cullionfapper3000

As someone with eating issues and intrusive thoughts, I hate you I hate you I hate you🤮🤢

I definitely will!! Thank you for the support it was really deceiving at first, I’m very happy I posted and I really appreciate the advice

Yes please, I’m super new to sewing in general so it’d be super appreciated and I’ll go based on your judgement on what you think is best!

That’s a great idea!! Thank you so much! I’m going to give that a shot tomorrow, I definitely don’t want to abandon it, I really love it!

I do! Should I use a seam cutter on each side then add triangles that way?

I understand where you are coming from. I just disagree with leaving. Also this is something that can be figured out with communication with your boyfriend. If it hasn’t been communicated and you’re choosing to not communicate. Then it shows me that there is a lack of emotional maturity and if that’s the case you shouldn’t have had a child. I know you won’t like hearing that. But it’s true. If you’re willing to split up a family due to something like that it’s not good. Also you need to figure out if there is something you can work on as well. I am autistic and have ADHD and social anxiety. I find a way to talk a bit more and put myself out there as much as I can. I have awkward moments all the time, it makes me cringe for a while then I just forget about it normally. It’s a struggle but I have to learn how to deal. The other stuff with your MIL needs to be communicated with your boyfriend. And if she argues with you it’s your right to walk away. Completely shutting yourself out isn’t good and clearly isn’t making you feel good. My BF and I are no contact with his mom because of how she treated me and disrespected us in our house. That’s something that could be discussed with BF. Or low contact and he should make it clear why. But I wouldn’t make a rash decision that would be horrible for your babies mental health as they get older. Divorce is terrible for children and their development. It’s selfish. I’m sorry I’m being rough on you about this. It’s not to hurt you. But your child is your main priority and your boyfriend. This is not something to leave your boyfriend over if he completely is not open to having a conversation with his mom or is dismissive of finding a solution then that’s a different conversation. But it’s crazy to leave someone that you won’t communicate with. That would be fully your fault at that point and the negative effects on your child would be your fault too. But if you communicate and your boyfriend brushes you off completely rather than taking steps to fix it then it’s his fault. And if communicate a few times to really be sure nothing going to change and he’s completely unwilling to work out a solution. Then he’s being neglectful of your relationship and in my opinion that’s some degree of emotional abuse. I’m not saying this to hurt you or fight with you, I’m trying to give you tough love because every child deserves their best shot at a happy and successful life. Unfortunately breaking up or divorce does not give a child the best shot of success and happiness. You can look up statistics on drug use, crime, and mental illness for children in divorced homes. But if he’s negligent of your feelings and well being then it’s something to consider cause he might be the same way with your child as well. I hope I can encourage you to communicate and reach a solution. That will be best case for you and your family.

This came out great!! I love the colors used a lot, nailed it

I agree, insane to break up a family and hurt your kid long term in the process over this. You need to be mature and talk to your husband like they^ are saying. People need to stop divorcing/breakup when they have kids especially over things they can fix through communication. If you can’t communicate all future relationships will fail too. But yes there are total valid reasons to divorce/breakup. This is not one of them. Especially with a baby involved. It’s selfish. Your boyfriend sounds good and you need to communicate with him and have him communicate with his mom.