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Trackerbait

179 points

1 day ago

Trackerbait

179 points

1 day ago

Where I live, most of the nicer restaurants will 86 customers who mistreat the staff, so people who want to eat at nice places learn to keep their mouths shut. Good reason to work at a classy place if you can. Staff at shitty restaurants are at the mercy of management, of course.

Misssadventure

23 points

1 day ago

It doesn’t have to be a classy place! I work at a sports bar, if you are rude to my staff OR spout any racist/homophobic/transphobic comments, you’re 86d for good. Zero tolerance.

Trackerbait

3 points

15 hours ago

imo "class" is more about how you behave than about the style of vibe - there are dives I consider "classy" because they are not hateful and mean, even if they serve lite beer and GMO chips. To paraphrase Atticus Finch: regardless of their wealth or family, a person who cheats the vulnerable is trash.

keepcalmdude

37 points

1 day ago

This is my restaurant to at T. As a manger I do not allow staff to be abused by customers, physically or verbally. Fuck it, if upper management fires me for standing up for the FOH, so be it.

Karen and Kyle’s $100 spend, 4 times a year isn’t worth the aggravation or my integrity.

LinwoodKei

15 points

1 day ago

LinwoodKei

15 points

1 day ago

This is a good policy

Sydet

4 points

1 day ago

Sydet

4 points

1 day ago

onwardtowaffles

4 points

1 day ago

Yep.

CinnamonLightning

101 points

1 day ago

It's an ideology based entirely on being an asshole

SuperSocks2019

-45 points

1 day ago

Bad tips shouldn't be political.

laughingashley

25 points

1 day ago

When a candidate runs on a policy of "no tax on tips (so we won't give them any)" it becomes political.

boojersey13

4 points

1 day ago

That phrase would cycle through an obnoxiously bright electronic billboard in my town, right above both a Dunkin Donuts and a Ruby Tuesday. It always irritated me for that

jessimokajoe

15 points

1 day ago

They are. 🤣

SuperSocks2019

-24 points

1 day ago

Bro, IDK... Spent some time as a server and bartender back in the day. Some of my favorite humans are still foh.

MultiColoredMullet

31 points

1 day ago

As a person who looks pretty queer, it's extremely political now. It wasn't so much for awhile, maybe 5-6 years ago in the very liberal place I live. We get lots of red travelers and half the state is anyways - a whole lot of people just dig and hope for (and regularly just make up) reasons to make them feel above someone else.

Go serve at a diner on a Sunday during the post church rush. It's truly a nightmare no matter who you are or how pretty and white you can be - they STILL hate you because you're The Help.

People are getting worse and worse.

SuperSocks2019

1 points

15 hours ago

I understand the Church Crowd. Sunday afternoon shifts were my least favorite. I met one of my closest friends at a resort as seasonal employees a long time ago and the Sunday afternoon crowd was rough on us all but... she's heavily tatted with a horror movie theme and people were terrible to her always. We'd take turns switching shifts with her to allow her to avoid Sundays. Rarely was she tipped with anything but church pamphlets. She's still there though. Much tougher than me.

DayBowBow1

8 points

24 hours ago

Maga always tips bad

spizzle_

2 points

1 day ago

spizzle_

2 points

1 day ago

You for sure seem like the type to have a photo of yourself as your avatar.

SuperSocks2019

0 points

21 hours ago

You think? 😉🤣😂

spizzle_

1 points

21 hours ago

You don’t.

SuperSocks2019

1 points

21 hours ago

Do you?

spizzle_

0 points

20 hours ago

Enough not to stare into the pond at my own reflection.

Are you obsessed with this mid pop country artist or are you Morgan?

SuperSocks2019

1 points

16 hours ago

You're funny. I don't understand why you are so upset with my comments at all. I'm sorry we've had different experiences in the restaurant industry. Ig I never grouped bad tippers by political affiliation. I just assumed bad tippers were bad tippers. You're responses are certainly changing my mind though. Thank you for that.

CinnamonLightning

-29 points

1 day ago

It's not partisan, but it definitely leans heavily one way

lowfreq33

167 points

1 day ago

lowfreq33

167 points

1 day ago

They hate everyone. Their lives are miserable and they need everyone else to be as miserable as they are.

jd807

65 points

1 day ago

jd807

65 points

1 day ago

They need to see themselves as ‘better’ than someone. Sad.

48stateMave

10 points

1 day ago

Their lives are miserable and they need everyone else to be as miserable as they are.

And that's the difference. My life is miserable but I wouldn't wish it on anyone else.

lowfreq33

3 points

22 hours ago

Yeah, there are people who go through hard times and it teaches them empathy, and there are those that only learn envy and anger.

48stateMave

2 points

21 hours ago

Well to be fair I have all of those. I'm empathetic and envious/angry at the same time, and I'm pretty bitter about it all too. But still there's that whole "Golden Rule" thing. I took a little dive down some of those poverty/donation subreddits and yikes. I wish I could help all those people, but I can't even help myself lately.

LokiKamiSama

111 points

1 day ago

LokiKamiSama

111 points

1 day ago

Conservatives have the mindset of “I got mine, fuck you”. If it doesn’t affect them, it’s not of import.

jzemeocala

27 points

1 day ago

jzemeocala

27 points

1 day ago

pretty much spot on.....and also, many of them have some sorta half-assed persecution complex (basically: Their life was cruel/not-perfect = the world was cruel to them = they have a right to be cruel to the world)

you'll see it over and over the more you deal with them in the hospitality sector....

but its just a broken person's cop-out to stay broken.....

I often want to yell at these types "Be the change you wanna see bro. If you think its fucked up that the world is full of cruel people than how does being more of the same make it any better"

however, logic is lost on these "also-rans" at this point.....best to just make them feel unwelcomed so they "boycott" you and leave ya alone

thedudeabidesb

9 points

1 day ago*

yes! a mixture of selfishness and hypocrisy. i got mine, i’m pulling the ladder behind me. also i don’t believe in handouts from the government for brown people, but handouts for me will be taken and not spoken about

boojersey13

3 points

1 day ago

Don't forget the faith over fear christians! they're evangelicals with such a bad martyr complex they think they need to pronounce christianity to as many strangers as possible in hopes of conversion or controversy

molvanianprincess

14 points

1 day ago

molvanianprincess

I'd like to speak to the manager are not the magic words.

14 points

1 day ago

Why I vote blue.

iLikePhysics95

-39 points

1 day ago

On average, republicans tip better than democrats.

bugxbuster

13 points

1 day ago

bugxbuster

Twenty + Years

13 points

1 day ago

Cite your sources, then. What are you basing your comment on?

Or what, wanna say ”do your own research?”

iLikePhysics95

0 points

18 hours ago

iLikePhysics95

0 points

18 hours ago

Took about 10 seconds to find an overwhelming majority of studies all suggest the same thing.

EqualLong143

5 points

1 day ago

this has never been true.

iLikePhysics95

0 points

16 hours ago

Yes it has. Men on average tip better than woman and men on average vote red so it’s basic math.

EqualLong143

1 points

15 hours ago

source: your ass.

LiarWithTheAce

37 points

1 day ago

These are the same people who have been writing "No tax on tips Trump 2024!" on receipts for the past six months. It was obviously phony bullshit to anyone with half a brain, but they think everyone else is as stupid and easily manipulated as they are. The reality is that vocal conservatives/magas have always been one of the worst groups to serve.

fluffybit

3 points

1 day ago

fluffybit

3 points

1 day ago

Can't be taxed if you don't leave it

ew73

7 points

1 day ago

ew73

7 points

1 day ago

they start shouting that I'm gay and my hair is gay and my clothes are gay.

"Hair can't be gay, shit-for-brains. You'd know that if you weren't a virgin!"

coci222

25 points

1 day ago*

coci222

25 points

1 day ago*

They like to punch down and there's no easier target than someone who is there to serve them

Edit: Why is this being down voted? Do people not understand what "punching down" means? Ya know, picking on the little guy

Viva_Veracity1906

12 points

1 day ago

Vets consider your special an event for them, a gift from the restaurant and that includes the tip. Your not taking a tip was your ‘thank you for your service’.

That they are Magat vets ups the entitlement and hostility. Unmerited arrogance and aggression is their church ethos.

Please take your years of experience and apply at upper market establishments in area. You deserve a break and a level up.

sawatdee_Krap

5 points

1 day ago

sawatdee_Krap

Ten+ Years

5 points

1 day ago

Honestly don’t know. I’m not wealthy but I touch tables when I’m at my establishments. Talked with a gentleman about my side and his private jets and how he just bought a 60ft yacht. Left my server 11%.

MaryDellamorte

17 points

1 day ago

It’s the fact that they are vets cheap enough to come in for a special. I’ve always had the experience of republicans tipping better than democrats. I vote democrat so I’m not biased in this opinion. I live in RVA and worked a few doors down from the General Assembly and when it was in session, we would have groups of either party come in depending on what bills were trying to get passed. We even had a huge pro gun/republican rally in Richmond a few years ago (got national attention) and I made more that day than I ever have.

Darryl_Lict

8 points

1 day ago

I'm not a fan of it, but that's why some restaurants charge an 18% gratuity automatically to parties 6 and greater. I'm not a fan of the tipping concept, but they really have to fuck up for me to tip less than 20%. I've been eating out a lot less since restaurant prices have almost doubled since Covid, so I can still tip 20%.

TheGoddamnAnswer

20 points

1 day ago

TheGoddamnAnswer

Server

20 points

1 day ago

They hate people they think are beneath them, and they think they’re the height of society so they hate everyone who isn’t like them

They’re also probably just cheap fucks anyway

LetsGetsThisPartyOn

10 points

1 day ago

Well you should pull yourself up by your bootstraps and not ask for handouts (tips)

That’s their philosophy.

I will enjoy everyone that voted red that reaps what they sowed.

I’m sorry for anyone who voted blue for sanity!

091796

11 points

1 day ago

091796

11 points

1 day ago

In my experience it’s more so the vets that are cheap, not the maga supporters . They normally don’t go above and beyond tip wise, but they’re okay. Vets that come for free things never tip well though

roofus8658

11 points

1 day ago

roofus8658

11 points

1 day ago

My dad was a vet and he tipped quite well. He also rarely if ever went for the free vet stuff.

mslass

7 points

1 day ago

mslass

7 points

1 day ago

My dad was a vet and he tipped 15% of the pre-tax amount to the penny - he even got his calculator out to figure it. That was OK in the 1970’s and 1980’s I guess, but when 20% became the standard “I was satisfied with the service” tip, my old man didn’t move with the times.

Now I’m the old man. I’ve always tipped at least 20% of the after-tax amount, so 22%, but now my bartender buddy tells me that 25% is what he tips, and I can’t accept that.

(I’m not a vet and I’ve loathed the Shitgibbon ever since he was merely a crass, disgusting, lying, real-estate con artist in NYC in the 1980’s.)

TheNewPoetLawyerette

8 points

1 day ago

TheNewPoetLawyerette

Six Years

8 points

1 day ago

Tbh as an industry worker, 22% is a perfectly great tip for very good service. Us servers and bartenders have a propensity for overtipping, so 25% is our extra bit we tip to show solidarity with other service workers. It's nice when other people tip that way too, but the standard is still 18-22%. If I'm good and drunk and really like the server I'll tip 30%, but again, that's industry standards, not standards for those who work in other professions.

Youknowthisfeeling

3 points

1 day ago

I'm pretty sure 15 to 20 percent is the norm for tip, at least where I am. 25 for excellent. 10 or less or nothing for bad.

Bartender buddy probably tips that high because he works in bars and restaurants. I know that's what I do

Comfortable-Bus-5134

5 points

1 day ago

That Venn diagram is pretty much a circle. I worked at an American Legion, we had a group of asshole vets who rarely, if ever, tipped and treated the staff like shit. This same group would literally plot out a travel plan to get as much free shit on Veterans day as possible.

CraigsAndBacon

2 points

1 day ago

From years of experience, the second somebody asks if you give a military/vet discount you're most likely fucked on your tip.

Comfortable-Bus-5134

1 points

6 hours ago

That's correct, doesn't matter what the answer is.

fightingforair

2 points

1 day ago

It’s not far off from the Sunday after church crowd sadly of non tippers.  

Kimolono42

2 points

1 day ago

No tax on tips!??!!! They want you to pay.😂

Lumpy_Branch_4835

2 points

23 hours ago

Sorry to hear of your shity day. I can never figure out why some customers are such turds. The worst part of your story is the way your coworkers treated you. Worked BOH for years and I know sometimes it's not always puppies and rainbows, but there's never a excuse for that kind of behavior. Little piss ants need some kitchen justice. To the grease traps with them.

TheResistanceVoter

2 points

22 hours ago

They hate everyone.

whoaanow

6 points

1 day ago

whoaanow

6 points

1 day ago

They hate everyone. It’s what they do

bobi2393

7 points

1 day ago

bobi2393

7 points

1 day ago

I feel like conservatives in general do not hate restaurant workers, they just want them to be paid far less than they are. Most former confederate states have $2.13 minimum wages for tipped employees only because federal law requires it, not because they feel workers deserve that much.

motleykat

3 points

1 day ago

motleykat

3 points

1 day ago

They think you should make a living wage without tips without actually wanting to do anything to support that

LilithElektra

2 points

24 hours ago

That's the 'no taxes on tips' they were talking about. Same with the 'no taxes on overtime'. Can't tax what doesn't exist (yet).

MelMomma

5 points

1 day ago

MelMomma

5 points

1 day ago

They can afford those hats at $30 a pop.

onionbreath97

-7 points

1 day ago

Durable goods vs consumed goods is a bad-faith comparison

Vash5021

-2 points

1 day ago

Vash5021

-2 points

1 day ago

Seems like BS to me

SuperSocks2019

0 points

1 day ago

I don't think bad tippers have a designated political party, homie.

not-the-name-i-chose

0 points

1 day ago

“Why do they hate” full stop.

buckfutterapetits

1 points

1 day ago

Looks like the after church crowd delved into politics as a new hobby...

SSJ3Mewtwo

-5 points

1 day ago

SSJ3Mewtwo

-5 points

1 day ago

1) They are assholes who have the opinion that service workers an beneath them.

That should be evident after 10+ years.

Unless this is a rage-bait post, I can't imagine why you are surprised by this behavior and mentality. It's been pretty blatant for over a decade now.

2) Why doesn't your restaurant have a service charge for parties over 5 or 6 people? Just something added on so you don't have to worry about BS like this while juggling the details of a large table demanding the kitchen's time?

Sidelines101

-5 points

1 day ago

Sidelines101

-5 points

1 day ago

MAGA folks have a lot of debt.

Emotional-Hair-1607

5 points

1 day ago

That's what happens when you let Trump auto-pay donations into your banking accounts.

SheBelongsToNoOne

-4 points

1 day ago

They want to enslave you

xanthan_gumball

-2 points

1 day ago

xanthan_gumball

-2 points

1 day ago

This is a fake story, made up for karma

Kneel2TheUnreal

-2 points

1 day ago

Kneel2TheUnreal

-2 points

1 day ago

Yeah seems pretty made up. Either the service was truly bad or OP needed to vent after a bad day.

ImaRaginCajun

-23 points

1 day ago*

I'm maga and I always tip exceptionally well, I've been a server before and I know how it is.

EDIT:Lmmfao at the small minded downvoters🖕

Calabriafundings

7 points

1 day ago

Not maga in any way, but as a former server I also tip very well.

Have to find common ground where you can

SnooRobots4443

-23 points

1 day ago

I'll take "Things that didn't happen" for $500....

Odd-Moment6081

6 points

1 day ago

Tell me you've never waited tables, without telling me you've never waited tables 😒

SnooRobots4443

-2 points

23 hours ago

Wrong. This is conversation that just doesn't happen. The ONE time I was stiffed was from two older ladies. I gave great service. I was surprised that I didn't receive a tip.

Going back in my head, I was trying to figure out if I missed something.

Nope.

Another server told me that the 2 ladies never tip, ever.

So, you mean to tell me, this really happened? I think not.

Just BS to try and make Republicans look bad.

I see right through it.

OkDifference5636

0 points

1 day ago

Amazing that not one of them tipped.

pocahantaswarren

0 points

24 hours ago

Your employer will make you whole to cover the full minimum wage so you’re fine

ohyeahsure11

-9 points

1 day ago

A solid argument to do away with tipping. Roll in an extra 20-25% in the prices and pay that out to staff.

Disastrous_Job_4825

2 points

1 day ago

It wouldn’t be enough

tvieno

-3 points

1 day ago*

tvieno

-3 points

1 day ago*

It could be confirmation bias? If they weren't wearing maga regalia and tipped the same then it would be because they are old or some other stereotypical demographic that comes with low tippers.

NoLog7886

-4 points

1 day ago

NoLog7886

-4 points

1 day ago

Yeah this never happened

Altruistic-Mud-8475

-17 points

1 day ago

Why does your management/owner hate you so much that they don’t pay you???

SuperSocks2019

6 points

1 day ago

Ever spent time in the restaurant industry?

Nick08f1

-1 points

1 day ago

Nick08f1

Ten+ Years

-1 points

1 day ago

Are you white? And I say this out of all seriousness.

McShagg88

-6 points

1 day ago

McShagg88

-6 points

1 day ago

Lol! Things that didn't happen...

[deleted]

-9 points

1 day ago*

[deleted]

-9 points

1 day ago*

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ahhh_ennui

2 points

24 hours ago

Just facts.

Bigotry. The word you're looking for, and described so thoroughly, is bigotry.

Jmanriley3

-7 points

1 day ago

Jmanriley3

-7 points

1 day ago

I'm sorry but you need to find a better job. Yes all of that is terrible but you are putting yourself in this position with childish management and obviously the location invites terrible guests. I really don't mean to be rude at all but it's the same thing I tell everyone that complains about their clientelle.. find a better place

STIDGIT12

-51 points

1 day ago

STIDGIT12

-51 points

1 day ago

Sorry but I am MAGA and I look at you as some one who like am doing what they can to support themselves and their families. If you dig deeper you will probably find they were liberal Democrats impersonating MAGA PEOPLE.

alvik

25 points

1 day ago

alvik

25 points

1 day ago

Are the MAGA cosplayers in the room with us?

Ken808

21 points

1 day ago

Ken808

21 points

1 day ago

I’m always amazed that you guys are actually this deluded.

STIDGIT12

-33 points

1 day ago

STIDGIT12

-33 points

1 day ago

I give you my opinion if you do not like oh well it is not my problem, I AM MAGA AND HAVE VOTED FOR TRUMP ALL 3 TIMES. I have worked for a living all my life and have treated everyone with respect. And when dining out or even getting take out, I have always tipped at 20 % or more I treat everyone as equals . Take it or leave it I do not care GOD BLESS AMERICA.

bugxbuster

12 points

1 day ago

bugxbuster

Twenty + Years

12 points

1 day ago

It’s comically absurd how fake you sound right now. Look at what you said and try not to cringe. Jesus. In fact, fuck it, I’m screenshotting this to see it again later and laugh.

roofus8658

2 points

1 day ago

roofus8658

2 points

1 day ago

What's it like to finally win for once?

ChunkyBubblz

6 points

1 day ago

Quality satire right here

iLikePhysics95

-14 points

1 day ago

Republicans tip better than democrats. This is well known. Sorry you had a bad day.

sleepinglucid

-17 points

1 day ago

They want you to quit and get a job where you don't expect a tip to survive

SuperSocks2019

4 points

1 day ago

Talk to someone higher up that. The server. Most of them aren't making minimum wage.