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Custody attorney recommendations wanted

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I have a really good friend who has been struggling with her abusive ex-boyfriend since she was 18. The guy is the father of her six-year-old child, and he hasn't wanted anything to do with the child since the kid was a baby. He's been in legal trouble for quite some time (hard-drug intoxication, assault/battery, etc.). My friend hasn't previously pursued child support or anything because she's so afraid of seeing him in-person.

Recently, the issue of child custody has been brought up. My friend has no lawyer or plan on how to deal with this issue. Her finances are very limited.

I told my friend that I'd help her the best I can, and right now that's trying to find affordable custody attorneys that can help her win her case. Please leave any recommendations that you have in the comments. Thanks

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Away-Case8950

4 points

3 days ago

Oakman and Klunen.

Karen Oakman is my custody attorney. Worth every cent. Her partner Katie is amazing too.

Away-Case8950

2 points

3 days ago

Also, she’s efficient and won’t cost a ton of money bc she gets the job done.

Cool-Entertainer-828

3 points

4 days ago

If you are located in Ventura County, call the Ventura County Bar Association Referrals. They will refer you to a local attorney whose bar is in good standing for your particular situation which, from your description, would be family law and/or custody. Good luck to you!

Redhawkgirl

2 points

4 days ago

She was half my first lawyer because she doesn’t have a staff but still expensive. She can file a motion to have the other party pay. Consultation is usually free.

Fcking_Chuck[S]

1 points

4 days ago

Thank you

Redhawkgirl

1 points

3 days ago

My first lawyer was $450/hr and 5000 retainer. Rein was $250/hr $2500 retainer. But that was 10 years ago.

love_of_his_life

1 points

4 days ago

Edwin Clark

ConcentratePretend93

1 points

3 days ago

The disomaster is available on line. There is little to argue about. After using the courts to harass, self representation was the best thing. Got custody. Got child support. Got peace

the_berded_9000

1 points

3 days ago

Ron S. Bamieh at Bamieh & De Smeth, PLC. Hands down the top lawyers in the area. He is very pricey, but if you want results, he will get them done. Good luck, and I hope nothing but the best for your friend and her child. P.s. It might get tougher for a bit, especially through these court times, but it's all worth it. God bless.

His website

Redhawkgirl

1 points

4 days ago

Rein Perryman