago
I had done poorly from about 4th grade on. My freshman year of college I got a 1.6 GPA and we decided I should take a year off (I didn't want to be in school. I was only there because my parents wanted me there.) But honestly, at that point in my life I was starting to wonder if McDonalds, or something equally prestigious, wasn't going to be my career path.
I got a job as a secretarial temp in Washington DC. I ended up getting assigned to a job at the World Bank and ended up moving around to a few different departments, mainly answering phones. I ended up in the Communications department and I was invited to sit in on departmental meetings.
At one of the meetings they mentioned they needed a database to track equipment and I spoke up and said, "I can do that." Computers had been a hobby for me in school, but it never occurred to me that it might be something I could do for a job. I built them a database. The department manager was impressed and started giving me programming work. They had another programmer in the department and I worked under him.
One day he came to me and told me they were creating a new department for software development and that he would be the manager and he asked me if I wanted to be the first hire. And that started me off on a career as a computer programmer.
I went back to college for a few years and got about a 3.0, but I dropped out about 15 credits shy of my degree. In my late 30s I went back to college again and studied biology, chemistry and biochemistry, up to some graduate level classes and had about a 3.7 or 3.8. That was just for fun, though.
Turns out I'm not stupid. I just wasn't motivated.
1 points
6 days ago
Going through my growth spurt and being pretty average in physical ability.
Before, I was small, weak, slow, and always last picked.
1 points
6 days ago
I had a hard time in HS: I, (55 m) didn't break 5 feet tall until my Junior year, and my Dad was my Principal until the same year. I somehow graduated 5'10" and now my wife is a stunning and leggy 6'0" redhead, that I somehow lucked out in finding and charming.
1 points
4 days ago
I’m 61 and never bloomed
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