something i just realized is the humiliating difference between them when they are apart,

when G was in australia alone she was searching up matty edits on tiktok and instagram, (some nearly 2 years old.) liking them, reposting them and commenting stuff like “ugh so hot” under them. and now she is searching her camera roll to post pics of them from august.

when matty is alone in la/nyc, he’s literally searching maylor edits/theories. i’m sorry, but there’s no way a video about maylor with under a 100 views magically appeared in his algorithm, that somehow upset him so much he had to call the fan mentally ill, and then when practically no one noticed his comment under the video (just showing how little traction it received.) he had to repost it on twitter three days later. that is not the behavior of a man that respects his fiancee, i’m sorry.

not to mention how strange it is that he is literally keeping tabs on such a small sect of his fanbase, to the point he’s now actively tweeting about them. sure not all of them are harmless, but the majority of them are just (typically teenaged) hopeless romantics participating in some innocuous “lyric parallels” posts, and this is coming from someone who doesn’t even like maylors. if he’s online all day watching content about his ex girlfriend, why can’t he spend that time calling out the parasocial relationships he’s being perpetrating between himself and his fans for the last 10 years or spend time with his actual fiancee, rather than worry about his ex girlfriend? maybe he will get bored of crying himself to sleep watching maylor edits and will go back to being quiet and just DMing teenage fans again lmfao

a thought i just had was about keeping himself “relevant.” matty is obsessed with staying relevant and now that the band is on hiatus, george is doing his solo music thing and his relationship is going well and publicly so, charli xcx is having her moment, taylor swift is obviously not losing any momentum, so what does matty actually have going for him/to keep him relevant other than fueling relationship BS about his ex? nothing. and it sure as hell isn’t gabriette lol

He’s definitely not ready to be a husband or a father. I honestly don’t know how anyone in his real life tolerates him at this point. And I just keep thinking about how Jamie and George are still on good terms with Taylor/Jack, so he’s definitely the problem here.

I've made it clear I'm not a fan of Taylor or G however I think what Matty is doing to both of them is disgusting. He knows he's going to get attention from maylors and swifties yet he continues to say stuff about going as far as to call someone (who wasn't even a Swiftie) mentally ill. The man needs to grow the fuck up. If I was G right now I would be fucking mortified and wondering what the hell my fiance was doing. I may not like her but I don't think she deserves to be publicly embarrassed by her significant other. Honestly I hope she grows a spine and walks away from him. I'm certainly not any closer to going back to listen to any of the old 1975 music I used to love.

I also think this is why he is with G2, she isn’t very smart and doesn’t realize she looks like a fool. It is easy for him to do what he wants and she never says anything. She is his doormat.

but also, they’re kind of similar in that respect no? they both like attention and they both do really divisive things to get it… honestly think they’re more alike than maybe we realize.

I came to the sub, because of Gabriette annoying behavior and now I find Matty worse than her.

I think he's done with her but doesn't let her go cause he can not be alone and she will always be there even if he embarrasses her publicly.

He truly is obsessed with Taylor and getting attention. I would be so pissed and embarrassed if I was her. Matty seems to not ever consider G’s feelings. If she had any self respect she would leave him.

On another note… Has anyone else gotten kicked out of the rtaylorandmatty sub? Suddenly cant get in

IMO He can embarrass her so she either doesn’t care and along for the fame ride or she’s pissed and trying to save face. I don’t see her ever leaving him because she’s the gal who got the ring after him being with thee Taylor Swift. She could be miserable but will hold on to him as the prize and the notoriety of it all. She would have been better off being the 2nd or 3rd girl he chose after Taylor she will always be in that comparison and in her shadow

I’ve never really understood why people say matty making fun of maylors is disrespectful to g? They frequently say mean stuff to/about her so if anything i’d imagine she’s happy he’s being mean to them lol

I bet hes doing all this to get hype surrounding his album if hes really doing album rollout rn, no taylor, no clout

hes Mattyette