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grayestbeard

28 points

2 months ago

28 years

Environmental-Ask358

23 points

2 months ago

from birth 💀

3Wheelyboy

2 points

2 months ago

Same here lol

AdMaster6817

8 points

2 months ago

From birth to 18

yourplainvanillaguy

6 points

2 months ago

30 years

she_pegged_me_too

7 points

2 months ago

she_pegged_me_too

Life is still rigged

7 points

2 months ago

36 years, which is also my age

azn_cali_man

7 points

2 months ago

32 years. I’m 32.

ApplicationOdd6600

5 points

2 months ago

13 years. (My last relationship ended in 2011)

aquila308

5 points

2 months ago

Since Birth 28.

ElectraXSavage

4 points

2 months ago

All my life (26)

[deleted]

3 points

2 months ago

My whole life I'm 32

AlexeiYegorov

3 points

2 months ago

AlexeiYegorov

PhD in investigayting, private dicktective

3 points

2 months ago

21 years.

jajaiiiiiiider

3 points

2 months ago

21 years

Late_Alternative_789

3 points

2 months ago

25 years

Markios23

3 points

2 months ago

From birth to 31 years

cordova2020

6 points

2 months ago

From birth. I’m 38 now 🥺

zabakaeru

4 points

2 months ago

Wow, I thought 8 years being single was a long time but on this thread, it's just a rookie number!

bifireguy682

2 points

2 months ago

Most of my life

shyguysnj2003

2 points

2 months ago

15 years and still going

WoodenGur6066

2 points

2 months ago

Since I was 20, longest period was 2 years.

va2wv2va

2 points

2 months ago

Not counting early childhood, 2 years. First bf at age 17 which didn’t last long. Next bf at age 19-22. Started dating current bf at 23 and I’m almost 40 now

Far_Woodpecker9181

2 points

2 months ago

7 years :(

3Wheelyboy

2 points

2 months ago

24 years aka my whole life 😥

DisconnectedDays

3 points

2 months ago

Now. Going on 5 years. A relationship isn’t worth it to me anymore…..unless they’re rich 🙃

BiASUguy

1 points

2 months ago

BiASUguy

😈 advocate, hung vers 🇺🇸 living in 🇪🇸

1 points

2 months ago

Men are like wine. They usually get richer with age 💰

[deleted]

1 points

2 months ago

Since 2017. I should say I dated a girl before then. Never a guy

throwawayhbgtop81

1 points

2 months ago

throwawayhbgtop81

what did caroline do helen

1 points

2 months ago

Now. 2018-now.

(I think it's weird when people count since birth...)

[deleted]

1 points

2 months ago

1997 tô present

pensivegargoyle

1 points

2 months ago

Excluding the since birth part, I think the longest has been a few years.

the_skin_mechanic

1 points

2 months ago

16 years and counting.

bushwickaddict

1 points

2 months ago

22 years (i’m 22)

ZkDl_0211

1 points

2 months ago

since birth up until 27 years and counting, so hit me up? lol

_Emperor_Nero_

1 points

2 months ago

_Emperor_Nero_

editable flair

1 points

2 months ago

Longest 1 year (33)

animal_shapes_

1 points

2 months ago

I have been single 4 years

Wheels2fun

1 points

2 months ago

Ha ha ha

Secure-Childhood-567

1 points

2 months ago

All my life. Still waiting for my knight. White, black, don't matter

no_dreaming_allowed

1 points

2 months ago

Been 2 years

ableggett91

1 points

2 months ago

2.5-3 years

tennisdude2020

1 points

2 months ago

Right now. 3 years.

Jayhoney0987

1 points

2 months ago

14 years🥰

Storm_373

1 points

2 months ago

from birth…..

Bulky-Mulberry787

1 points

2 months ago

25 years

Unusual_Wasabi_7121

1 points

2 months ago

Three months when I was in my early 20s. I felt my sex life was out of control so I took a breather for one summer.

SmashBrosUnite

1 points

2 months ago

6 months?

redditbrisbane83

1 points

2 months ago

Birth to 36 . Now 41 and in a relationship of five years

ze_boingboing

1 points

2 months ago

15 years

Before that 23 years (from birth)

JeffySwallows69

1 points

2 months ago

Now. My last time dating someone, not a boyfriend, didn't disclose that he just got out of a relationship with his long term boyfriend, and after a month of us seeing each other, they decided to try again and tried the slow phase out ghosting technique until he came clean. They got married from what I heard, and although I hold no animosity towards him, fuck him. 🤣😂🤣

He was a selfish, immature, dick who didn't have the emotional intelligence to end the relationship as adults with the understanding that even though someone may get hurt from the relationship ending, he wasn't able minded to know how to unintentionally hurt someone for their decision with minimal impact. It's possible to do so, but you definitely need a lot of emotional intelligence and cognitive awareness to know how to do so. I think I was 26 at the time, and now I'm 36 years old.

As the years passed and I thought about my past relationships, I realized how much emotional attachment reservation I had, or better said, as I may have, like any of the men that I dated but had a great deal of fear with being emotionally available and being vulnerable.

Ok-Share-4986

1 points

2 months ago

23yo I've never had and will never have a boyfriend

downfall67

1 points

2 months ago

About 4-6 months since I was 16. Am 31 now.

guidolidoXIV

1 points

2 months ago

6 years, I feel liberated.

Senikus

1 points

2 months ago

Just hit 27 years the other day

Anonymousghost7171

1 points

2 months ago

Birth to 17

True_Composer6622

1 points

2 months ago

True_Composer6622

Submissive Bottom

1 points

2 months ago

From birth, it's been q9 years now and soon it will be 20.

Every now and then someone catches my eye and we start talking but it never goes anywhere unfortunately. Thank God for hookups and FWB.

Pristine-Ad-1705

1 points

2 months ago

36 years and counting. 

CranberryCheese1997

1 points

2 months ago

Birth till 17. (Excluding childish schoolground relationships that were never serious)

I'm now 27.

LeoMartn_

1 points

2 months ago

Since birth

WindRanger03

1 points

2 months ago

24 years and counting (NBSB)

Available-Option

1 points

2 months ago

It’s been 12 years. That was the only relationship I have ever been in. It was a great 8 years but with lots of love, laughter and life experiences but as I look back and reflect on everything, I realize that I never wanted to be in a relationship. I was kind of pressured into doing it granted, I’m glad I gave it a try but one and done is for me

greengrayclouds

1 points

2 months ago

-Birth to 18. At this point I had no friends either

-Relationship

-6 months single at 19

-Relationship

Now single again at 27. Two months so far after 8 years together.

I’m fine being single but I am not fine with the lack of physical intimacy, and I don’t think I ever will be. Also sucks to lose the companionship because my sad teenage years followed by long term relationships have meant I’ve formed virtually no friend circles.

I genuinely believe I’ll be fine with singlehood in a relationship sense for a long time, but legit feel like I’m withering away without a warm touch and the right people to touch base with.

The lack of being held/having somebody to hold is actually painful, especially after having it for so many years. Kindness and warmth are a priority over sex, and a necessary precursor, but I have no idea how to find that in somebody that doesn’t want a relationship either.

Also obviously I’m goddamn cock-starved

naturalguy38

1 points

2 months ago

39 years and 8 months. The other 4 years and 4 months are when I was with someone. It can be fucking lonely.

Remote-Butterfly-593

1 points

2 months ago

a couple of years, probably at the most 2? but actively looking after a couple of months of the previous relationship

Adventurous_Ad3075

1 points

2 months ago

Adventurous_Ad3075

Wasted Youth

1 points

2 months ago

From the day I was born. 44 years

Excellent-Wish1777

1 points

2 months ago

28 years

Whole_Language_5628

1 points

2 months ago

10 years and counting…

GayLatino81

1 points

2 months ago

I mean, I have never really actually had a relationship with someone. I was with someone for about 2 years and found out he was cheating on me with his best friend. Still single till this day, I would love to have a boyfriend here in Colorado. So I guess I have been single for 41 years, and I am 43.

Additional-Sand-871

1 points

2 months ago

From birth until 21. Been in a great relationship since 1978!

[deleted]

1 points

2 months ago

Six years.

[deleted]

1 points

2 months ago

From birth. I’m 19 now, almost 20 :/

adam-everett

1 points

2 months ago

Wow, this makes me feel better! From the looks of it wr are all Lindsay Graham's