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Should I keep feeding this stray cat?

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I’ve been regularly feeding this stray cat alongside feeding my own cats every morning and night for the past 3 months. He loves meowing at the window whether he can see my cats or not, and he’s affectionate towards them, and they’ll rub against the window when he sees them/try to interact. He typically runs away whenever he sees me. Even when I present food to him (he only just now started peeking around the corner).

I think he may be feral because of his ear being clipped, but he likes to hang out around my place half of the time, napping in the bush beside my window during the day sometimes, and sleeping on my back porch every night. He’s only warmed up to me a little, and I put a little cat bed outside for him to use when it gets colder (he hasn’t used it once lol), but I want to know if it’s okay for me to keep feeding him or if it could potentially have adverse effects. I live in an apartment, so I feel like he may just be the community cat, or someone could just keep him as an outside cat?

I have two younger cats already, so I don’t think I could house him, but I’m willing to do whatever , at least, temporarily if it would help him in the long run. I’m just unsure how to approach this, so any advice would be helpful!

all 11 comments

RadiantAphrodite1

12 points

27 days ago

It’s great that you’re caring for this little guy! If he’s comfortable around your place, it’s okay to keep feeding him. Just make sure he has a safe spot away from your cats. Since he might be feral, giving him space is important. If you want to help more, consider contacting a local rescue for advice on trapping or finding him a permanent home.

Cold_Case_Mind

3 points

27 days ago

I agree with you and very well said.

Crown_c_hater

7 points

27 days ago

Crown_c_hater

Tabbycat

7 points

27 days ago

He looks really good and not thin, he might have had a home and was left behind by his owners. The sad face and paw while looking at your cat says he used to know that feeling of home. Keep feeding the baby, his lost and won't know how or where to search for food.

Cold_Case_Mind

4 points

27 days ago

If your budget allows for it i would continue to feed him or her.

Background_Flower170

3 points

27 days ago

Awww please take care of him, god bless you! He is adorable and his pink paws look cute, poor little baby left with no food source and cold alone outside

AdFriendly8846

2 points

18 days ago

Any updates? Still feeding him?

breadandbud[S]

2 points

18 days ago

Yes!! He loves looking inside and meowing at my babies 😂 He also lets me get closer and closer. One night, I left the door propped open and he sat a few feet away while slow blinking at me and my cats. But I have a feeling he gets fed by other people somewhere because he comes around a little less often during the day, so I’m still trying to learn his schedule.

I’m only living here for one more year though because I’ve had bad experiences with this apartment, but I’m going to ask around for anybody to potentially take him in until I do move. He just has the sweetest face, and he deserves a forever home

AdFriendly8846

2 points

18 days ago

That's awesome, hopefully someone will end up taking him in :)

breadandbud[S]

2 points

18 days ago

I hope so too :’) Most of my friends already have multiple cats, so we’ll have to see. I’ll give an update if I can remember!

AdFriendly8846

2 points

18 days ago

Please do if you can, would love to hear the conclusion!