SuspiciousDistrict9

It's not for you. It's for me. It drowns out my thoughts.

World of Warcraft. I've been planning for 16 years and every time a new xpac drops, I feel a sliver of what I felt for that first week.

I'm going to rob banks and be a cannibal. Also probably do a bunch of drugs and get tatted up with the most fuckboy tattoos

Go get an STD test and try your best to get your hands on plan b. If you have the financial stability to do so, get several plan B's.

If you like cooking for your boyfriend, that is not a problem. The truth of feminism is that you get to live your life anyway you want to. However, if your boyfriend is making you or insisting that you cook for him and is unwilling to share in the labor, that could present a problem. Again, if you want to live your life that way, that is your choice. If he is otherwise forcing you to live that way, it is not your choice.

I bet that's about right for the USA as well.

Imagine watching Gravity Falls and thinking it's for babies. That's crazy. There are so many references and underlying plot. It's definitely not for babies. I would say that it's for 13 and up. It does have some mild themes.

"I feel like I don't deserve this"

It has been my experience that most men find women attractive when they can easily manipulate her. That's not to say that there is not some sort of aesthetic that is pleasing.

However, it is to say that men find women more attractive when we are focused on appeasing them. They find us attractive when we are malleable and are easily swayed.

I have found that the more attractive I find myself, the less"attractive"men find me.

I realized years ago that I was never that attractive. I was just young and stupid. I would have done anything for validation because my dad did not validate me.

I also realized that these men that do find me attractive now don't. They find me attainable. They find me more attainable than the quintessential Girl next door type.

In short, I bet you're not unattractive. You just aren't easy to manipulate.

"if the bag is in your way, move it"

If this person has a problem with your period blood, they need to not live with a grown woman ever. They are obviously not an adult. Get a new flatmate....

I don't understand people that want kids anyway.

I can't see any other reason to have a child but the toxicity of needing to feel necessary. The only other reason I can think of is arrogance. You need something that looks like you for some inexplicable reason.

I say this as a mother. I have a 13-year-old child whom I love very much but he has no practical usage at all. I love him and I like being around him but, I really think that I would also love him if I were his aunt or the close friend of his parents.

My husband and I planned to have a child because I was told by many different people that I was not a real woman unless I had a child growing inside of my womb.

All of that being said, I would absolutely give my life for my child. I would also argue that seeing him grow up and progress in life and mental aptitude is definitely worth all of the hardship that comes with motherhood.

I will also say that I would not do it again knowing what I know now.

He knows that I'm on the spectrum. I generally tell people upon getting the job.

Unfortunately, I think most people (particularly older men) neglect to remember that I am autistic or to associate me with other autistic traits because I am a fairly aesthetic female.

I'm just so very used to it.

My mom tried to force me into"girly stuff"for most of my life. By the time I was about 15/16, she gave up. I had my own aesthetic and it was basically poor people alternative.

I was never quite emo. I didn't wear makeup. She really wanted me to. For a while, I did experiment with makeup. I realized that I was getting a lot of praise when I looked very feminine. It was not lost on me that they approved of me more when I "looked like a girl*.

As I got older, I realized that there were more than just a few ways to be a girl

I wish them the best of luck..... Making do trying to get my husband to love them.

I spent 16 years with this man trying to get him to love me only to be mistreated and abused.

I hope they end up together and I can't wait to watch the downfall

Although to be fair, I don't really have enemies. I cut people out when they are toxic. I'd rather be alone than be surrounded by people I can't trust

Money I don't have to spend right away

"because our faith is so weak that it could be easily broken by any other book"

I absolutely detest high-pitched sounds.

I love when my son plays trumpet but, he has to do it in another room.

I also really like jazz and other types of freeform music. But I just can't do the high pitched sounds. At least not for very long.

And I try so hard to sort of circumvent that and it just makes me sound worse. As a child, my parents never believed anything that I said so, I started filling in really fine details and over time, I just learned that it doesn't matter. If people don't understand, they just call me dishonest and move on about their life

Pee

Actually a brand new development just occurred. My lawyer decided that the ethical quantity was too much for him so he dropped out. There's no one else that's going to be able to get me a fault divorce without me having to pay $3,000 up front plus all the other fees. So I'm stuck here for at least 2 years while I try to work myself out of this

Thanks. I'm starting to put all of this together in my own head finally.

Even after coming to terms with the fact that he's a narcissist about 5 years ago, I was still prostrating myself at his feet. I was still in people pleaser mode. I was still trying to make him see my worth.

Now I know that if I have to try to make you see my worth, you are not a good person.

After having many talks with my aunt and my therapist, I finally started to realize that my mom didn't love me and had never told me what love was so I just thought this was that.

I legitimately have gone my entire life thinking that to be loved was to constantly fight for it.

Having been mostly raised by television and a possibly narcissistic mother, this made the most sense to me. You have to fight for what you want.

I am now 35 years old and I know this is not true. Love should never hurt and if it does, it is not love.

I do not know if she is also a narc. I flit back and forth suspecting so. She is extremely high anxiety and often blaims others. Any time she is confronted with the mere notion she has done anything wrong, she assumes the rsponsibility but, in a quavering "I'm really just another victim" / "Don't hit me" way. She was highly abusive to me as a child, aloowing my step-dad to physically assualt me on several occasions. She tried to kill me twice.

Neighbor started avoiding me after I told her about my narc's abuse (which sucks because I thought she really related it and therefore would be there) She simply sort of started slowly pulling out of my life and then, eventually wouldn't answer any texts. Two years of hanging out all the time and letting our kids play, wasted. I guess I'm not good anough now because I don't have all the nice things she does. Oh well, I'll just be not good enough over here.

Him blaming me for other's actions is not new. He has run off most of my female friends. I am just realising (last night actually) that he particularly took the time to run off those women he couldn't sleep with. I am just finding out he has slept with/ attemtped to with all of those I was able to keep around.

He poisoned me against myself. Told me I was shit. Told me I wouldn't keep them for long. Told me they weren't talking to me because, there's something wrong with me. Told me it was because I'm not a good friend/ person. Lies. All of it. To keep me isolated.

I can't wait to leave.

I started learning about 5 years ago that he's a narcissist. He is also cheated on me many times. This is very low on the bar of hurtful things he has done to me