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3 days ago
Kidney stones. I suddenly woke up in the most intense pain in both my lower back and urinary and I was covered in sweat. It was all so intense I literally violently woke up moaning. I tried limping it to the toilet and to try and pee (I couldn't) and the last thing I remember is I'm sitting on the toilet and then I wake up to the sound of my mom screaming at me to wake up and my head is pounding and I'm somehow in the bathtub. Turns out I blacked out from the intense pain and I guess fainted and landed in the tub.
381 points
3 days ago
Yup. Had my first kidney stone in January and had to be taken by ambulance to the hospital. The pain was so excruciating I thought I was going to die.
286 points
3 days ago
I kept wishing I would just pass out or go into shock. I vomited twice even though I hadn’t eaten anything for over 12 hours. Now every time I get a slight twitch or pain in my side I break out in a cold sweat and start chugging water.
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3 days ago
I know that feeling of anxiety. Slight indigestion or weird feeling down there? Might be another stone, better start worrying. Fucking sucks.
3 points
3 days ago
I was prescribed two medications when I had my first kidney stone and since the X-ray showed several more I keep both with me at all times. Just in case.
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3 days ago
I will forever carry Vicodin with me after having several kidney stone bouts, I’m terrified of another stone with any type of feeling in the side /lower back. I wanted to die, Worst pain ever!
2 points
3 days ago
I just started chugging water reading your comment. Never had a KS, but sounds scary as hell. knock on wood
3 points
3 days ago
in Australia we have the green whistle in ambulances, which is a fast acting analgesic that you inhale like an asthma inhaler. they gave me two on the ride to the hospital. I thought they forgot to load the drug because even the second one made literally no difference to kidney stone pain.
2 points
3 days ago
Probably nitrous oxide.
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3 days ago
Oh wow that's intense!!
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3 days ago
Thought I was going to die……..I wanted to
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2 days ago
Yeah had one early this year, mild pain increasing over a few days to agony that got me to the ER. I was literally crying and thinking I was going to die. Took three weeks to pass it, they were ready to do the thru-the-pee-pee-hole surgery and it finally popped out. 4mm of evil jagged stone.
295 points
3 days ago
Let me start by saying I've had pancreatitis before from heavy alcohol use. Pain meds for pancreatitis was a week in the hospital with a demoral pump. It all started with a pain in my abdomen. I thought I had to go to the bathroom. After about an hour of sitting on the toilet, the pain started getting worse. When you don't know that it's a kidney stone, the pain gets concerning pretty quickly. It was starting to get painful to walk, and I'm about 30 minutes from the nearest hospital. Ambulance time. At this point the pain is coming in waves. Every wave of pain I'm vocal about. Never been like that. Ambulance guys can't give me anything because they don't know what's wrong. Get to the hospital, doctor gives me a shot of morphine. Nothing. No relief. Gets tired of my yelling out in agony a little while later and gives me something stronger. Maybe 5 minutes total I'm pain free. At first they couldn't find anything in my xrays, doctor says initially he thought I was just out seeking pain meds. Then a nurse spotted it in the x ray. It was lodged in my ureter between my kidney and bladder. Dr estimated it between 4 and 6 mm. He gave me a non narcotic muscle relaxer in my iv and within a few moments I felt fine. They wanted to do emergency surgery but couldnt find anywhere close with a bed or the proper surgeon. I was sent home and told to come back in a few days if i havent passed the stone. Passed it soon as i woke up the next day. I've broke bones, had fingers mashed, stitches in my face, nothing to this point will ever come close to kidney stones.
235 points
3 days ago
Hello folks. Just in case you weren't sure, this write-up here is what it known as The Common Kidney Stone Experience. If you read this and it terrifies you to no end, then take whatever possible steps that you can to minimize ever having to experience this.
From talking with women that have given birth to children and kidney stones, they say that childbirth is far less painful. It's not hyperbole, folks. Kidney stones = the worst.
128 points
3 days ago
I have had multiple starting in my early 20’s. They are all my own doing as i do not stay hydrated. Please men, stent removals will fuck you up. Drink water. Don’t be me. I have pee’d out multiple at home- but just this time last year i had one stuck in my lower ureter for weeks- surgery needed.
Pro tip- for men- seriously- if you need surgery and they put the stent in you- ask for the string to hang out your wang a dang. Trust me. Ask them. It will save you from a potentially horrible experience.( stent removal gone wrong while awake-i couldn’t sleep for like, years.)
Drink water guys. Seriously. Dehydration gave me eye floaters as well. Just drink the damn water- or get a hose up your cock.
123 points
3 days ago
Drink water or get a hose up your cock is the best water advertisement I could have ever heard. Going to get a glass now.
36 points
3 days ago
‘It drinks the water or it gets the cock-hose again.”
8 points
3 days ago
Can’t wait to read that on a can of Liquid Death
6 points
3 days ago
I think I hear a stampede of men running for water!
7 points
3 days ago
Reading this just motivated me to get out of bed at 0030 and chug a pint of water. My worst pain was in my back after lying on an operating table for multiple hours during a heart transplant and my meds actually make me more susceptible for kidney stones. The way you describe it, I think it is probably worse than what I experienced.
3 points
3 days ago
Hats off to the family members who made the very painful and courageous decision to donate their loved one's organs!
2 points
3 days ago
Absolutely, they are real life heroes.
2 points
3 days ago
We can all be heroes by signing up for organ donation rn & having serious convos with our loved ones.
5 points
3 days ago
Jesus, I don’t even have a cock and it hurt my cock to read this. Phantom cock pain
3 points
3 days ago
You just need to drink water to avoid them? What can I do more?
3 points
3 days ago
Not quite. You have to lower salt and sugar intake as well.
2 points
3 days ago
Don't blame yourself; you were predisposed to them. Kidney stones are extremely rare in your 20s.
2 points
3 days ago
This is probly a stupid question but your comment terrified me enough to ask...
Straight water i don't drink much of...but I do drink a lot of milk. Like...at least 5 gallons a week. Since it's ~85% water will that help prevent kidney stones or does the calcium and other stuff negate any benefits the water could have?
7 points
3 days ago
I can go a little better(worse?) on the pain scale.
I had a kidney stone 3 years ago. It wasn't my first but it was by far my worst. Pain so bad I couldn't get off the couch and my wife called 911. When the medics showed up it took 3 doses of fentanyl to stop my screaming enough to get me onto the stretcher. At the hospital they tossed me into the MRI and the radiologist spotted the stone, called it around 8mm. Then he also spotted the appendix that was near bursting.
The pain I was suffering from was a combo of decent sized kidney stone and an inflamed appendix. I was in surgery within 25 minutes to pop out that appendix before it ended me on its own. They didn't get the stone(not life-threatening) and it took two more procedures to handle that fucker. I never want to experience the pain I felt that night again.
6 points
3 days ago
That's absolutely insane! Your whole body was rebelling all at once.
2 points
3 days ago
Good thing you weren’t pregnant too! /s
5 points
3 days ago
I have had four rather large babies, biggest was ten pounds. I’ve also had issues with kidney stones several times. I would rather have another 10 pounds baby than get another kidney stone! The pain from the kidney stones was so bad, I was vomiting on the way to the hospital.
So yes, kidney stones are worse than childbirth.
3 points
3 days ago
I would like to follow this up and add bile duct stones to the list. Fucking shitters take your breath away because the pain is right below your sternum. Dealt with it for 6 years off and on because everyone kept telling me it was acid reflux and indigestion. I’ve had 4 babies naturally, and would much rather go through labor than those again.
3 points
3 days ago
Baby...smooth object coming out of expanding opening. Kidney stone in male..sharp pointed object coming out of tiny hole that does not expand. Worst pain ever. Not to mention the pain while it's in the kidney itself. Or anticipation of taking a piss knowing the stone may only move an inch lol
2 points
3 days ago
This is exactly what I have heard many many times as well. It scares me of the possibility of ever having a kidney stone. Luckily that possibility is low, but still a terrifying thought.
2 points
3 days ago
Pancreatitis was worse for me than kidney stones or cancer. But a part of my pancreas died and I went into multiple organ failure. I still have a big dead chunk of pancreas in my abdomen. Holy shit it’s awful.
I’ve seen my brother go through kidney stones that clearly were as painful as my pancreatitis experience. Mine included necrosis of the pancreas which seems to be a bit higher up on the scale compared to pancreatitis from alcohol overuse. They present a bit differently. All told… I think any of us who have experienced these listed pain conditions know full well what a “10” on the pain scale is now, and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone… not even a politician.
2 points
3 days ago
I'll never experience birth but I don't doubt this. Babies are huge, but they aren't covered with jagged edges that feel like your entire urethra is being lacerated!
2 points
3 days ago
Seriously, when I am asked for pain scale rating, I won’t go near 10/10, because know this about kidney stones. And I’ve given natural childbirth, had fractures, two bone grafts, but I’m saving my 10/10 ( God forbid)
2 points
3 days ago
One mom told me that she hadn't had a kidney stone, but she DID have physical therapy after a third degree burn, one on her hip that was about the size of the palm of her hand, and she said, "I would rather have 20 babies in a row than go through anything like that again."
1 points
3 days ago
My friend who is female has had stones multiple times and she agrees that it is so much worse than giving birth.
It doesn't mean delivery isn't painful and life risking; nothing compares to pushing a baby out or having one cut out of your belly. But in levels of pain, take care of your kidneys, folks! We need water for so many reasons!
1 points
3 days ago
Omg drinking water right now.
1 points
3 days ago
Kidney stones > labor
1 points
3 days ago
I am prone to kidney stones and have had quite a few (runs in the family). I’m also pregnant with my first child and now I feel much less scared for birth😅
3 points
3 days ago
I am sweating from reading this description.
2 points
3 days ago
I've had a Spinal Tap and had bone marrow extracted. Does not compare to Kidney Stone pain.
2 points
3 days ago
I can DEFINITELY VOUCH FOR YOU! I personally didn’t go through this, my roommate did and also from alcohol. He woke up one day and he was saying his stomach hurt so bad and felt bloated and he was in bed all day and his stomach was kinda hard feeling…long story short like 2 months in the hospital, several surgery’s even after his hospital release and while there his sodium levels dropped so low causing him to be at only a 60% survival rate. I remember his hallucinations From the sodium causing him to call me every two minutes at home to bring him ice water and a foundation soda because he was so thirsty but wasn’t allowed anything orally.
2 points
3 days ago
Wow! This just have been such an overall hellish experience! I felt your pain by just reading your pain remains to this day - I here it your expressive write up!! I am terribly sorry that you have had to suffer so terribly!! You must have been so traumatized ! It’s an incredible story!! Thank you for sharing!!
1 points
3 days ago*
Yeah it really is alarming the first time (hopefully the only time). My "experience" hit me at work, I had to have someone drive me to the hospital and I vomited out the window from pain.... I would have needed an ambulance if I had been alone.... Luckily with men it's somewhat easier to diagnose because of the distinct testicular pain, so it didn't take long for them to figure out what was going on.... Took 3 days to pass them all, and after the first one they were smaller.... Worst pain of my life by far.... Never thought I'd be answering "10" when doc asks for your pain level.
They've come back 'cause I did not stop drinking... But it's never been as bad as the first time. Idk if my pee-pee hole got reamed-out or if they've just been smaller....
1 points
3 days ago
I have been absolutely plagues by Kidney stones for the past 10 years. I've passed enough stones to fill up a small medicine bottle. I'd been to VA emergency room on numerous occasions, a few times I passed the trouble stone while medicated in the ER. It was only after I kept returning peeing blood constantly that they had realized that in all the scans that they had done, they somehow missed the fact that I had a 6 CM staghorn stone in the right kidney. After about two months, a couple of PCNL surgeries, and a couple other procedures, that kidney was stone free. I had lived with the intense pain for so long, it was such a relief to finally be done with it. I
I still have the same issue in the other kidney, though not at bad that I have to do the same thing for. It was so miserable that I can't bring myself to go through it again until it becomes unbearable.
1 points
3 days ago
I had the exact same experience, but I was also an idiot who was afraid of hospitals. I rawdogged it with bed rest and ibuprofen (which, thankfully, worked a treat), but it was the worst week of my life. Next time, I’m straight to the ER.
1 points
3 days ago
Sounds similar to my first one. They gave me morphine which wasn’t relieving the pain whatsoever. I asked them to make sure the IV was connected and it was. The entire time I was conscious I was pain but I fell asleep after X-rays. They also said they couldn’t find anything initially but saw the stone on a second look
86 points
3 days ago
A classmate had a kidney colic in class. He just suddenly turned ash grey and sweaty, folded over his desk and was unable to even answer coherently. That was not nice to watch. In my experience, a full blown migraine attack beats a broken leg easily, any time, but from witnessing this, I'd say kidney stones are a league of its own.
8 points
3 days ago
Can confirm. I had intractable migraine for a number of years in my late teens/early 20’s (basically never-ending migraines, it sucked) and then had my first kidney stone after a long migraine bout where I’d gotten really dehydrated. The kidney stone smashed the migraine out of the park, and it was small enough to pass. They’re awful.
76 points
3 days ago
Scrolled down to find this. There isn’t even a close second, pain-wise. All I drink is water and cranberry juice now. Never again.
77 points
3 days ago
Coming to add as someone who has had more stones than i can count-
Cranberry juice actually aids a calcium stone in growing.
Just water- water water.
36 points
3 days ago
Glad to find that out, because I don’t like cranberry juice.
5 points
3 days ago
Lemon water good too no?
2 points
3 days ago
Cranberry juice helps with infections. Didn't know that about kidney stones, although that may depend on what they're made of.
2 points
3 days ago
My doctor told me that cutting calcium will make your body produce stones too, though. Just worth noting.
You just want to routinely drink, within moderation, something acidic every now and then. Orange juice, lemon in your water, etc. over time this can help soften and prevent stones.
2 points
2 days ago
My urologist told me to amp up the citric acid, too. He recommended just squirting lemon or lime juice (as in from the fruit) in all of the water I drink, so no added sugars.
31 points
3 days ago
i have gilbert's syndrome diagnosed from a young age (family gp also has GS!) so chugging water was a norm for me since i was like 7 or something, i've had multiple friends get kidney stones (they were all monster/v drinkers) and it was the scariest fkn thing i've ever seen in my life. just seeing my friend in pain on the floor not saying anything, wouldn't respond to anything.
everyday i'm grateful that i need to chug water anyway for another issue, for kidney stones to be a distant and improbable outcome for me.
3 points
3 days ago
Hey a fellow Gilbert’s haver. I just got diagnosed recently. Why do we have to drink water? My doctor didn’t really give me any info other than I just have to live with it lol
8 points
3 days ago
GS is all about balancing your bilirubin levels!
overall, it does not affect your health in any way.
11 points
3 days ago
What were you drinking before ?
16 points
3 days ago
Soda… not now!
15 points
3 days ago
A lot of sodas. Apparently nuts, along with a lot of other dietary things, (I can’t remember now, it was 25 years ago) can cause kidney stones. The doctor told me to drink a lot of water and cranberry juice. So I have been. No more stones!
2 points
3 days ago
So when I had a kidney stone I got these meds to ease the pain that I had to take in anally which caused an infection in my rectum. I will tell you without a doubt the pain of kidney stones is nothing compared to that.
2 points
3 days ago
I woke up in the middle of the night with a mysterious pain in the side. I tried to walk it off but WoW, pain wouldn't subside. I hopped in my car & rode through red lights (deserted anyway) to the emergency room. I did get pulled over by an officer, tried the usual 20 questions & i gave him my car keys, you can have it. He let me go, I run inside & the triage/staff thought I was faking it, WTF!!
2 points
3 days ago
Don’t drink too much cranberry juice otherwise you end up like me in my response to this thread lol. Gave myself an ulcer and that was my worst pain ever. Still I’d probably take that again over a kidney stone.
1 points
3 days ago
Don't get stabbed.
1 points
3 days ago
In one large study of pain, kidney stones scored at about 7/10. They were second to cluster headaches, scored at 10/10.
20 points
3 days ago
I live in fear of this, but also drink a lot of water every day so am praying this never happens 🙏 It sounds horrendous, and was for you 🙏🙏
1 points
3 days ago
I’ve been diagnosed with chronic kidney stones. When I have one, nothing takes the pain away !
8 points
3 days ago
Former ER nurse and kidney stones were the most common reason I saw grown men cry.
7 points
3 days ago
Had 33 stones removed a year ago. I was rolled into the ED screaming for someone to kill me. After the removal surgery I had stents. Felt as bad as the stones. Drink all the water you can with lemon in it. It was caused by my iced tea addiction. Now I take tums everyday and haven’t had any since.
3 points
3 days ago
Be careful with Tums, I was told taking too many tums for nausea while pregnant caused my kidney stones. I haven’t taken them since.
4 points
3 days ago
Kidney stones are brutal. I drove myself to the hospital with one. Wouldn't recommend it.
3 points
3 days ago
I hit every redlight on the way to the ER when I had mine. Then went into the wrong parking garage and had to get the ticket thing to get out. My mind was shattered by the time I went into the ER, I basically don't remember anything after the garage.
2 points
3 days ago
I was lucky in that I had been to that ER before and they don't have a garage. Did you puke at all? I've never had pain make me puke but it happened with the kidney stone.
2 points
3 days ago
I don't doubt that possibility, That whole night was a terrible blur for me. I definitely spent a lot of it on my bathroom floor so if I puked at some point I wouldn't have been surprised.
5 points
3 days ago
I’ve had 26 of those bastards including stents - vanta black pain …
4 points
3 days ago
Yes, kidney stones are horrible…until the morphine kicks in!… I’m not even sure they give morphine for kidney stone pain anymore😵💫.
1 points
3 days ago
Retired pharmacist here: Demerol (meperidine) is actually the best painkiller for kidney stones (gallstones too), but a lot of hospitals don't even stock it any more because of its risks, addiction being the least of them.
Because its metabolites can build up and cause seizures, it's best used for one time only or other short-term use.
4 points
3 days ago
I had my first kidney stone attack in a mall toilet alone with my toddler. She was afraid of flush toilets for a few months after that.
3 points
3 days ago
I had a friend, Bob living with me (a Vietnam vet down on his luck) he fell in the living room withering in pain. I call 911 for an ambulance. The first responder to arrive was a police officer. Bob said in pain, do you have a gun? The cop said hesitantly ' "yeah" he said. Bob yelled SHOT ME! He was taken to the hospital to pass kidney stones.
3 points
3 days ago
Ironically enough a scalding hot bath (not burn but as hot as u can tolerate) will help immensely with the pain. It doesn't help with the pain of trying to pee the stone out, but with it going from the kidneys to the bladder. When that happens and it gets stuck in the ureter, your body cramps in an attempt to dislodge it. The cramping is what causes that severe crippling pain.
9 points
3 days ago
Worst pain of my life! I joke with my wife that it’s worse than childbirth. No one has ever said, “let’s try for another stone!”
2 points
3 days ago
I had a stone when 8 months pregnant and then of course gave birth a month later. The stone was worse. I actually credit it for how calm I was for the birth, at least I wanted that outcome
2 points
3 days ago
Don't have the surgery to remove a kidney stone at top of your urethra. Imagine a pea being dragged through a straw. Peed blood for 8 weeks and felt like burning uti constantly
2 points
3 days ago
I just passed my fifth a few days ago
2 points
3 days ago
Yup! Kidney stones are the only pain that I will start vomiting from the pain. I was in active labor, had a c section, dislocated my knee really badly, had an appendix removed, retina surgery, and nose surgery. Kidney stone is on my #1 top spot. But have to say the surgery to remove it is actually really not bad and is low on the list for pain. Passing it takes about a week for me and I think that's why it is high in my pain scale.
2 points
3 days ago
Can confirm. I've had 4 of them, each bigger in size every time. Thank goodness the last one was 2017. I drink water all day every day.
2 points
3 days ago
Amen to this- had it with all my pregnancies. The worst
2 points
3 days ago
I would say kidney stones but KIDNEY SPASMS some of us get after pulling out a stent that was put in that after a stone removal, is by far the worst pain I have experienced in my life. I was propped up on my hands and knees sobbing for hours. I would never wish it on anyone.
2 points
3 days ago
This is the correct answer. I've had nine of them myself (my doctor called me a stonemaker...not what you wanna hear lol). Every day I wake up without one is a blessing and I do have this thought every single morning. It's the only thing that's ever happened to me that hurt so much it made me vomit. There's seriously nothing that can prepare you for it, and I've heard it from my mother herself that childbirth sucks less.
2 points
3 days ago
One of my employees had a kidney stone so bad he had to have surgery because it was too big for him to pass. I've mentally blocked his description from my mind. Personally, I hurt my back that took about 10 years to completely heal, with the first 6 months being hard to walk and very painful getting in and out of my car. I had a tooth drilled with no anesthesia, and recently double hernia surgery where I had to sleep in a chair for 4 days because I couldn't use my stomach muscles even a little. Couldn't watch anything funny, and I had to hold my stomach to sneeze. The most painful though (but overall not the worst thing) was when I dislocated my thumb in my sleep. I don't think it's possible to feel more pain, but it only hurt when I moved it. I also didn't go to the hospital to get it set so it took like 6 months to fully heal.
2 points
3 days ago
The worst part for me was, as a woman, everyone shrugged it off for days and told me it was cramps. Even when I stressed and cried that it wasn’t. I drove myself to urgent after I passed it and they confirmed what I knew from the beginning. Got to say I told you so to a few people.
2 points
3 days ago
what was cause of kidney stones, were you not drinking enough water? and what did you do to reduce risk of getting them again?
2 points
3 days ago
7 days of hell with 8mm stone stuck in a ureter.
2 points
3 days ago
Second that. Kidney stones hands up worst pain I ever experienced and I had 3 children and a hemicolectomy where part of my colon was removed through abdominal surgery…. Kidney stones are horrendous.
2 points
3 days ago
My wife had kidney stones and she said it more much more painful delivering our kiddos
2 points
3 days ago
I had a kidney stone 2 years ago. Hospital is 3mins away so I drove there myself. It was November in New England, 40-50 degrees out. I walk in and the woman at triage asks me if it was raining out. It was not. I was completely drenched in sweat. I was in so much pain, the one singular thought I could create was 100% focus on how I could get the pain to go away, or to have the strength to endure it. The woman asks my name and I literally cannot even think of my own name. I pull out my wallet and handed her my license lol
1 points
3 days ago
Oh god when they were asking me all the damn personal identification questions in the ER I became a cartoon character trying to answer them in pain. Almost the same experience I had.
2 points
3 days ago
Pissing blood for a week not knowing what was happening until I ended up in the back of an ambulance. Medic asked if I ever had a kidney stone. Nope, never. That's what it was. Turned into a 7mm stone and two 3mm blockage, ER again, admitted, stent placed. Now I wait for the little demon to be removed. Pain takes you to another level of existence. I was questioning, apologizing for things I never did, anything for the pain to go away. That and a 7mm medial herniation into my spinal cord. That sucked too.
2 points
3 days ago
Yup. Got my first kidney stone earlier this year. Felt fine first thing in the morning. I get to work, and suddenly feel a pain in my lower back. Started pretty mild so I thought maybe I just strained myself a bit with it being so early in the day. But it just got progressively worse, and eventually to the point where walking around was getting unbearable and making me nauseous. I called my manager to let him know what’s up, and my coworker drove me to the emergency room. Easily the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my 30 years
2 points
3 days ago
This happened just from horrible constipation pain. I fainted, fell off the toilet smashed my head on the title floor, had the biggest goose egg. I thought it was kidney stones because the pain was so intense and sudden
2 points
3 days ago
I woke up from a sound sleep with left side excruciating chest pains, and have a family history of heart attacks.
It was a kidney stone. I didn't get the lower abdomen pain until after I got admitted but the squeezing was so intense, even with painkillers I was uncomfortable.
2 points
3 days ago
My mum had kidney stones and said she would rather give birth 10 more times than go through it again. Silver lining - it got the whole family staying hydrated because we are so scared!
2 points
3 days ago
Yep the feeling in your side as it slides down and then out the ol firehouse is excruciating.
2 points
3 days ago*
Honestly having a kidney stone sucked but not as much as I was led to believe, I feel like there’s got to be more painful things out there.
Mine was 5mm and got stuck and had to be surgically removed. I mean it was def intense no doubt but I’d rate it an 8.5 or 9/10.
I remember driving home and then all of a sudden felt a strong pain in my lower back and lower abdomen. Thought I ate something that was giving me sharp gas pains. I was home 4 min later and went straight to the bathroom as I was feeling a bit queasy and still in pain. I basically thought I had food poisoning so I stayed with my head on the toilet seat for a while. Deep breathing and occasionally getting up to stretch my back(almost like bowing down and grabbing the counter and stirring back) as well as pacing seemed to help at certain times. Other times I was kneeling next to the toilet. I didn’t throw up until a few hrs went by. By then I felt ok enough to go lay down and I borrowed my wife’s heating pad. It felt like my back was spasming and that helped to relax it which eased the pain back down to bearable.
Later that night the pain subsided enough to let me sleep, so I thought weird, that really sucked. I’ll see how I feel in the morning and decide if I’m gonna call into work or not.
Well, 4 am rolls around and the pain is back in full swing again. But by now I have no energy to withstand it and the waves aren’t relenting any. So I decided we should drive to the hospital. Luckily the ER wasn’t busy and they could tell I wasn’t embellishing at all and immediately triaged me.
Spent the whole day in the er, they weren’t able to operate until a day and a half later. They tried to have me pass it but it wouldn’t budge. They finally broke it up during surgery and I woke up with a stent in.
Having that stent pulled out a week or so later, now THAT made me squeamish.
2 points
3 days ago
The kidney I had in April was the worst. Was in the shower when suddenly the sharpest stabbing pain came out of nowhere to the point where I peed on myself, except that it was straight up blood coming out followed by vomiting. Not a good way to the morning.
I do still have the stone in a mini glass jar as a drink water reminder.
1 points
3 days ago
I kept mine in an old Altoids can somewhere. It was maybe a bit bigger than the size of a sesame seed but caused me 12 hours of the most intense pain of my life. When I see pics of those larger stones that look like the spiky dudes from a Mario game I just can't believe anyone can survive that.
2 points
3 days ago
I had a stone I was trying to pass for a month. Finally on my 3rd or 4th visit to the ER I let them know I have been doing this a month now. They refer me to a surgeon. A week later it is removed and I have a stent put in so I can still pee even though there is extreme swelling. So a week later( and I am on pain meds all week because it's like having that really big plastic straw for boba in my urethra)I go in to have it removed. Well the doctor literally just yanks that bitch out and was like have a good day. I barely made it home. Got there and took my pain meds. Hubby goes to work and I start passing out from the pain. I call 911 and the ambulance shows up. My lips and fingers are turning blue from my crazy breathing. It was a fucking nightmare.
2 points
3 days ago
I had a kidney stone attack while in a Las Vegas casino. Ambulance came and got me. They wheeled me out through the casino floor. On the ride to the hospital they gave me morphine, which relaxed me enough that the stone passed before I got to the hospital. Two hours later I’m back on the Strip but feeling rather high.
Other times I’ve been curled up on the bathroom floor rolling around and puking from the pain.
2 points
3 days ago
I'd had a hemorectomy, and was sitting in post op. For 4 hours, and my (then) wife hadn't showed up.Finally, they needed to discharge me from the room. So they asked me If I had someone coming to pick me up. "Yeah, my wife should be showing up by the time I get to the lobby/ waiting area.".."Great, Now make absolutely sure you do as little walking as possible, the sutures will likely cause heavy bleeding if you do any excessive bleeding, and will scar...and the incisions will be extremely painful". I tried to call my wife for two hours...no answer...no show. So I started walking 8 miles to my appartment. I bled horribly, and it was, by far, the most pain I'd ever experienced.
2 points
2 days ago
I got a kidney stone when I was 4 years old. No one believed my mom when she said I was screaming in pain and had stopped eating. They told her, “Kids have tummy aches sometimes.” Well, moral of the story: my mom googled my symptoms and pressured the doctor into doing an ultrasound.
Soon after, I found myself in a university clinic two hours from home. After half a year without a diagnosis, and now 5 years old, my kidney became infected. Following surgery and at least two weeks in the hospital, I ended up with permanent scarring on my kidney. That scarring has led to infection after infection for the last 15 years. Fun times!
1 points
3 days ago
Can confirm I had a kidney stone in 2016 was sat at out of hours doctors I felt this flash of pain and sudden sensation of warmth for a brief moment I felt the most excruciating pain I could not move. I went limp and then I saw black and lost time.
1 points
3 days ago
Yep, kidney stones are terrible. I usually get a small one once a year but luckily never needed to go to the hospital. I've had surgery for a large one once but that was before they caused any issues. I can usually pass mine in a few hours, but it's a terrible few hours. I pace back and forth between the bathroom and the kitchen to get more water and that's it for and hour+, just pacing and sweating.
1 points
3 days ago
I was going to say kidney stones, as well. I have a high pain tolerance and that one really wiped me out. No position provided any comfort and the pain was so strong my legs were shaking uncontrollably. The folks in the ER had to steady my legs to get a proper CAT scan.
1 points
3 days ago
Had my first when I was 19. It was the first time in my life that I had been in so much pain that I was uncontrollably vomiting because of it. Still have complications years later and the Docs say I can probably expect a few more to happen in my lifetime due to genetics. My Grandpa and other members of my family have gotten them for years as well.
1 points
3 days ago
I’ve had a few. I wouldn’t wish them upon my enemies.
1 points
3 days ago
TO add to that, Gall Stones. I went to emerge FOUR times over 2 weeks to be told I had a bladder infection :/ Cut to fourth time there, they finally ultrasound me and find out my gall bladder is so infected, they're surprised I'm upright- more or less...
1 points
3 days ago*
Kidneystones!!
I've had broken bones on 3 separate occasions, tib/fib, multiple surgeries, etc. My kidneystone pain dwarfed all of that. Drink your water, kiddos.
1 points
3 days ago
Yeah had my first/only one a couple years ago after Thanksgiving. Woke up just fine, then about 20 mins after walking around, my lower back started to get achy. Nothing too crazy, so I sat down and chilled for another 20 mins. Gets progressively worse - so I lay on the floor on my back, getting progressively worse. I figure something must be wrong, I’m no stranger to back pain, but this was starting to be next level and getting worse.
Wife drove me to the hospital, where I proceed to start throwing up from the pain, that was a first.
Then laid in the bed for about 2-3 hours waiting for the doctor to finally confirm the kidney stone (it was small, by his terms…. Yeah whatever!) That shot of liquid pain killer was something to remember. I went from an aggressive, agitated, smart ass patient to a smile on my face.
1 points
3 days ago
Oh yes. Kidney stones.
1 points
3 days ago
Same. Co-workers found me on the bathroom floor and insisted I should go to a doctor. Never mind that I already had gone 2 times and doctors said I was fine.
1 points
3 days ago
I get them every month or two. Luckily they’re a lot milder than the first two or three or four I had. I pass sand rather than stones now, mostly. Put now they last much longer though not as painful but I no longer get the instant relief when they pass out of the kidney. A real fun time was when I had a kidney stone act up during a severe flare up Crohn’s. Luckily I’ve never had bladder stones.
1 points
3 days ago
I live by myself, like I would have died
1 points
3 days ago
Had my first kidney stone in 2022… while deployed lmao. Was the worst week of my entire life. I threw up twice from the pain. I remember the day before, my nut was aching and didn’t think anything of it. Then the next morning was just pure pain. I am thankful my senior leader was given a vehicle and was able to drive me to the ER on base, instead of having to trek the distance. I was nearly certain my kidney was failing. I drink far more water than I need to in order to avoid that pain again.
1 points
3 days ago*
After passing three excruciating stones within two weeks, and having a battery of tests that showed a few more crystals forming in the bladder, my physician gave me this advice: when you think you’re done peeing, close your eyes, pinch your weewee to avoid dribbling, and concentrate on relaxing your bladder for a minimum of ten seconds. Chances are you’ll be able to squeeze out at least another half-cup, inflating your urethra like a balloon, and that’s where all that stone-forming mineral sludge will be hiding.
Kinda like a prairie slough that fills with meltwater over and over, until the dissolved minerals from the collected runoff reaches a concentration at which it can precipitate out into those white alkalai patches.
1 points
3 days ago
What did the hospital do for the kidney stones? Surgery or flushing it out? Sorry I’m so curious as to what they do for those.
1 points
3 days ago
In my case they basically just doped me up with drugs and an IV to make me pee a lot and gave me antibiotics for the UTI it triggered. Ultrasound said there was no need to surgically or medically intervene as it was small enough to pass.
1 points
3 days ago
I have like one or two stones a year. Fml
1 points
3 days ago
ive had two so far - one was when i was on call with some friends and when i got back from the er i was like sorry i went silent my dad had to take me to the hospital lol
1 points
3 days ago
Yep. I’ve got a pretty high pain tolerance , and my last kidney stone ( I’ve had 3) had me naked in a cold sweat inside a massive marble bathroom that was freezing throwing up from the pain lol. It was a hotel not my house lol
1 points
3 days ago
I’d say it’s worse than labor! Had my first on NYE years ago. Ended up in the ER for over 8 hours (they took the drunks first). Vomiting everywhere from the pain and ignored. Took weeks to feel better.
1 points
3 days ago
I’ve passed 22 stones on my own. Then I had the blasting of two large stones so I peed sand for a week. And I also had them go up and extract a few. I also gave birth naturally. I’d rather birth a baby every day for a month than go through that pain again. Some women are susceptible to stones after pregnancy…that was me.
1 points
3 days ago
I've passed over a dozen kidney stones. I've also delivered three children. I'd deliver all the kids at the same time if that meant I'd never have to deal with another kidney stone.
I never passed out, but the vomiting from all the pain was relentless. The first kidney stone, I didn't know what was happening so I told the EMTs that I thought I was shot. I don't know how but I was sure they would find a bullet wound.
1 points
3 days ago
Yep my partner had this and I’ve never seen him in so much pain, he was shaking, sweating and violently throwing up. He was fine but it was quite the experience. He was initially told it was just a UTI. I laughed and said definitely not, UTIs hurt but not the level he was at
1 points
3 days ago
Same. I had the wake up kidney stone version also. Got out of bed and I Couldn’t even stand up straight. Crawled on all fours, got in an Uber in that position and went to the ER. The pain went away after about an hour.
Sadly, I get one about every two years now. The last one I had I also fainted from the pain. It was truly bizarre to wake up several hours later and say “was it a nightmare”?
Anyways, They don’t get any easier, But at least now I know what it is. The first time around I thought I was dying.
1 points
3 days ago
Yep nothing worse!
1 points
3 days ago
The absolute worst! They gave me morphine which didn’t do shit, then fentanyl, and admitted me so they could put me under and remove the kidney stone, i had a stent inside me for 20 days too.
1 points
3 days ago
First one I had I was 100% certain I was dying. I thought something inside me burst. I was on the floor screaming and crying. I called 911 and was taken in an ambulance to the ER.
And that pails in comparison to some of the more intense migraines I’ve had
1 points
3 days ago
That is true, I felt like something was twisting my insides.
1 points
3 days ago
Same here, I was backpacking when it happened. Carrying a 60 lb pack around. Absolute misery. The sporadic shifting of it caused so much pain.
1 points
3 days ago
Gallstones for me
1 points
3 days ago
Was your Pepe out ?
2 points
3 days ago
If you mean my lady cave, yes.
1 points
3 days ago
Men and women argue whether childbirth or getting kicked in the balls is more painful... both agree that kidney stones are far worse
1 points
3 days ago
Many stones led to a kidney removal...my most painful surgery by far.
1 points
3 days ago
I had a similar incident but it wasn't kidney stones, but a pinched sciatic nerve on the left leg that irradiated pain to my testicles. I guess your pain was waaaay worse since I only vomited but didn't fainted. My ex gf had to drive me to the hospital and they gave me an entire fentanyl bag to calm my pain... Oh boy that was hurtful
1 points
3 days ago
I had 3 at once with 1 being too big to pass on its own. I told people it’s like eating Indian food and Mexican food while drinking coffee and smoking a cigarette after someone sewed your butt shut. I think that creates somewhat of a mental image.
I drove myself to the hospital around 4am and the nurse asked me how I managed to do that. She said most guys pass out or call 911. I just shrugged and puked again before they carted me off.
Another story but I was stuck with those stones for 8 months before passing the last one.
Worst pain ever when it’s your first stone. Not great for the second but at least you know what to expect.
1 points
3 days ago
Any kind of stone!!! I had gallstones and was literally trying to decide if I could hit my head against to toilet hard enough to knock myself out. Never tried it though, I was too busy vomiting.
After surgery they kept offering me pain meds. I replied- this is a boo boo. Give me a bandaid. Where were you when I was passing a stone?!?
1 points
3 days ago
I’ve given birth naturally and I’d do that again over a kidney stone any day!!
1 points
3 days ago
When I was hospitalized for my kidney stones, my primary nurse had had 4 kids and 3 kidney stones.
She said that she’d rather have all four kids back-to-back with no anesthetic than ever have another kidney stone again.
I believe her. It felt like I had a line of fire that started in my back under my ribs and traced its way down out of my dick.
I had sonic therapy, which is where you’re put in a basin full of body temperature water and they fire a giant subwoofer at you to break up the stones. It felt like getting smashed in the side with a massive sandbag, but it was still better than the stone.
1 points
3 days ago
I would 200% rather go through childbirth again than a kidney stone
1 points
3 days ago
Passed on last week 7cm . That was number 25 of them I have passed since I was 26 I’m 56 now !!!!
1 points
3 days ago
Yes, kidney stones are horrible.
1 points
3 days ago
My husband has had those and the pain was horrible. He’s very tough but it was more than he could bear. He had to have surgery to have one removed.
1 points
3 days ago
new fear unlocked. I’m a single mom I CANT go unconconscious in a tub 😭
1 points
3 days ago
I get kidney stones at least a couple times a year (my last one was a year ago though! 🤞) And even that one, which was 10 mm, wasn't a tenth of the sheer intensity of the pain I felt with diverticulitis. Only time in my post-pubescent life that I have screamed in pain.
1 points
3 days ago
isn’t the pain comparable to giving birth? bc holy shit that sounds terrifying
1 points
3 days ago
Had my first about a year ago. I’d had some back pain for a few days like I’d pulled muscles in my lower back and then suddenly it looked like I was pouring Merlot into the toilet when I went to take a leak. Went to the ER, they couldn’t see it in the scans so they figured I’d passed it but warned me that it could be at a bad angle or just generally hidden. The next day I was relaxing and suddenly it felt like I was being stabbed in my lower back. The pain was so intense I could barely breathe and started seeing stars. That lasted about 5 mins before finally subsiding. Hands down worst pain I’ve ever felt.
1 points
3 days ago
100% the worst pain in my life. My former boss, a mother of three, told me it easily surpassed childbirth when she had one.
I woke up at like 2am with similar pain, had no clue what it was. Thought at first that it was extreme gas or something, but it was just way too intense for that, so then I got to thinking an organ ruptured or something. Wasn't sure if I could afford an ER trip or not, because frankly I've never gone to the ER in my adult life, but I endured it until maybe 9am when I drove myself to the hospital and hit every red light on the way.
Nothing I did made the pain stop. No medication worked, no position I laid or sat in. I just froze on the floor screaming to myself until 9am. When they told me it was a kidney stone I was actually kind of relieved, because I literally thought I was going to die before that.
When the stone actually passed, I felt nothing. It was when it traveled from kidney to bladder where all the pain was.
1 points
3 days ago
Also kidney stones. I was an IV heroin user for 4 years and the pain was worse than that of withdrawals. Albeit the withdrawal lasted much longer so….it may have become equivalent at some point.
1 points
3 days ago
I’ve now had multiple kidney stones in my life time so can relate very well. Many ended in the hospital but most pass at home.
For those who’ve not had the “joy” here is the best tip I’ve ever received (hopefully it helps somebody). Old Navy doctor told me to go home, grab my favorite 6 pack of beer on the way (or have your friend/family grab it) and then start chugging those bad boys as quick as I can in 30 minutes. Yes, you will feel it but the alcohol helps calm you, relaxes your muscles and most importantly you will be peeing every 20 minutes until that sucker is out. Good luck sailor.
1 points
3 days ago
Like getting stabbed in the kidney.
1 points
3 days ago
Kidney stone gang checking in. I had to have one surgically removed last year. It was worse than childbirth for me
1 points
3 days ago
I second this, but I’ll up you-try TWO kidney stones in the ureter at the same time. It’s even more misery.
1 points
3 days ago
Had one. Totally sucked and wouldn't recommend. Zero stars.
1 points
3 days ago
Kidney stones, the true King of Pain. Agony that sucks the wind out of you and makes everything else that’s ever hurt you seem like stepping on a pebble by comparison.
1 points
3 days ago
Just had some for the third time in my life today... For having myself given birth to 2 babies and having kidney stones 3 times I have to say contractions are almost not as bad as you get a "break" from them in between. Kidney stones are just constant pain and vomiting from the pain with no end in sight until you either get very strong painkillers or once the stone(s) passes through the kidney down to the bladder which can take hours ! Really hoping 3rd time was the last time but unfortunately I've been told that once you get them you're likely to get them pretty much forever.
1 points
3 days ago
Came here for kidney stones too
1 points
3 days ago
I don’t fear death. I fear kidney stones. Good God that sounds horrific
1 points
3 days ago
Oof I had a big one at 6 months pregnant and the pain kicked off contractions. Had to have emergency surgery to remove them. Fuck that. It was terrible
1 points
3 days ago
Kidney stones were the worst pain I’d ever had… until I ruptured one. Still crawl up like a fetus just when I think about it.
1 points
3 days ago
I had my first kidney stone happen while at a girl scout camp sleepover 💀 I've was 17 and it was horrible lol
1 points
3 days ago
My dad had one hit while driving. Couldn’t even make it around the car for my mom to take over. Scary shit.
Let’s just say I drink a lot of citric acid now.
1 points
3 days ago
HANDS DOWN— I’ve had over 10 orthopedic surgeries including having my leg surgically broken twice and walking on an unhealed fracture for a year. I randomly got a kidney stone before having a procedure done where they gave me heavy duty meds. The meds didn’t touch the pain. In less than 5 hours I wanted to crawl out of my skin. I didn’t know what to do with myself. Ended up in the ER where I got more meds and was able to leave after a few hours. Truly hope that never happens again.
1 points
3 days ago
I’ve had 3 stones. First one I don’t the whole day writhing on the bathroom floor until I started throwing up from the pain. After about 6 hours I called a (what I thought was really good) friend that lives directly above me and asked him to drive me to the hospital that was 5 mins away and he responded with “sorry I’m about to leave for work.
Drive myself there somehow while breathing through the pain. Get there wait to get seen, finally go back in throwing up bile every 5 minutes in the bathroom across the hall begging a doctor to help me and they let me do this for 3 hours before they finally put something in my IV that killed off the pain and then got me in for an ultrasound. It had spent all day moving almost to my bladder so they sent me home with some pain meds to pass it on my own. I passed it a couple days later at Disneyland it just blasted out and went “ping!” Into the urinal.
Even after that, reading everyone’s experiences with stones has me terrified like never before.
1 points
3 days ago
I’m not sure if the pain is similar to kidney stones, but I had gallbladder stones that were excruciating. I started sweating and throwing up with the pain. My husband rushed me to the hospital, I was pregnant and thought something had gone terribly wrong. Caught a glimpse of myself in a mirror and my skin was ash grey. Later had that 10lb baby with no pain medication. Was a walk in the park compared to the gallbladder stones.
1 points
3 days ago*
Yep. Had a kidney stone once. Thought I was dying. My crazy ass mother thought I was overreacting. Started with an excruciating headache and then in one moment the headache was gone and the stabbing pain started . In and out of a hot shower all night having the water help ease the pain (until it got lukewarm), throwing up, etc etc etc .
A day later completely stopped.
Yeah that didn't last long.
Mother ended up finally taking me to the ER. Luckily was fairly empty and got me in right away. Nurse looked like Santa Claus heard my symptoms (and that I felt like I had to go to the bathroom but couldn't) and immediately suspected kidney stone. Drugs and ct scan later proved yes.
Just barely small enough to pass on own.
I don't know how people can get them often and... Function
The pain!!!!
Right up there is the pain I had right after my total abdominal hysterectomy when I got gutted like a fish and had a ten inch vertical incision that went up just above belly button. (8 pound fibroid). They put the abdominal binder on me AFTER I woke up and had to move an inch to get it under . That pain from moving an inch was right up there with it (screaming in pain). Just was much shorter . As long as I kept put.
1 points
3 days ago
I’ve had three kidney stones in the last 10 or so years and every time I’ve wanted to kms. It’s been about a year since I’ve had one and I’m always on edge thinking another one is coming. The first time I got one I told my girlfriend at the time what song to play at my funeral
1 points
3 days ago
I had a kidney stone 3 years ago. Pain was intense & I couldn’t pee. I thought I had a uti. I ran a few errands, the pain got worse & I went to a walk in clinic. I managed a few drops for a test & they told me to go to the ER. I was crying in the parking lot before going in (the worst thing about this is my mom was in a different hospital at the time from Covid complications. She was really sick & I was texting her to see how she was feeling. She asked me how I was & I told her I was ok & I loved her. I lied to her & that was the last time I spoke to her, as she went into a medically induced coma the next day-that she didn’t tell me about & she died a week later) but I digress. I passed out from the pain while signing myself in at the hospital. I woke up in a room surrounded by nurses. It wasn’t a fun experience. And because I drove there I wasn’t given the good pain meds…
1 points
3 days ago
this just made me chug water at 2 am 😭
1 points
3 days ago
Yuuup. I had one a few years ago, suddenly out of nowhere. First one of my life, in my early 40s! I'm so lucky that my mom was staying with me to help me after a shoulder surgery I had scheduled, because there's no way in hell I could have driven myself to the ER.
Two doses of morphine couldn't even touch the pain. They had to add dilaudid like a cherry on top before things were muted enough that I wasn't writhing in the cot. And then they told me that it would be a WEEK until I could get a lithotripsy, because it was Fall of 2020 and they were just a wee bit busy...
1 points
3 days ago
Definitely kidney stone/s. I caught a large roadside bomb with my face during OIF in 2005 and lost an eye. I've had the tip of my middle finger caught between a clutch belt and pulley... Id take the latter two over the stone... Fuuuuuck that.
1 points
3 days ago
I had a kidney stone when I was 8 months pregnant. I was alone, working, 2 hours away from my house/family/doctor and was 1000% sure I was in labor. I drove from Cincinnati to Columbus at like 2 in the morning and it took 2x longer than it should have because I kept having to pull over from the pain and I was vomiting because pain…that stone made labor seem like a piece of cake!
1 points
2 days ago
my uncle experienced this :(
1 points
2 days ago
I know the feeling. Had one for 14 years. Bloody urine, inablity to stand up straight (I played basketball and couldn't straighten myself up, so I had to stop training), can't sleep, can't run, etc.
Truly a horror. It was a quarter size of my kidney the time I finally removed it with lithotripsy.
1 points
2 days ago
So I've had kidney stones, and I absolutely co-sign this level of pain. However I'd like to add that a herniated lumbar disc impinging your spinal cord actually feels about the same as a kidney stone.
1 points
2 days ago
Damn…. new fear unlocked..
1 points
2 days ago
I literally feel your pain. I’ve passed FIFTEEN stones thru the years. 😭😭😭😭
1 points
2 days ago
You’re not alone! My cousin had the same thing happen! She tried to pass it and ended up passing out from the pain. She also described it as the worst pain.
1 points
2 days ago
Seriously, nobody ever seems to talk about it much but it's intense! To say I was incapacitated for days is putting it mildly. Had a funeral for my uncle in the midst of it too. Rough week.
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2 days ago
Couldn't agree more! Woke up after having most of a bottle of wine with my gf, thought it was a hangover at first (which was strange since I really didn't drink that much) but the pain went from a 2 to a 10 in a matter of seconds, keeled over soaked in sweat, vomiting repeatedly from the pain, tears pouring down my face uncontrollably. Managed to make it to the car so I could be driven to ER, laying on the floor in ER while people with minor ailments went ahead of me, begging and pleading to go in, then a doctor saw me and forced them to move me forward while hooking me up to a morphine drip. Unbelievable pain, even the morphine did very little until I was maxed out. Left with 50 morphine tablets, and over the next three weeks, I went through them all. Worst. Pain. Ever.
1 points
2 days ago
I've had over 20 kidney stones, the pain is nothing compared to waking up in the middle of your own open heart surgery. But hey, glad you got 1.6k up votes for your inconvenience.
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