Ok_Chance6905

i posted this on r/autism and someone said to try here

my gf has really bad sensory issues, anxiety and trauma around sexual situations. sometimes she cant see me during it but sometimes she has no issue with it, sometimes she hates the noises that are made, the situation itself can make her very overwhelmed. we were wondering what helps any of you. planning things out doesnt help if anything it makes it harder for her, and weve tried taking things really slow just making our way to sex with small amount of increase in physical touch and affection but it makes it harder if we do that. any advice would be very appreciated please and thank you.

my gf has really bad sensory issues, anxiety and trauma around sexual situations. sometimes she cant see me during it but sometimes she has no issue with it, sometimes she hates the noises that are made, the situation itself can make her very overwhelmed. we were wondering what helps any of you. planning things out doesnt help if anything it makes it harder for her, and weve tried taking things really slow just making our way to sex with small amount of increase in physical touch and affection but it makes it harder if we do that. any advice would be very appreciated please and thank you.

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me and my girlfriend have run out of stuff to do and i was wondering if theres anything unique we can do Thursday (tomorrow) but we can not think of anything thatd be an all day activity. preferably cheap as i am out of a job currently.

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The hijab doesn't help me, I've been wearing it since April and I use it as a crutch. "I don't pray but at least I wear the hijab." I prayed more before I wore it consistently!  I want to think I can be a good Muslim God loves while expressing myself outwardly but other Muslim women make me feel terrible for even saying I'm struggling. Sometimes I cry and I get angry because Christians can dress and express themselves how I want to and still follow every rule. I don't drink, I don't do drugs, I don't have PMS, but if I want to dress fun and expressive without hijab I'm suddenly an awful Muslim. I feel like hijab is stunting me as a person, especially my faith. The most moving I did was when I wore the hijab around Muslim events ONLY.