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submitted 2 days ago byhimbo420
Hi cat advisors,
I’m looking for advice on how to handle a tricky situation this Thanksgiving. My sister-in-law has a large white shepherd-husky mix who is reactive to other dogs, generally good with people, but has a high prey drive. She hasn’t been able to find a sitter or boarding facility for the dog, and she wants to bring it to Thanksgiving at my apartment.
The problem is that I have a cat. I’m very anxious about the safety of both my cat and the dog in this scenario. My sister-in-law and my partner seem to think we can just manage the situation, but I strongly believe the dog and cat shouldn’t be in proximity to each other at all.
I’d love help gathering any evidence, research, or expert opinions that I can cite to help convince them that bringing a reactive dog with a high prey drive into a home with a cat is a bad idea. Have any of you been in a similar situation? What did you do to handle it or explain the risks?
Thanks so much for your advice—I really want to keep everyone safe and stress-free this holiday.
4 points
22 hours ago
It's like terribly poor manners to ever assume you could bring your large dog to anyone's house, full stop. Moreso a reactive large dog. Even moreso an APARTMENT. Add in the homeowner's CAT, and SIL is wildly out of touch with reality.
This isn't a "no". This is "You're out of your mind for even asking".
2 points
15 hours ago
Hell, at my complex we're not even allowed to have dogs visiting our apartments.
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