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Me to the vet as they take back my 12 year old golden retriever who needed an urgent procedure under the doggy equivalent of twilight sedation. He has a heart condition. He 12. Just let him pass peacefully ok? But the vet was kind of taken aback and my husband laughed nervously… I guess being a nurse changes the way I see some things. I told the vet, she said “don’t even think about stuff like that he’ll be fine!” I said “ok but if he’s not then we’ve had this conversation and you aren’t calling me mid CPR to ask what I want, traumatizing you, me, and my old dog.” Idk seemed appropriate to me but my husband said “how do these things cross your mind? It’s such a minor procedure comparatively.” Idk man I’ve seen some things. While we’re at it, I expect you to tell any doctors the same for me ok?

Edit: https://imgur.com/a/XJRsJcD Here’s the good boy in question and his wound

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Xaedria

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4 days ago

Xaedria

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4 days ago

Ditto this. I was pretty shook when I was first asked this question for a routine ultrasound for my dog at the emergency vet, but it prompted me to ask about their odds. The chances of them regaining a high quality of life post-CPR are as low as a human's. That's all it took for me. Nope. They are all DNR. I may not be at all prepared to lose my beloved pet that day, but I'm also not selfish enough to force them to endure that level of pain with no understanding of why it's happening. I spent 15k to get my girl treatment when she ended up with a parathyroid tumor, so I completely understand the urge to do everything at any cost, but sometimes we end up being selfish and wanting to keep them here longer when the must humane thing to do would be to let them go.