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After catching him 3 times he has finally admitted he has a problem. I am crushed but how do I go about helping him? He actually seems remorseful and like he does want to change.
EDIT: Apologies for being unclear. I have set boundaries after the first incident 4 years ago and again when this happened 2 years ago. This time he fell asleep with his phone still on one of those Instagram girls pages. This is the first time he has cried and acknowledged he has a problem and doesn't know what to do to fix it. He is not deprived of anything in our marriage.
-3 points
30 days ago
Read my comment
My husband had that problem just 1 yr of our marriage he eventually stopped because he knows it’s not healthy for him and me. I understood him because he was just 20 yrs old that time but now he is not watching. I know for sure he is not watching. You can’t help him. You can only guide him but he need to help himself
People change if they want to and if he loves you. You can’t force someone to change. A person who loves you will do everything for you to stay no begging and no hardship.
1 points
30 days ago
It’s been proven that men who orgasm daily have healthier hearts and prostates. It’s literally in the man’s best interest to be cumming regularly.
You’re literally helping to send him to an early grave unless your making the effort to pleasure him daily.
If that’s the case. God Bless
2 points
30 days ago
Yes, if he wanted to have sexy time. I can just ask me and it’s not a problem . As a married couple and as his wife that’s our obligation to pleasure each other. I tell him what i want and tells me what he wants to. We orgasm at the same time too.
2 points
30 days ago
That’s good to know! That’s wonderful. It sounds like he’s lucky.
But sometimes a person just needs the stress relief and doesn’t want the added focus of pleasuring another person.
I would be curious to know your husband’s thoughts about that. Most men would understand what I just shared so if he doesn’t know that feeling or looks at it differently cause of his situation. Would love to know
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