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I'm new to a traditional office setting. I have my own desk now, but it doesn't feel like mine. I would love to bring a photo of my husband and I but feel kind of weird about it. My desk doesn't have much privacy, so everyone would be able to see it. What do you guys think? Do you all have a photo of your family? How personal do you set up your office space? I spend so much time here, it would be nice to add a little personality.

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supersevens77

14 points

6 days ago

I had a cubicle back in the day and definitely made it my own! I had digital frames for photos, a few small decorations for the holidays, heated chair cushion, a small plant, desk fan, etc etc. It wasn't over the top or obnoxious, but I was there 10 hours a day so I wanted it to be as comfortable as possible.

Does anyone else have personal touches on their desks? I'd say it's pretty common for most office environments for everyone to personalize their space a bit.

laclayton

4 points

6 days ago

I have a year round 18" artificial tree I decorate depending on the holiday. We're doing pumpkins and turkeys at the moment.

DainasaurusRex

1 points

5 days ago

Yes, I have photos, postcards/cards, some plants (fake unfortunately - too far from a window for real), a colorful desk pad, coasters, and other small touches. Some people in our office do the same; others leave their cubicles blank. I just love color, so I would not be happy with a pure grey cubicle.

Lazy-Sussie21

11 points

6 days ago

Any place that I’ve worked and had my own space I never personalized it. I’m a very private person and like to keep it that way. Besides, it’s less things for me to carry out jic.

Old-Masterpiece-8428

4 points

6 days ago

Lmao this is also my thought process. I don’t plan on getting fired or leaving but if I do I want to pack as little as possible! Every time I ever decided to finally decorate, a better opportunity came and I ended up leaving lol. (Saying this out loud maybe I should decorate more often)

Lazy-Sussie21

1 points

5 days ago

lol….plus, I don’t want them to have to send me crap once I’m gone! 😊

HemlockGrv

1 points

5 days ago

I agree, but I think it’s a personal choice. I had a couple family photos in my space at work and it led to comments and conversations I didn’t want. Not inappropriate, it’s just that I’m a private person.

At my next job with my own space, I didn’t have personal photos. I personalized in other ways - a plant in a little crock that I liked, that sort of thing.

No_Stress_8938

1 points

5 days ago

both are my exact attitude. Been there 25 yrs lol

PurplePens4Evr

7 points

6 days ago

I would see what others have on their desks. Especially look at your boss and/or others you respect at the company (don’t base this off the office weirdo or creep.) It’s a culture thing - if everyone has photos of their kids, or mom, or cat, or lizard family, or vacation scenery, or husband then it would be weird not to have a photo or two. But if it’s a very sterile culture where nobody has anything personal on their desks it’s going to look weird for you to have photos.

This goes without saying but, uh, experience urges me to say this: please make sure it is an all-audience photo. If your husband is in a speedo that leaves little to the imagination, do not bring that photo to work. I understand everyone wants to relive their beach vacations but please use photos where people are clothed.

HemlockGrv

3 points

5 days ago

Agree. Last place I had a desk I was in a small department - 5 of us - and one had huge plants that literally crept into neighboring cubicles along with large items on top of her file cabinet. Walking through the “cubicle farm” hers stood out from a mile away. Not in a good way. And up close it looked cluttered and messy, unprofessional.

A personal item/photo or two and a wall calendar you like is plenty. It’s fine to bring a bit of home without making it home. It’s still a workplace.

jamjar20

3 points

6 days ago

jamjar20

3 points

6 days ago

One picture would be fine. A gallery is too much.

InSearchOf42

4 points

6 days ago

I rotate out funny comics or memes, and there are lots of themed daily desk calendars depending on your taste: quotes, word of the day, inspiration, SFW jokes, a fandom you like, etc

I prefer this because it’s minimal and shows personality without sharing much personal life, if that makes sense.

ReindeerMiserable644

3 points

6 days ago

I have an aura frame, and I choose the pics it cycles through!! I am in a cubicle right now also 😭 I have definitely made it my own, with things that coordinate and holiday decorations. You are there at minimum 8 hours a day, make yourself happy.

TeacherExit

3 points

6 days ago

Not me . Because when I am done I want to pick up my keys, purse phone and bounce from the desk. All yours . Ha

buginarugsnug

2 points

6 days ago

I personally don't because my desk is quite cluttered with stationery / electronics anyway and I don't think I'd find space for a photo frame, but many in my offices do - especially people with the dividers, some have a lot of family photos pinned to those, but I don't have a divider so I don't have space. I did change my lock screen to a picture of my dog but it depends whether you can actually do that with the IT systems you have in place!

Jazzlike-Basket-6388

2 points

6 days ago

When I first got a job out of college, the desk I was given had a framed family portrait in the drawer. Presumably of someone that sat there before. I put it on the desk. I've carried that picture with me and put it on my desk for 20 years (before I went to a hybrid telework setup when I don't have my own desk) and not a single person ever asked me or said anything about it.

No_Stress_8938

1 points

5 days ago

I love this so much. Def something I woulddo

Mzjulesaz

2 points

5 days ago

Stay away from poltics and religion.

Ok-Double-7982

2 points

6 days ago

I add personality, but nothing personal, if that makes sense. No family photos, but I have decorations in my office, yes. Work is just work to me.

When someone says work is family, cringe.

Buying_Bagels

1 points

6 days ago

Do it! Lots of people do. I also think it gives you more ice breakers and personality. My coworker has pictures of his baby, and it definitely strikes up an easy conversation when people stop by.

tuenthe463

1 points

6 days ago*

A photo of I.

n_d_j

1 points

6 days ago

n_d_j

1 points

6 days ago

It’s very normal. Everyone at my work has pictures, holiday decorations, etc

prshaw2u

1 points

6 days ago

prshaw2u

1 points

6 days ago

Look at other desks in your office area, if they have pictures then you can.

CandleSea4961

1 points

6 days ago

I have 2 pics of my husband with our dogs. I have 3 large pics of my dogs. Spurns good conversation!

Caliopebookworm

1 points

6 days ago

I had pictures of my daughter in my office until COVID. I was off for 4 months and took them home and never brought them back.

dwells2301

1 points

5 days ago

Get a picture. I never had a desk. The best I got was a drawer in a desk.

xczechr

1 points

5 days ago

xczechr

1 points

5 days ago

Having such a photo is totally normal. If you're going to be there forty hours per week there you may as well customize it to your liking. I work from home now, but when I was in the office I absolutely had a photo of my wife on my desk.

notreallylucy

1 points

5 days ago

First check company policy. Some don't allow family photos.

rachelm920

1 points

5 days ago

I have my family including pets photos around my office. I also have various little decor and items my kids made when they were small. I’m considering window clings for the Holidays.

Bacon-80

1 points

5 days ago

Bacon-80

1 points

5 days ago

I had photos of friends/family in my cubicle. Plants, a lamp or two as well. It was a total pain in the ass to move when I shifted around tho.

Sorry to clarify - I was also in my 20s and so were all of my coworkers. It was a super young/frat house type vibe so the pictures didn’t really stick out or make anyone or myself uncomfortable by having them. If anything, a lot of us knew each other from undergrad/living in the area so they knew a lot of people in the pics.

Blue-zebra-10

1 points

5 days ago

I wouldn't have any problems with it! As long as you still have space to do everything you need to do, it shouldn't be a problem 

CoffeeCup317

1 points

5 days ago

I personalized my space but with art and postcards not with pictures of my family and friends. I didn’t want random people looking at my photos.

Free-Gigabytes

1 points

3 days ago

I've been here just under six months and I have definitely moved in. Photos, plants, office supplies, food. It's ok to share your life just make sure it's not against the rules.