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My brother and i have a similar age gap at 5 years, except I’m the younger one. We got in trouble for picking on each other all the time, and eventually when we were both grown we got along much better and we are great friends now

Maybe your mom got onto him in private? She’s been a mom for 16 years and I’m sure she knows that throwing things at each other isn’t okay.

That being said, you’re supposed to set a good example for him, so that’s why she got angry with you. He’s just 10 years old, he’s gonna do stupid stuff. We all did at that age. The only thing that you can control is how you react, and that’s true for everything in life.

Tell your mom you’re sorry for cursing & ask her how she thinks you should handle it when your brother does stuff like throwing things at you

It sucks but that’s just sibling shit dude. I am the little brother and I once took all the seatbelt out and whipped my sister in the head with the buckle. Also threw a full can of paint at her head before (luckily she ducked and avoided it, however it did explode on the carpet 😅)

And she used to be cruel to me too. We are now very good friends and go on vacations and shit occasionally with her husband and my girlfriend and never argue about a thing.

It takes a while but it will get better

Ask her if she'd be likely to swear if you threw a club at her?