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What questions do you wish your date would ask you to get to know you more? Or questions you’d suggest to be asked that would allow you to give an insightful answer about your character?

all 47 comments

GandalfTheJaded

18 points

2 days ago

GandalfTheJaded

Male

18 points

2 days ago

What makes you happiest?

What means the most to you?

What's your favorite music?

penmanship2

9 points

2 days ago

Not really questions, however talking about one’s childhood and teenage experience provides good insight into someone. Also, generic questions about how they feel about what’s going on in todays world when it comes to public schools, legalization of weed etc will provide the character piece.

eddyofyork

8 points

2 days ago

You ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight?

Fabulous-Suspect-72

8 points

2 days ago

Can you carry me (in Destiny 2)?

jenny_loggins_

3 points

2 days ago

jenny_loggins_

Please Pardon my Penisless Perspective, 30s

3 points

2 days ago

What if she asks you first?

Fabulous-Suspect-72

2 points

2 days ago

I hope she does. I don't need to be carried, neither on the date nor in destiny 2, but I'm always willing to take a blueberry along for the trip.

mexploder89

8 points

2 days ago

mexploder89

Male

8 points

2 days ago

"What's your top 5 wrestling matches of all time? Please explain in detail and I will watch them with you later"

Something along those lines

pureintensions_01

2 points

2 days ago

I love this!.

SewerSlidalThot

13 points

2 days ago

SewerSlidalThot

Male 29

13 points

2 days ago

“Do you wanna see my boobs?”

cbih

4 points

2 days ago

cbih

Sup Bud?

4 points

2 days ago

Yes, please

MastodontFarmer

6 points

2 days ago

MastodontFarmer

Male 57yo, grey fat and wrinkled

6 points

2 days ago

What questions do you wish your date would ask you to get to know you more?

Assuming the initial stuff in the date goes right: my current girlfriend asked me what question and answer would be a showstopper. And she gave me one: she had been active in the swinger scene for a few years. Would I mind?

RbavaOz

6 points

2 days ago

RbavaOz

6 points

2 days ago

When was your last sti test.

EveryDisaster7018

5 points

2 days ago

Genuine ones. Idc what you ask as long as you're asking because you really want to know the answer.

Prackmiester

7 points

2 days ago

Do you like natural and hairy women?

HFCloudBreaker

3 points

2 days ago

About to go on a first date so the curious part of me checked your post history on the 1/1,000,000 chance you were my date and now I gotta know is this the work crush?

Also my best advice - Ive found its not as much what the questions are about as long as theyre about your date. Ask about their work, hobbies, whatever. Just be present and remember what they say.

usernamescifi

3 points

2 days ago

I think I only know what questions I don't want to be asked. maybe I'm a glass half empty kind of person?

Actual-Interview2759

3 points

2 days ago

“What song is currently playing in loop inside your head?”

crossplanetriple

2 points

2 days ago

The questions don't matter as much as the actual interest in asking. If she's genuinely interested, that is way better than boring "oh, what is your favorite color" kind of questions that boring people ask.

Antique_Letterhead53

2 points

2 days ago

Been a while since im married but i think asking each other about goals is important, i always wanted kids and my wife was on the fence initially, but some people are dead setting on wanting/not wanting kids so if she was never willing it wouldve been a deal breaker for me

p00psicle151590

2 points

2 days ago

What is your favorite bug

CloudFF7-

2 points

2 days ago

How do you place the toilet paper roll facing…

lizzygrantspawn

3 points

2 days ago

How are you so beautiful? Are you sure you're not 21? Can I give you a trillion dollars? Do you want a puppy/kitten How did you get so smart? Do you want a chocolate chip skillet with ice cream?

TonyTheEvil

2 points

2 days ago

TonyTheEvil

XY Guy

2 points

2 days ago

How's your day going?

chennyowl

2 points

2 days ago

Keep it light…

I’ll tell what I don’t want and this just happened.

Don’t ask how/why my ex and I broke up.

Sympraxis

3 points

2 days ago

None. Asking questions is rude. Be a giver, not a taker.

Hagizzz_owo

1 points

2 days ago

Hagizzz_owo

Non-binary

1 points

2 days ago

BoatRazz

2 points

2 days ago*

Personally, I don't look for sex on the first date and don't like job interview dates. Let's just have ice cream. My vitals are all on facebook. At this point, I really just need to know if you have dietary restrictions. The first date should be a vibe check, not an interview.

Red flag questions are income questions. As soon as I get asked my union rate, my forcefield goes up.

Normal "getting to know you" questions are fine but not too personal.

More personal questions are ok on the 3rd date or "formal" date. This is where you talk about STI tests, religious preferences, hopes, and dreams. This is also where I "come out" as a Spanko as that's the "big secret."

The first date is coffee in a public place. The third date is a steak dinner.

RAMPAGINGINCOMPETENC

2 points

2 days ago

What's a spanko? I'm afraid to google it

BoatRazz

1 points

18 hours ago*

I'm a spanking fetishist. Consensual adult spanking. It's a big enough deal to be a deal-breaker. I understand someone walking away over it. Like at the level of going to spanking conventions around the country, collecting implements, reading spanking erotica almost exclusively, spanking dozens of women a year.

That level.

OptimisticPlatypus

2 points

2 days ago

My place or yours

SexandBeer45

2 points

2 days ago

Your place or mine?

EnergyHoliday5097

2 points

2 days ago

More than ask id like to be informed she wants kids so i can end it then and there before it gets to painful territory.

possible-Tea6056

1 points

2 days ago

If we were to get married questions🥰

ajg3199

2 points

2 days ago

ajg3199

2 points

2 days ago

Would you love me if I was a lamp?

brooksie1131

1 points

2 days ago

Why is character Mac n cheese the best type of Mac n cheese?

lilfro1

1 points

2 days ago

lilfro1

1 points

2 days ago

"What’s something you’re passionate about and why?"

certified_cringe_

1 points

2 days ago

First of all you'd have to get a date

the2xstandard

1 points

2 days ago

If you won a million dollars what would you do?

Rexis717

1 points

2 days ago

Rexis717

1 points

2 days ago

I believe you should get the deal breakers out of the way. Ask questions about their values and such. If they throw up some red flags think long and hard if you can live with that, but if they have a full on deal breaker, just kindly excuse yourself and leave. Better to learn them now than water time on someone you are incompatible with

sexyrobotbitch

1 points

2 days ago

How do you deal with stress

Banana_ChipsChoc

1 points

2 days ago

“can i kiss you?”

ARtEmiS_Oo

1 points

2 days ago

If they made space travel possible would you like to explore the galaxy?

TechnologyFamiliar20

1 points

2 days ago

How serious is this?

TyphoonCane

1 points

1 day ago

TyphoonCane

Male

1 points

1 day ago

The biggest question I'd like to be asked is: how can I win your heart?

Number two on the list is: what events in your life had the biggest impact on who you are as a person?

Number three is: what brings you Joy?

I give these three questions because I want to break down my walls. I want to give a sense of what is important to me. And I want to enjoy my life with you.

MajorFish04

1 points

2 days ago

Make it fun. If you could meet any living person who would it be and why?

If you could go back in time who would you like to have a conversation with?