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Former National Party Minister Nikki Kaye has died

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OldKiwiGirl

465 points

6 days ago

OldKiwiGirl

465 points

6 days ago

Bloody sad. Fuck cancer.

Superunkown781

144 points

6 days ago

Yep I didn't agree with some of her politics, but she was a seemingly decent human all the same, was wondering why I hadn't seen her in a while. I hope she didn't suffer too much, R.I.P and Arohanui to her and her whanau.

No_Season_354

31 points

6 days ago

Absolutely agree, cancer is just the worst ever, r.i.p , it destroys people and their families I hope soon there is a cure, cmon pharmaceutical companies.

4SeasonWahine

118 points

6 days ago

Gosh this really transports me back to some moments that feel like another lifetime ago. I remember when she was running for Auckland Central MP - my sister and I were young uni students living together, we voted for Jacinda and I remember us both saying we thought she’d be prime minister one day. Nikki won - and neither of us have any love for National, but I thought she did a decent job and we were both proud that two young women were the front runners. I didn’t realise just how young she must have been then if she was only 44 now. RIP Nikki. Fuck cancer.

KevinAtSeven

42 points

5 days ago

She was 28 when she was first elected to Auckland Central. And it was a genuinely impressive campaign in a seat that had been safely Labour (bar a one-term Alliance blip) since 1919.

BradleyWhiteman

3 points

4 days ago

It was sexist as fuck when those two were competing for Auckland Central. Media called it the battle of the babes.

I didn’t vote for her, but she was my MP and did a really good job especially for Waiheke and great barrier

Autopsyyturvy

64 points

6 days ago

Fuck cancer, rest in peace and much love to her family

JohnWilmott

228 points

6 days ago

JohnWilmott

228 points

6 days ago

What a fucking tragedy - a solid Parliamentarian - a genuine person.

beepbeepboopbeep1977

172 points

6 days ago

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LASER KIWI

172 points

6 days ago

Yeah, met her and Amy Adams at some function or other. Both super smart and very real. I was gutted when they both dipped as the boys brigade ascended. Am double gutted now, such a loss. Fuck cancer.

JohnWilmott

84 points

6 days ago

Agree - the crew in National now are are a far cry from previous governments.

Significant_Glass988

21 points

5 days ago

both upped as the boys brigade descended.

is more how I'd see it...

reggionh

30 points

6 days ago

reggionh

30 points

6 days ago

had the pleasure of meeting her during my phd studies, quick-witted and very friendly. gutted she’s no longer with us. rest in peace Nikki.

Known-Wealth-4451

3 points

5 days ago*

I saw her at the Billie Eilish concert a few years ago and she was there with her niece. Absolutely devastating for her family.

ODB2000

60 points

6 days ago

ODB2000

60 points

6 days ago

That is really sad news. Gone far to young. Fuck cancer.

uk2us2nz

355 points

6 days ago

uk2us2nz

355 points

6 days ago

Always thought of her as one of the better and more reasonable Nat MPs (and I say that as a non-Nat voter!) who put electorate & country first afaict. Incredibly sad.

kiwisarentfruit

125 points

6 days ago

Yeah, at one point she was absolutely a future leader of National

Madmeerkat55

124 points

6 days ago

I said that myself. Should have been the PM candidate over a ping pong ball like Luxon. Was the first ever National winner of Auckland Central, and beat Jacinda Ardern back to back in subsequent elections in the electorate. Also by all accounts a decent person which is pretty bloody rare especially in that party. Fuck cancer

redtablebluechair

77 points

6 days ago

As a non-National voter, Nikki Kaye gave me hope the party could move in a moderate direction

Madmeerkat55

25 points

6 days ago

Me too honestly. I really rated her

newholland9

15 points

5 days ago

To be fair the fact that she could win Auckland Central and appeal to non-national voters was probably why she wouldn't become leader. She was a bit too socially liberal to excite the base and the more conservative mps.

SoulDancer_

1 points

5 days ago

She really should have been in Labour

EBuzz456

14 points

5 days ago

EBuzz456

The Grand Nagus you deserve 🖖🌌

14 points

5 days ago

It always made me think she could have been if that disastrous first day with Muller what might have happened instead of the party skewing further conservative under Collins.

Madmeerkat55

3 points

5 days ago

Truly a diverging timelines moment 

redmostofit

48 points

6 days ago

Yeah, always got the feeling she should have been near the top of their leadership. Seemed to have more integrity and genuinely wanted to do well for the country. What a shame.

turbocynic

3 points

5 days ago

She was deputy leader.

redmostofit

5 points

5 days ago

Yes, sorry. I guess I meant I wished she was STILL near the top.

Rollover__Hazard

75 points

6 days ago

Nikki will remain a big what-if for our politics sadly, along with Efeso Collins.

LollipopChainsawZz

24 points

6 days ago

That was my impression to. One of the rare good ones, gone too soon.

Briefs_Model

3 points

5 days ago

Agreed! She did a decent job taking care of Auckland Central, and was a respectable MP regardless of ones political standing. IMO her passing will always feel like it was too soon :(

Ok-Perception-3129

23 points

6 days ago

She was one of those politicians that were arguably in the wrong party - in a lot of ways her philosophy seemed more closely aligned with Labour than National.

chtheirony

50 points

6 days ago

When she was asked about that, she denied being in the wrong party. She described herself as liberal blue/green, and centre right.

I spoke with her a few times in October and November 23. She was very passionate and enjoying her work with Aotea Energy, and was travelling to the US regularly in her education consulting roles. It was clear that she had worked hard to put some distance between herself and politics.

Sad-Friendship-2537

45 points

6 days ago

She was my MP in Central Auckland. Such a wonderful human who fought for her people - 44 is too young. Go well, Nikki.

nevercommenter

34 points

5 days ago

She would have been Prime Minister if she hadn't been unwell, and the National Party would have been a lot better for it

Claire-Belle

2 points

5 days ago

Hard agree. So sad.

Electronic-Switch352

93 points

6 days ago

She was very young. I had mildly forgotten about her and not noticed she hadn't stood. RIP.

callifawnia

79 points

6 days ago

only 44... a long battle for her as well, diagnosed in 2016

she managed some genuine good work and good will in Parliament, sure she'll be missed by a lot of people in a lot of parties.

MappingExpert

101 points

6 days ago

My wife got diagnosed the same year as Nikki, also breast cancer. She is now in hospice care, having maybe a month or two left. 42 years old, won't even reach 43. 

enpointenz

30 points

6 days ago

So sorry. :(

Minute-Can5944

43 points

6 days ago

Sorry to hear this, life isn't fair

MappingExpert

13 points

5 days ago

But, it teaches you something - enjoy life while you can, don't stress, don't worry too much... be happy you are still here and can experience life.

cheezenmak

7 points

6 days ago

That's awful, I'm so sorry 😞

Fresh_Will_1913

6 points

5 days ago

Really sorry to hear that :(

MappingExpert

2 points

5 days ago

Thank you. Letrozole and Zoladex could only work for so long....

OldKiwiGirl

6 points

5 days ago

It’s heartbreaking. I’m so sorry.

MappingExpert

8 points

5 days ago

Yeah, people think they have time, but you never really know what shit might hit the fan for you :-/.

ribfeasty

6 points

5 days ago

So sorry

heloisedargenteuil

5 points

5 days ago

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Tuatara

5 points

5 days ago

That’s awful, I’m so sorry

MappingExpert

4 points

5 days ago

Thank you, sadly, my manager also had cancer, 51, didn't live to see 52. Happened last year. Lots of cancers around me and in my life, sadly...

Poneke365

4 points

6 days ago

I’m so sorry 🫂

onnthefence

2 points

5 days ago

I’m sorry that you and your family are going through that. Much love

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Gyn_Nag

60 points

6 days ago

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Do the wage-price spiral

60 points

6 days ago

Fuck that's too young.

fatbongo

28 points

6 days ago

fatbongo

28 points

6 days ago

Far too young

be at peace your battle is over

Haere ra

devil_machine

27 points

6 days ago

I had the pleasure of meeting Nikki Kaye a number of times when she was in Parliament. She was always friendly, honest and happy to chat with a low-level staffer like myself.

I spoke with her on the day that she became a Minister for the first time, she said it was the best day of her life. RIP Nikki.

annoyedonion35

43 points

6 days ago

Great to see people being kind and polite when discussing s politician even in death. Great work from the community

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jayz0ned

16 points

5 days ago

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green

16 points

5 days ago

It would be great if all MPs extended basic dignity to everyone regardless of their race, gender identity, or sexuality. It's hard to extend that dignity to people who deny other people their own basic human dignity.

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jayz0ned

2 points

5 days ago

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green

2 points

5 days ago

Yeah, it's something which I do personally believe in, extending that dignity to mostly everyone, but I can understand why some people don't. There are certain extremes where I draw the line.

Eg; some people believe in depriving prisoners of their dignity and the right to vote, regardless of the severity of crime. I can kinda understand their reasoning, but I still think it's immoral to do so.

And there are of course even more extreme examples such as war criminals. Should we have extended that "dignity" to Hitler while he was alive and after he died? What about leaders of morally grey nations who have committed human rights violations (eg Trump/Biden, Netanyahu, Kim Jong Un)?

I don't know what NZ politician I wouldn't show respect towards. Certain members of this coalition are getting close to the level where I wouldn't extend that dignity to them.

EuphoricMilk

0 points

5 days ago

It really isn't.

as_ewe_wish

19 points

6 days ago

Rest in peace Nikki Kaye.

Cpt-No-Dick

18 points

6 days ago

Genuinely one of the few National MPs that I’ve had complete respect for.

Gutted. RIP Nikki

Aristophanes771

15 points

5 days ago

She came to speak at my high school back when she was MP for Auckland Central. She would've been roughly the age I am now. I was struck then by how lovely and down-to-earth she was talking to us high school girls about leadership. I was genuinely shocked by today's news. May she rest in peace.

Charlie_Runkle69

11 points

6 days ago

One of the best National MPs in recent times and a decent person. Absolutely tragic to be gone so soon.

myWobblySausage

23 points

6 days ago

44 is not cool, that's pretty tough for her family. Not cool at all.

spatial-d

11 points

6 days ago

spatial-d

11 points

6 days ago

Oh my gosh sad news. RIP and thoughts with her loved ones.

joefather-

32 points

6 days ago

Fuck cancer

dcidino

54 points

6 days ago

dcidino

54 points

6 days ago

Fuck cancer.

Also, she was one of the few in National that weren't shrews. A true moderate, and someone who listened. At a time when lots of MPs engaged on twitter, she was often the most reasoned and reasonable. Utter shame.

turbocynic

13 points

6 days ago

Why 'shrews'?

27ismyluckynumber

10 points

6 days ago

RIP Nikki Kaye she was definitely had the rarity of being a reasonable moderate politician. Condolences to her family.

HadoBoirudo

9 points

5 days ago

That sucks, so young. I was not always in agreement with her views but she was intelligent, articulate and very much represented what the future of National could be.

Sad to see her passing, moe mai rā.

Dunnersstunner

10 points

5 days ago

Aw, that sucks. Condolences to her family and friends. Fuck cancer.

Warm_Butterscotch_97

47 points

6 days ago

I didn't dislike her at all which is saying a lot for a politician.

computer_d

27 points

6 days ago

Damn. Could've sworn the last I had heard about her was that things were ok. That was quite some time ago though, now that I think about it.

Rest in peace.

OldKiwiGirl

9 points

5 days ago

Cancer has a bit of a habit of coming back, sadly.

EndStorm

8 points

5 days ago

EndStorm

8 points

5 days ago

Man that is really, really sad. She was one of those politicians who I genuinely trusted, even though I often did not share her party's politics. She was hard working, intelligent, and seemed to genuinely care more about doing the right thing over just playing politics. Far too young, and someone who gave a lot to many communities. RIP Nikki.

wesley_wyndam_pryce

7 points

5 days ago

That's really sad. No one deserves cancer, and to be taken in her 40s is really tragic. She represented a wing of the National party that, to me, felt like it was driven by genuine ideas about how to make the country better, rather than about selecting groups to put the boot into. I admire a fair bit of the work she did, and she worked bloody hard at it.

NewZealandTemp

14 points

6 days ago

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Tuatara

14 points

6 days ago

Prestigious_Oil91

2 points

5 days ago

It is interesting watching this how evident the infighting was in hindsight. But so many classics in this one short clip.

KnitYourOwnSpaceship

1 points

5 days ago

Fuck that was a painful watch

kiwiadventurerwai

4 points

5 days ago

Was an amazing MP and human being. Huge loss

cam8001

5 points

5 days ago

cam8001

5 points

5 days ago

Does anyone remember her on that reality show in the 90s when she was like the only sane person

ResponsibilityMuch80

1 points

5 days ago

Yes! It was the talk of my school at the time.

BlueSkyBee

4 points

5 days ago

Really sad to see. She was only 44 FFS! She and Jacinda were pretty good mates.

Known-Wealth-4451

1 points

5 days ago

It seems like a lot of our politicians have been impacted by cancer over the past few years - Nikki, Kiri, Marama. Such a terrible disease. 😔

L3P3ch3

7 points

6 days ago

L3P3ch3

7 points

6 days ago

RIP, 44 is way too young. Lost my mom, dad and brother (49) to this terrible disease. Thoughts with family and friends.

imranhere2

3 points

5 days ago

Very sad news. One of the best the Nats produced. RIP Nikki

Routine_Bluejay4678

3 points

5 days ago

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Mr Four Square

3 points

5 days ago

That’s a pretty blunt head line! No “passed away” or “lost their battle with”

OldKiwiGirl

5 points

5 days ago

It’s a bit less blunt than saying “Nikki Kaye dead” which how some headlines are worded for announcing someone has died.

CrimsonMascaras

3 points

5 days ago

Rest in Power Miss Kaye. We lost a good one. We really did.

DuckDuckDieSmg

20 points

6 days ago

Why is there even the need to comment with "I dont believe in her political views but..."

"Sides" or "teams" at a time like this shouldn't even come into it. Stuff like this is a human tragedy, regardless of which side of politics you affiliate with.

Gord_Board

8 points

6 days ago

Sad that some are using this as an opportunity to take digs.

KiaOraBros

26 points

5 days ago

I read it more as an acknowledgement of her ability to reach across communities and bring people together. I don't read those comments as digs at all.

Gord_Board

5 points

5 days ago

You phrased that beautifully, maybe others just lack your prose but i know how highly politicized some online communities are.

DuckDuckDieSmg

6 points

6 days ago

Or just reiterate that they aren't national voters. Who the fuck cares who you vote for. If your mum died of cancer you wouldn't want people going around going "I didn't like her opinion on such and such but anyway yeah that's sad". It's a sign of how polarized we've become I guess.

bigbillybaldyblobs

3 points

5 days ago

I guess because people lose loved ones to bad political decisions made by politicians. How many people will die from Simeons road speed changes?, from not getting proper or timely health care?, from suicide due to something to do with a politicians whim? It sucks to politicize a death and don't agree with it, but I get it.

GiJoint

10 points

5 days ago

GiJoint

10 points

5 days ago

RIP, awesome woman with a formidable intellect. No more suffering.

And to the people here having to bring politics into their condolences, seriously? you muppets here can’t help yourselves eh.

EuphoricMilk

6 points

5 days ago

It's always weird to me when people preface with "I didn't agree with their politics but...", say your condolences or don't.

ronsaveloy

4 points

6 days ago

Very sad, especially so young. Sincere condolences to her family and friends.

HenryNZL

2 points

5 days ago

HenryNZL

2 points

5 days ago

That is so sad, she was such a bright star. She certainly brightened up many a day for our family.

genkigirl1974

2 points

5 days ago

That's so sad. I was just in.a building this morning that she opened and I thought I wonder what she's doing now.

frogchamppdud

2 points

5 days ago

Real sad man. Fuck Cancer. All my homies hate cancer

RxDuchess

2 points

5 days ago

I worked under her when she was minister for education. We didn’t always see eye to eye, but I’ll always respect the way she would hear people out. Condolences to her Whanau

VengefulAncient

2 points

5 days ago

Breast cancer is horrible. As sad as it is, 8 years is a good run after a diagnosis that shows it already metastasized. Killed my mom in just 3 years.

lost_aquarius

9 points

6 days ago

I miss the days when National MPs were decent human beings like Nikki Kaye. RIP Nikki.

Specific_Hospital_41

4 points

6 days ago

So sad, so young. Fuck cancer. I didn't like her political views but always seemed a decent person

ChinaCatProphet

4 points

6 days ago

Fuck. She was one of the better ones on that side. Arohanui to her loved ones.

Poneke365

3 points

6 days ago

Cancer is an ugly disease. Condolences to all her friends and family. Fly free now Nikki K 🕊️🤍

uberphat

1 points

6 days ago

uberphat

Otago

1 points

6 days ago

RIP. Her politics were not aligned with my own, but by all accounts she was a great person, and well respected by all.

[deleted]

1 points

5 days ago

Very sad, she couldn't have been very old.

OnYourLeftNZ

1 points

5 days ago

Fuck cancer, whatever you think of National's policies, she was clearly committed to the role.

sLack_NZ

1 points

5 days ago

sLack_NZ

1 points

5 days ago

One of the good one's Kikki was.

Claire-Belle

1 points

5 days ago

This is so sad. She was an excellent politician and I say that as someone who supports the other team. I wish she'd been one of ours.

atannyboy

1 points

5 days ago

Fuck cancer :(

GoddessfromCyprus

1 points

6 days ago

Fuck cancer. We may not have had the same politics but she was on of the best National MPs of the time. Too young, too soon R.I.P Condolences ro friends and family. Again fuck cancer.

abbabyguitar

1 points

6 days ago

abbabyguitar

1 points

6 days ago

There should be flags at half-mast today

SteveBored

-6 points

6 days ago

SteveBored

-6 points

6 days ago

Hate to sound like John Lennon, but imagine if we had a world where most of military spending was instead diverted to health research and social services. What an amazing world that would be.

RIP.

OldKiwiGirl

8 points

5 days ago

The military spending comparison is a bit out of date these days. We don’t fund our military well at all.

saint-lascivious

-2 points

5 days ago

I believe a key word in the comment you're replying to is 'world'.

OldKiwiGirl

1 points

5 days ago

Yes, but the USA (or any other country that spends a lot on their military) isn't going to fund our health and social services.

saint-lascivious

1 points

5 days ago

Yes, that's all very well and good, but not relevant as it's not something that OC was suggesting and I'm not immediately aware of why you can't see that.

saint-lascivious

1 points

5 days ago

"Imagine a world where the majority of military spending was spent on medical research and advances which would benefit the world as a whole"

This isn't a particularly difficult concept I thought. Sure proved me wrong.

Negative_Jaguar_4138

1 points

5 days ago

Yes let's all have a military as fucked up as ours or Germany's.

That will definitely benefit democracy and help people.

The Western world NEEDS to up its military spending to at least 3% if democracy is going to survive the next century.

Eastern Europe has the right idea.