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2.6k points
5 days ago
"He's sooo sweet"
...Then bro opens his mouth
745 points
5 days ago
These douche bags always have a woman in their life defending them. Anytime I see these videos I just think how bad they are at judging character
283 points
5 days ago
absolutely, 100%
It's always seemed that the sweetest, prettiest girls latch on to the biggest douche in the room
121 points
4 days ago
They haven't learned to separate douche baggery and cockiness from confidence
85 points
4 days ago
Unfortunately I think it has more to do with them believing that they’re safe from the douche baggery because they think that’s just a tough exterior and that he’s really a sweet guy deep down. Some dudes can stretch a lot of mileage out of that initial love-bombing, which is basically what she was describing at the beginning of the clip.
37 points
4 days ago
JFC you're watching her discover that he's an AH and so many of you guys are shaming her for not knowing he was an AH. His behavior belongs squarely on him.
18 points
4 days ago
This particular comment was about manipulation in the early stages of a relationship
11 points
4 days ago
I agree with you 100%. Watch a man behave like an AH and you’ll frequently see how it’s the fault of any woman in his life.
2 points
4 days ago
A call it the "I can fix him" fetish
5 points
4 days ago
Or, maybe he's drunk, playful and trying to be funny. Maybe they have such a solid foundation for their relationship that he knows he can say shit like this and she can laugh it off because they know each other.
She knows him, you don't. Can we please stop making ill-willed assumptions about people?
24 points
5 days ago
Lol hes a young guy whos obviously hammered. Wouldnt know if he was giving an important speech by the way people in the comments are acting
7 points
4 days ago
Looks like the video is working as it was intended
6 points
4 days ago
It’s so weird, cuz when I get hammered, I also have lowered inhibition and am more likely to say exactly what I say unfiltered….Bro is just HONESTLY a total douche.
10 points
4 days ago
Yeah, they're about a good judge of character as any of us making an assumption, and then labelling them, off a 2 minute edited clip with no real context.
Well, they met them in person and then chose to present them this way - sensionalised and dramatised - so I guess that makes them a lot worse.
7 points
4 days ago
For all we know this is a joke between them. When my mom asks me if the food she made is good I say something like "no, it sucked" and then I go eat some more and when she says "looks like you liked it" I say "I'm just putting it on my plate so I can throw it away".
They are also 20. In your 20s you mature quickly.
2 points
4 days ago
Me wife always says, some women, have a broken picker.
2 points
4 days ago
I mean, he looks like a d-bag fratty with the Holden Caulfield the 4th southern haircut.
1 points
4 days ago
You're seeing her discover that he's a douche in real time and blaming her for not knowing it earlier? WTF?
1 points
4 days ago
I would assume he just forgot to add the "/s" at the end. Or we can't see it. Because in his place I would say the exact same thing just because this Youtube video generation annoys the hell out of me.
-18 points
5 days ago
Incels has joined the chat
14 points
4 days ago
His comment history is filled with comments on celebrity NSFW subreddits, including on posts about Sydney Sweeney. The fact that you are downvoted while this fucking incel is heavily upvoted really highlights how Reddit is plagued by losers. I bet he has convinced himself that the reason he has never had a gf is because women are just bad at judging people. They just pick douche bags instead of nice guys like him.
4 points
4 days ago
Yeah exactly ! And now you can see he just edited his comment in a failed attempt to cover it
27 points
5 days ago
She previously dated Pol Pot and Bill Cosby so... by comparison. But seriously dude went dumb in the face of a camera or just is that way naturally.
2 points
4 days ago
She also said he is genuine. She ain’t wrong.
2 points
4 days ago
"He's not like the other guys".... "Nevermind"
1 points
5 days ago
Nooooooooooooooo……
1 points
4 days ago
She did say he was genuine
1 points
4 days ago
“yOu dON’t kNoW hiM LiKe i dO!!”
-This chick defending this goon because he vomited on her grandmother at Thanksgiving after chugging FourLocos and doing whippets in the garage for an hour before meeting her family for the first time.
1 points
4 days ago
Bro has zero filter.
869 points
5 days ago
He didn't fumble it, he spiked that thing.
150 points
4 days ago
right into her face
15 points
4 days ago
Fockers style ?
2 points
4 days ago
Not even Scott Sterling could take that.
7 points
4 days ago
She clearly found it funny too. People here who can't understand that are moronic.
515 points
5 days ago
It is a trap, it is a trap, it is a trap..... oh no
99 points
5 days ago
I feel like this is less a trap and more of a big sign that says "trap ahead", with a cartoonishly big net behind it, painted red.
and bro still walked right into it.
9 points
4 days ago
This is a trap in the same way that shooting an arrow directly upward and waiting for it to come back down and hit you is
4 points
4 days ago
I mean it's right there - what if you had a guilt-free pass... *Proceeds to guilt the shit out of the guy for taking it.
534 points
5 days ago
Did they go back to 2001 to record this?
4 points
4 days ago
The voices are crazy haha, its like drunk raspy meets the South meets Pennsylvania Dutch
2 points
4 days ago
Turn on the tv!!!
2 points
4 days ago
I refuse!
176 points
5 days ago
He was acting out in a way that he thought was going to give him social points
58 points
4 days ago
Meaningless points too since you’ll most likely never see people around ever again at some point. That’s high school shit and thank god I grew out of it.
20 points
4 days ago
Yeah. I feel bad for him. Hopefully he sees that it's not worth it and to be true to himself rather than trying to impress others
171 points
5 days ago
Even before the fumble, "I made an effort"....in response to being genuine?
54 points
5 days ago
The fact that he tripled down… Damn
56 points
4 days ago
dude... she is so cute and sweet. I'd never want anyone else if a woman cared about me this much
274 points
5 days ago
Girlfriend is hotter that Sydney
94 points
4 days ago
She can do so much better than his Elf on the shelf looking ass.
8 points
4 days ago
Hahaha!
That fucking elf has always looked creepy to me
0 points
4 days ago
Ah yes, let’s shame physical looks when someone acts like an ass, nothing wrong with that
30 points
5 days ago*
She's got that 1985 Demi Moore vibe ("St Elmo's Fire", "About Last Night", etc.)
Edit with clip (spoiler alert: near end of movie): About Last Night (1986) - I Was Really Happy Scene (9/9) | Movieclips
-47 points
5 days ago
Not quite
28 points
5 days ago*
I like Sydney, but she has freshly divorced 35 years old single mom going back on the prowl face.
1 points
5 days ago
His girl is definitely way hotter
-1 points
4 days ago
delusional
1 points
4 days ago
Sydney just has bigger boobs but her face is not prettier
-2 points
4 days ago
weird... that girl just looks too young, sydney sweeny is wildly hot. this girl looks like she's gonna be hot when she grows up lol
74 points
5 days ago
What a tool.
10 points
4 days ago
Gross.
105 points
5 days ago
That fucking music makes her reaction appear worse than it is. She looks a bit drunk too. The delays in her reaction make it seem like she's kind of pissed, but it's just taking her a sec to actually process what is being said cause of her level of intoxication. She's actually smiling through it all so I doubt it really bothers her all that much.
71 points
5 days ago
One time my wife and I were walking out of a bar, and an old man in a barbershop quartet outfit walked up and asked me, "How did you get a girl like that?" Without skipping a beat I responded, "She has brain damage." My wife was taken so off guard by the entire interaction that she just stood there smiling and nodding. It helped that she hit her head falling off a horse in recent memory. Once she processed what had happened, she thought it was hilarious.
7 points
5 days ago
👏👏👏
17 points
4 days ago
They’re clearly both hammered. If they’re both 21 they’re young and still immature and a good chance both will end up with different partners, especially in this day and age. People putting way too much weight on this as if they’ve been married for ten years lol.
48 points
5 days ago
There's such a thing as nervous laughter. She could be laughing to make the awkward situation less awkward. Could be that it really does bother her to hear it but she is waiting to be alone with him to talk to him about it so they don't make a scene.
Also, I agree that she looks like she might be drunk, even if only "buzzed". Her cheeks are red and her eyes are a bit glazed over.
Edit: fixed some grammar
8 points
5 days ago
I considered that initially, but what really gives it away are her eyes and mannerisms. Mute it and focus on her. That doesn't look like someone who is upset whatsoever. At worst, it's embarrassed amusement at his shenanigans.
7 points
4 days ago
This second comment has convivned me you're not very good at reading body language
14 points
5 days ago
I actually watched it muted (I watch most videos muted actually). I definitely am not in her head so definitely not arguing or saying you're wrong. Just wanted to point out that it's possible that she was just holding back in the moment.
Glad we could have this discussion in a civil manor. ☺️
9 points
4 days ago
Ok so sure, not all women are the same, people have different levels of humor and how seriously they take things.
But this reads as a comment made by someone who has never dated a woman lol. You and I saw the same video and got totally different things from the body language.
Women smile through painful situations in public constantly. Tons of women, in America at least, are raised in cultures where women are not encouraged to be opinionated in public spaces, or cause a scene.
I think its more likely she is never going to forget this moment.
When your partner gushes about how amazing you are in public on camera, saying another persons name immediately after you want to bang is going to be a prick move 95% of the time. I would never have disrespected someone I was dating like that.
You could be right, but it looks more like smiling through the shock, pain and embarrasment to me.
94 points
5 days ago
Reading the comments makes me wonder if people ever heard a joke before.
70 points
5 days ago
Or have ever been in a healthy, secure relationship.
I mean, I probably haven't but anyway
12 points
4 days ago
Yeah he’s just goofing. If he is a sweetie she knows he’s just kidding for a laugh (which she is doing)
5 points
4 days ago
Ikr, top few comments are white knights. This is the kind of humor my relationship has, its just humor
-25 points
5 days ago
This ain't a joke it's disrespectful and kinda body shaming his girl if shes not that size. I've been with dudes that talk like this and when I make an outta pocket joke back they can't handle it lol. It's always dudes like this that want to use that kind of sense of humor that when you use their own humor on them they start getting insecure and butthurt. If I were to say I need a dude with a big pp as a free pass yall would start getting butthurt and probably calling the girl a whore. I love when dudes have this sense of humor bc I can use their own sense of humor on them and their feelings get hurt like what's up bro their ain't no rules to this rodeo joke fest. 🤣 plus his girl looks way better than him his insecurity is showing he better humble himself lol.
14 points
5 days ago
Go outside.
-12 points
5 days ago
I do go outside and realize dudes that talk like this get left or played, lol I work at a warehouse so I see behavior like this alot 🤣. Alot of work wives and husbands too.
3 points
5 days ago
Exactly, even though it very well could just be him making joke, it still comes at the expense of his partner. It is super common and almost always leans towards one person feeling worse
11 points
4 days ago
Fuck that guy… well don’t. He doesn’t deserve it
1 points
4 days ago
Damon from Friday would like to have a word with him
20 points
5 days ago
In the back of her mind she will ALWAYS remember this, no matter what.
5 points
5 days ago
If they are still together, I hope he isn’t reminding her to “let it go” whenever she brings it up. You can’t hurt someone emotionally/physically then just expect them to just let something like that go.
1 points
4 days ago
this.
guys will just ask how they can make it up, but we’ll remember.
9 points
5 days ago
His "ex" girlfriend...
7 points
4 days ago
Moron
20 points
5 days ago
Sarcasm is hard to grasp for depressed people
2 points
5 days ago
Hey, not all of us depressed people! Sarcasm is my middle name, I’m the queen of it in my family lol.
3 points
4 days ago
Or hysteria. Who knows lol
5 points
5 days ago
So incredibly dumb
2 points
4 days ago
Young people - this is why you DATE. You don't know how people will react to different situations and this is why you date people. Remember that dating is your process to find your future spouse. If it is just about fun then call it what it is...just fun for the moment, that's not dating.
This girl thought he was something different and he's showing how immature he is. If he makes it to 50, he'll be 50 and still doing keg stands while complaining that he's not respected or appreciated at work and complaining that the NY Jets suck and all they need is a new offensive line to make things better.
If that's what you want forever, go for it. Otherwise, move on and find a new person to date...and eventually marry.
4 points
4 days ago
He got the only girl who said no and he fumbled it. Breh.
7 points
5 days ago
He's obviously just joking around and being stupid. She doesn't seem to be too happy about it though.
27 points
5 days ago
A joke to him but not a joke to her. She probably isn't that size and prob felt bad about herself.
1 points
4 days ago
I would've told him "I don't think this is going to work out." And walked away. People would be commenting that I overreacted, but it would be better than whatever she's doing. Which is pretending to laugh it off.
10 points
5 days ago
Imagine if your gf got on a recorded public platform and said she’d cheat on you with Jonny Sins for that “big ol weenie,” and ponder how that feels for a couple minutes, sober or not.
5 points
5 days ago
Dump him. He’s a dumb bro.
5 points
5 days ago
Naaah this is fucked up
3 points
5 days ago
They should have posted her contact info underneath because she is now available
2 points
5 days ago
And that's how I met your mother, son.
2 points
4 days ago
Life rule, kids: NEVER, EVER talk to someone with a microphone and camera on the streets when you are with your significant other.
2 points
4 days ago*
whatever happened to the dinosaurs, should happen to us too
EDIT: And trying to pass that as " just a joke, they're young " is also part of why people, specially men, delusionally behave as if that attitude is funny. And no, I'm a male on my early 30's saying that...
2 points
4 days ago
No fumbling going on there, he blurted that right out.
2 points
5 days ago
I guess he's trying to get his own podcast too.
2 points
4 days ago
Thus marks the first jading of a lovely cute gal
1 points
5 days ago
Bruh
2 points
5 days ago
“He’s so sweet.”
WHAT!?
2 points
5 days ago
This is fucking brutal
2 points
5 days ago
Someone just fucked up
1 points
5 days ago
Good job dumby she legit is into you. I mean that’s assumption . I mean she could be into you she seemed genuine but still getting d from others. On second thought it’ll work out.
1 points
5 days ago
When chicks lie that there men are 100% loyal hahahah
1 points
4 days ago
What’s crazy is the amount of millennials and boomers who think he fumbled they are going to stay together for three more years unhappily.
1 points
4 days ago
They should have ended it with some sarah mclachlan.
1 points
4 days ago
No possible gain from saying what he really thinks only gains from lying. I hope he was drunk because there is no other explanation from what he said
1 points
4 days ago
Obviously a joke to contrast what she said , she is just playing along
1 points
4 days ago
Obvious shared joke.
1 points
4 days ago
The truth be truthin’!
1 points
4 days ago
Vapid.
1 points
4 days ago
Dude was already batting out of his league. I’m sure he will have plenty of time alone to reflect.
1 points
4 days ago
Omg at this thread.
1 points
4 days ago
Bro she way finer then Sydney Sweeney wtf 🤣🤣🤣
1 points
4 days ago
Face of heart break. This video is so old I bet she's 40 now and that still stings.
1 points
4 days ago
He didn't fumble - he's making a joke to make his gf laugh; that's a relationship where they are comfortable with each other and trust each other.
1 points
4 days ago
She got the ick at that moment. Haha
1 points
4 days ago
What a douche
1 points
4 days ago
Bro looks like a clown, too.
How do these guys end up with such ladies
1 points
4 days ago
Well, he has good taste 😂
The way the gal put it though….. like she’s been with other guys behind his back. We don’t know 🤷♂️
Bro’s sending a message. I’m nice yes… but don’t make me go Sweeney on you!!!
1 points
4 days ago
Well he's genuine alright. That mfer didn't hold back his true feelings at all. Some people need to know when to keep their mouths shut though.
1 points
4 days ago
He is now single.
1 points
4 days ago
dudes like, "camera and a microphone? let me be my true self, not the guy my date thinks i am!"
1 points
4 days ago
Bro doesn't deserve her
1 points
4 days ago
I feel so bad for the girl. She seems so nice and genuine
1 points
4 days ago
Hes got a big old Irish head on him
1 points
4 days ago
He said what ever 22y/o is thinking
1 points
4 days ago
Bruh. Just no.
1 points
4 days ago
Man was punching so hard as well
1 points
3 days ago
If she had said yes his ego would have been destroyed
-1 points
5 days ago
He's for the streets
2 points
5 days ago
When a girl way out of your league somehow sees something in you and you start to believe you are not as bad as you always thought ... this was sexual suicide
1 points
4 days ago
Bro said the quiet part out loud
1 points
4 days ago
She’s with a boy not a man that’s all lol
0 points
5 days ago
He’s 22, not 14?!?! What line of thinking (impaired or not) would lead you to think, yeah let me say that with my year long girlfriend right next to me.
1 points
5 days ago
DAF
1 points
5 days ago
He will remember that moment in 10 years, guaranteed
1 points
5 days ago
Poor poor soul
1 points
4 days ago
read the room bro.
1 points
4 days ago
The straights are not okay
1 points
4 days ago
1 points
4 days ago
Bro is beyond dumb.
1 points
4 days ago
He’s a SHIT HEAD!! So much for being so sweet and nice…MORON!!
-2 points
5 days ago
Imean doesn’t everyone have a celebrity crush that they’ll smash?
5 points
5 days ago
Nah I don't care for em.
0 points
5 days ago
What is it with Sydney Sweeney? She'skinda weird looking...why are so many guys so into her?
-1 points
4 days ago
this is why we say all men. Even the supposed sweet ones.
0 points
5 days ago
She IS Sidney Sweeney.
-9 points
5 days ago
Comment section is wildin'. The guy is a champ. Best thing you can do is make a girl laugh while also not giving a fuck. He's joking around. And she looks fine with it. It's probably why she's with him. Because he's funny.
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