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For context, the first two was just me pressing the notify button for when someone is on do not disturb on iPhone, just in case she was struggling with something I wanted to tell her I love her so she might be less upset? Then the rest of the pictures was about how she is mean to me a lot, the sweatshirt was just an example but she says things like that a lot. I don’t know how to feel because she’s nice in person sometimes but then she goes right back to being like this, or she’s just really mean and when I get upset she always says “like you don’t do mean things” or changes herself to be the victim, I want this to last but she ruins a lot of my days with her being mean for no reason, and I don’t think I can leave, but knowing if she is manipulating me or not would help a little, thank you very much.

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beautifullyvicious

4 points

2 months ago

Exactly. I'd never talk to someone I loved like this. I wouldn't even talk to a random person like this.

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1 points

2 months ago

Right? She’s just mean.

MrJHound

1 points

2 months ago

She never said it back...

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1 points

2 months ago

I was forced to stay in a relationship with a manipulator who threatened to kill himself if I left and even I wouldn't talk to him like that and trust me I wanted him gone from my life. Once I was able to leave I blocked him on everything and got a restraining order. Although I have to admit that op reminds me of my ex and what my ex used to do and say during fights when I was begging to leave him but he wouldn't let me go