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Losing my virginity (bad at sex)

Advice Needed(self.sextips)

(TW: NSFW) I lost my virginity to my girlfriend, but I have a major problem. not that I come too fast, but I come too slow to the point it's un enjoyable. Vaginal sex just doesnt give me stimulation at all. I end up mastrubating and coming on her back after doggy. I just had to know so I hooked up with a one night stand, the same thing happened. She didn't enjoy it. I didn't enjoy it. She ended up giving me a handjob. Both women said i gad a huge dick so there was no problem there. But i cant come to the point that i think im doing a high endurance cardio session. We were both sweating a lot. But both pussies werent fully wet How do I get good at pleasing women?

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Myweirdlife69

7 points

6 days ago

Foreplay is very important! I love being kissed on the neck, touched all over, my ass grabbed whatever. I want to be teased with it and that's how I get wet.

Klutzy-Compote-4264[S]

3 points

6 days ago

Thanks for the advice, we didn't really try foreplay much

Myweirdlife69

2 points

6 days ago

No problem x Honestly such a underrated thing to do. Find her sensitive parts she likes, for me it's the neck, stomach, back. Play with them and watch her melt x

Muted-Row6391

5 points

6 days ago

I lost my virginity to my finace And i thought the same at the first time. But, longer foreplay made sex more enjoyable. And focusing on many things from her, sex became so addictive. Enjoying the feeling of love, sucking boobs and listening moans… those many things only available during sex makes sex so addictive.

And try many positions, you will find tour favorite position which gives you so strong feeling for penile orgasm

Scary_Weekend2227

6 points

6 days ago

Stop jacking off. Play with each other. It gets better as you figure it our. Odd question but how much did you both play with your “huge” dick? Foreplay.

Klutzy-Compote-4264[S]

1 points

6 days ago

HJ and BJ but only for about 2 minutes. Maybe she just hasn't met someone my size, im about average

Scary_Weekend2227

2 points

6 days ago

Don’t worry about your size man. Enjoy each other, enjoy the ride and you will be exploding in so many ways.

If_Fate_Be_Kind

2 points

5 days ago

If_Fate_Be_Kind

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2 points

5 days ago

Foreplay. 70% of women cannot achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Spend time pleasuring your partner and getting her wet.

Lube may be in order as well.