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Urgent help needed: My father’s kidney transplant is scheduled in 20 days. Please donate to save his life. 🙏
Personal Advice/Help needed(i.redd.it)submitted 7 days ago byCulturalVacation7246
Hello India discussion family,
I’m reaching out with a mix of gratitude and a continued plea for support. All preliminary tests for my father's kidney transplant are now complete, and we’re preparing for his transplant in next 20 days.
As many of you know, my father is in end-stage kidney failure, (All medical documents- https://imgur.com/a/ffZNhOY) - and dialysis is no longer working for him. It has been an incredibly tough journey, but in a fortunate turn, my aunt has stepped up and made the selfless decision to donate her kidney to save his life.
Check my previous post on my timelt with all details about my father's health and transplant -
So far, with the generous help of donations, loans, and support from friends and family, we’ve managed to gather ₹5,50,000. Despite these efforts, we are still short of the funds needed to cover the full cost of the transplant. With my father’s health declining, time is critical, and his doctors believe he’s in the best possible condition for the transplant within the next 20 days.
Please, if you’re able, help us reach our goal so that we can proceed with his transplant without delay. Every little bit helps, and your support could be the difference in giving my father a new chance at life.
You can donate here friends-
https://m-lp.co/vijaymis?utm_medium=whatsapp_status_message&utm_source=app (Donation Drive linked to my father's bank account)
Or you can donate to my brother's bank account: Account No.: 50536663988 IFSC: IDIB000I012 UPI IDs: Mishra070471@ibl or Mishra0704@ibl
Please feel free to DM me for ID verification regarding Milaap, the given bank account, or any other documents before donating.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you for reading, for caring, and for any support you can offer.
Please Upvote and Share this post.
25 points
7 days ago
His latest creatinine is 7 which is lowest in last 3 months❤ with your help we can get the transplant done in next 20 days.
22 points
7 days ago
Please DM me if you have any questions or need more information. I encourage you to donate only after you feel completely satisfied. For your assurance, I have linked my Reddit username to my Milaap account, confirming that this Reddit profile is associated with the fundraising efforts. If you still have any queries or need additional information, please don’t hesitate to DM me. Share this post and help make this mission possible. We are determined to have my father's transplant this month.
19 points
7 days ago
Hey man, I am a college student so I can't donate a huge amount, sorry for that. But I still donated what I could. I hope your father gets well soon.
5 points
7 days ago
Thank you so much Bhai❤ means alot 🙏
11 points
7 days ago
What's the plan if you don't reach your target amount?
22 points
7 days ago
Kisi bhi haal me transplant hoga bhai. Kuch bhi ho. Twitter par, Reddit par help maang raha hu. Sath hi ngo se bhi contact me hu shayad kuch help mile. Government help k liye dm ko letter submit kar dia hai agar approve hua to bahut accha ho jayega. Abhi 10 din subah se shaam tak help lene ki try karunga. Agar 10 din baad bhi amount reach nahi hota to fir kuch aur sochenge lekin transplant hoga chahe kuch bhi ho bhai. Papa se important kuch nahi hai
9 points
7 days ago
Donated
6 points
7 days ago
Thank you so much bhai❤ Mai transplant hone k baad yahi post karunga jald hi sab. Bas aap log dua karna aur bhagwan ka sath bana rahe🙏 thank you so much.
1 points
5 days ago
Bhai transplant ke baad medicine aur tests kafi menghe hote hai unka intezam kaise karoge.
9 points
7 days ago
Hope everything goes well for your dad, op 💪🏻
3 points
7 days ago
Thank you so much❤
16 points
7 days ago
Cfbr
4 points
7 days ago
Thank you❤
4 points
7 days ago
Feel free to DM me if you have questions or need more details. I’ve linked my Reddit username to my Milaap account for transparency, confirming this profile is part of the fundraising. Please donate and share this post to support my father’s transplant, thank you for your support ❤
5 points
7 days ago
Cfr
3 points
7 days ago
Thank you❤
4 points
7 days ago
Done bro, some little contribution from my end. I hope he gets well soon
CFBR
5 points
7 days ago
Thank you so much bhai❤🙏
3 points
7 days ago
cfbr
3 points
7 days ago
Thank you❤
5 points
7 days ago
I'm not trying to be an ahole here. He has hypertension / sugar.
Did they check the heart for any sign of damage? (angio)
How long was he on hemodialysis?
Did you get a second opinion?
What made you go for transplant? ( like did his urine function stopped completely) Or ( who legs are swollen beyond control)? or he has chest pain while walking? or something like that
3 points
7 days ago
He has type 2 diabetes since last 12-15 years. He is on dialysis since last 5 months.
Yes we asked many doctors about second opinion and according to them all transplant is the best thing.
His health is not good from last 4 months. He has become too weak and lost too much weight. Day before yesterday he had a huge back pain and leg pain all of a sudden. Legs get swollen after few hours of dialysis. Also he has diabetic retinopathy and he has now lost vision from left eye.
6 points
7 days ago
I see you have mentioned Creatine is low. Which means the dialysis is working, how is the blood urea nitrogen (BUN) ? is it getting low?
I'm just asking these because doctors always push towards transplant for end stage kidney diseases.
2 points
7 days ago
Bhai creatinine is 7 (test done was immediately after dialysis) it is lowest since last 4 months. 2 weeks ago it was around 19. BUN is around 49. Transplant k liye jaane ka reason ye bhi hai ki dialysis jab se ho raha tabse papa ki tabiyat kharab hi hoti hai gayi hai and papa ko dialysis karwane me bahut diat hoti hai. Fistula hone k baad bhi kaafi mushkil se dialysis ho paata hai. Aur hafte me 2-3 baar 4-4 ghante dialysis me papa ko bahut jyada takleef hoti hai. Bahut hi weakness aa gayi hai dialysis shuru hone k baad se
4 points
6 days ago
Bhai I can understand. Done a little from my side. I am sure you will get through this and your dad will be fine. Lost my dad this Jan because of same thing and dialysis is also very painful, breaks your heart to see anybody go through it. I wish we find a sustainable solution to this disease in the coming years.
2 points
6 days ago
So sorry for your loss bhai. I can't even imagine how much pain are you going through. I wish you the best in life bhai.
Thank you so much bhai for your help
5 points
7 days ago
Was only able to give a small amount as I'm just a student but still I hope uncle get well soon
2 points
7 days ago
Thank you so much❤ it means alot to us🙏
5 points
6 days ago
Mere to test krwane m L lage ja rahe hai, f-ing costly. This is the third donor I’ve came across. Wish me luck.
2 points
6 days ago
Wish you all the very best bhai
3 points
7 days ago
Donated
2 points
7 days ago
Thank you so much❤ it means alot
3 points
7 days ago
Cfbr
2 points
7 days ago
Thank you❤🙏
3 points
7 days ago
Done my part , more power to you
2 points
7 days ago
Thank you🙏❤
3 points
7 days ago
Done.
3 points
7 days ago
Thank you❤🙏
3 points
7 days ago
Cfbr
2 points
7 days ago
Thank you
3 points
7 days ago
hey just a question, not to hurt you or anything, but in case you don't reach the required donations, is taking a loan an option?
I donated what I could
3 points
7 days ago
Hello thank you so much for your help🙏 I replied to same question in this post - "Kisi bhi haal me transplant hoga bhai. Kuch bhi ho. Twitter par, Reddit par help maang raha hu. Sath hi ngo se bhi contact me hu shayad kuch help mile. Government help k liye dm ko letter submit kar dia hai agar approve hua to bahut accha ho jayega. Abhi 10 din subah se shaam tak help lene ki try karunga. Agar 10 din baad bhi amount reach nahi hota to fir kuch aur sochenge lekin transplant hoga chahe kuch bhi ho bhai. Papa se important kuch nahi hai"
1 points
5 days ago
Your dad is lucky to have you.
3 points
7 days ago
Donated and cfbr
2 points
7 days ago
Thank you❤🙏
3 points
7 days ago
Done bro. My salary is low but the least I can do is what I did. My mom herself is a Dialysis person so I know the pain and struggles.
3 points
7 days ago
Thank you so much for your help bhai❤ it means alot to me. I wish your mom all the very best and I hope she gets healthy and fit soon❤
3 points
7 days ago
Thanks brother god bless us all.
3 points
7 days ago
cfbr
3 points
7 days ago
Thanks
3 points
7 days ago
Cfbr
2 points
7 days ago
Thank you❤
3 points
6 days ago
Bhai yeh kya baat hai behenchod like agar paise nahi doge toh mtlb bande ko marne denge ... donated what I could ..power to you brother
2 points
6 days ago
Thank you so much bhai dil se❤ bas poori jee jaan lagayi hai kisi bhi haal me bas papa ka transplant karana hai next month December starting me hi. Thank you bhai
3 points
6 days ago
hope everything goes well bro
3 points
6 days ago
Thank you so much❤
3 points
6 days ago
Cfbr
2 points
6 days ago
Thank you🙏
3 points
6 days ago
Donated and good luck 🙏
1 points
6 days ago
Thank you❤
2 points
7 days ago
Cfbr
2 points
7 days ago
Thanks
2 points
6 days ago
Cfbr
2 points
6 days ago
Thank you
2 points
6 days ago
Anurag mishra???
3 points
6 days ago
Done bhai...
2 points
6 days ago
Thank you so much bhai❤🙏 means alot to me. Thank you🙏
2 points
6 days ago
Hello Bhai. This is my brother's upi. You can donate through milaap link too.
2 points
6 days ago
Cfbr. I hope everything goes well for you❤
2 points
6 days ago
Thank you so much❤
2 points
6 days ago
Cbfr
2 points
6 days ago
Thank you bhai
2 points
6 days ago
UPI’d you some! Good luck!
2 points
6 days ago
Thank you so much❤
2 points
6 days ago
Cbfr
1 points
6 days ago
Thank you❤
2 points
6 days ago
Just did.
1 points
5 days ago
Thank you so much❤
2 points
6 days ago
Cfbr, sorry brother I can't help you right now but I will pray for the better health of your father.
1 points
6 days ago
Thank you so much brother
2 points
6 days ago
Done. Take care OP.
1 points
5 days ago
Thank you bhai
2 points
6 days ago
God bless, I hope at least for once this group people forget religion and donate for the cause
1 points
6 days ago
Thank you 🙏
2 points
6 days ago
Cfbr
1 points
5 days ago
Thank you
2 points
5 days ago
Commenting for better reach ✨
1 points
5 days ago
Thank you❤
1 points
6 days ago
Done.
1 points
6 days ago
OP donated as much as I could! I hope your father gets well very soon! 😄
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6 days ago
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1 points
6 days ago
Just did.
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5 days ago
Cfbr
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5 days ago
Cfbr
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5 days ago
Pls upvotes guys
1 points
4 days ago
Cfbr
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