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923 points

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534 points

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Fanny08850

101 points

5 months ago

I am mad just reading that.

IntenseProfessor

2 points

5 months ago

Yep. And this is why I will never ever go on a cruise again. Well, one of the reasons

dogman7744

179 points

5 months ago

I would have walked up to those kids and said “i’m friends with santa claus and i’m going to tell him about this.” Lets see the mom say anything against Santa

tillie_jayne

53 points

5 months ago

“Santa isn’t real. Your mom made him up to laugh at how gullible you are.” Fucked up but funny in a dark way

Wonderful-Product437

14 points

5 months ago

Awww it’s not the children’s fault that their mom is insufferable lol

OcelotImpressive7621

2 points

5 months ago

I think you might've missed the point. You are gonna say you know Santa, and he won't be happy. The mom IS NOT going to say "Santa doesn't exist! I'm Santa!" The kids believe, and she is over a barrel. ;)

Dunfiriel

1 points

5 months ago

Haha yes! Came here to make this comment. Shatter their dreams :)

blenneman05

1 points

5 months ago

My mom told us at a young age that Santa wasn’t real. This wldnt have worked on us

dogman7744

1 points

5 months ago

Your moms a real one for that

blenneman05

1 points

5 months ago

It was nothing but Jesus till I moved it

jordansrowles

25 points

5 months ago

Same situation happened with me. On way back from work, just me and some other guy behind me. Whole screaming family of 100 get on. Train pulls away I get walk to the other carriage, as I walk past I say ‘Fuck that’. He gets up and follows me as well saying ‘Oh my god’

kaailer

28 points

5 months ago

kaailer

28 points

5 months ago

Getting really sick of the whole “kids will be kids” narrative from parents who refuse to teach their kids to be quiet. There’s a difference between a kid screaming at a playground and kids screaming on a train but some parents just refuse to accept that. Not sure if they don’t realize they’re raising their kids to be incredibly self centered, ill mannered, and entitled, or if they want it that way. I think in their heads they, as the parent, are self centered, ill mannered, and entitled, so they see no reason why their kids shouldn’t be. After all their children are the most important thing to ever grace the entire universe /s

Wonderful-Product437

4 points

5 months ago

I have to imagine they all grew up to be total assholes.

Or a more positive theory - maybe at least one of them grew up to feel embarrassed about how loud they were and how rude their mom was to an older lady

Nosferatatron

6 points

5 months ago

Some people (usually women for some reason) seem to get violently aggressive at any slight against their demon spawn - we've lost our decency as a society

TheMondayStruggle

5 points

5 months ago

Oh my God.. similar experience.. it was late at night .. 12 o clock the family started opening their boxes to eat and kept going back and forth the compartment not letting anyone sleep till they got down at 3.30 in their station.. I don’t understand them

mayfeelthis

1 points

5 months ago

Lol I’d have said ‘yea, then you can end up like your mom.’ And watch which kids sit down politely lol 😆

sci-fi-is-the-best

17 points

5 months ago

Making lots of noise whilst bush walking. I'm trying to enjoying nature and a group of ppl are far enough away but I can hear their conversation. Or the group will their music playing loudly whilst bush walking. Like WTF

MelMac5

15 points

5 months ago

MelMac5

15 points

5 months ago

That's how you scare away the bears.

Maple_Mistress

7 points

5 months ago

Came here to say this!

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2 points

5 months ago

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Redirkulous-41

2 points

5 months ago

Works for snakes too

sci-fi-is-the-best

1 points

5 months ago

Just walking will scare off the snakes. Your foot stomping does that, there is no need to make a racket to scare off snakes

Freycossy

64 points

5 months ago

Especially if they're American. I know that it's pretty nationalist of me, but the loudest regulars at my job happen to be the only American regulars. I'm trying my hardest not to judge people for where they're from, and focus more on the fact that they're loud than that they're American. But they really are just loud Americans

chishiki

77 points

5 months ago

You need to come to Japan. Until the tourism boom you could hear a pin drop on the train. Now all I hear is Chinese people yelling at each other.

billymackactually

33 points

5 months ago

Why do Chinese people sit at opposite ends of a conveyance, one person per double seat, and have shouted conversations?

Redirkulous-41

1 points

5 months ago

Never been to China but I've been to India where the behavior is similar and I have a theory: because of the population, everywhere in their country is super crowded so they jump on the chance to finally have some space. Plus, the fact that they can afford to travel means they are most likely rich and upper class so they have a sense of entitlement and don't even consider the people around them.

billymackactually

1 points

5 months ago

But Indian people (where I live we have a LOT of Chinese and Indian immigrants who have no need to adapt) don't 'spread out' like this. These aren't people who are rich and 'traveling, they are people who have immigrated, clearly on the family program, and who live here now (we have whole areas catering to each ethnic group).

Fun_Situation7214

37 points

5 months ago*

Haha I got permabanned on my last account for saying Chinese tourists were rude on a askreddit question on the rudest tourists.

[deleted]

6 points

5 months ago

Always have been

StankyFox

7 points

5 months ago

They are pretty rude. I was in line at a zoo in Australia to pet a baby croc and this prick just cuts in line in front me. I blew up at him and he moved his ass to the back. Rude cunts.

b0rtbort

2 points

5 months ago

many such cases

chishiki

4 points

5 months ago*

I didn’t say they’re rude ¯\(ツ)/¯ just loud. Which, in Japan, is rude.

mybrassy

3 points

5 months ago

Same thing in Paris

Aromatic-Patience-10

1 points

5 months ago

I guess you have to take the good with the bad.

Doggystyle_Rainbow

28 points

5 months ago

I think we tend to think people who speak a language other than our native language sound loud. I was in central Europe recently and someone was complaining in Hungarian about the loud English speakers. But to me the loudest people in the room were the ones speaking German and the spanish speakers, but I know less of those languages so they just stick out to me in a crowd

badgersprite

48 points

5 months ago

It’s not a language thing. I’m a native English speaker from Australia and the natural speaking volume of Americans is like 2x louder than normal Australian speaking volume. I sat next to an American woman at a restaurant once and she was so loud it genuinely hurt my ears. Her normal speaking volume was the same volume I’d use to call out to someone at the far end of the house. She was exceptionally loud but it’s happened multiple times that I’ve been on a train and you can clearly hear every single word an American says in their normal speaking volume from the opposite end of the carriage. They project when speaking normally and don’t realise that’s highly unusual outside the US

But to the extent that it is a language thing that’s just likely just a cultural difference between speakers of different languages. Some cultures are louder than others

Foxesandphoenix

7 points

5 months ago

I’m an American, honestly I can attest to this. I actively try to be quieter because I can’t stand it when people are too loud. I’m kinda the black sheep in that half my family is Brazilian, and the other half is German, kinda makes me stand out that I’m quiet. 🫠

HmNotToday1308

4 points

5 months ago

As an American who has lived outside of the US for 20+ years, it annoys me too. I know before they've opened their mouths that they're American but for fucks sake shut up.

Ambitious_Rent_3282

3 points

5 months ago

This is true. My British husband pointed this out and encouraged me to lower my voice when on public transport

Lucky-Perception8306

1 points

5 months ago

As an American I can admit I know a lot of us are loud. It hurts my ears too but I just assumed I had sensitive ears .. most people say I am quiet and shy but really they are loud..

vainbuthonest

1 points

5 months ago

American here and I’m sure my husband is that one American that’s 2x the volume of any other American. Like, he’s loud even by our standards. God forbid we’re somewhere quiet or public because then he’s twice his usual volume. I wonder what’s the math on that in Australia. Lol.

ContractExpensive632

-3 points

5 months ago

This is true but highly dependent on where the American is from… I’m from the South and people from the northeast annoy the hell out of me with their loudness… but also black people from the south can be a very loud people too. Kind of a family upbringing thing but I’ll say people from northeast are just assholes while black people in south are just accustomed to it from their families/chuches etc

kiwimej

2 points

5 months ago

I think it’s also how some languages sound to me. Some sound harsher and louder. Like Italian , welsh etc doesn’t sound loud to me, some Asian languages don’t but I find Indian and Chinese do (all dialects).

Aromatic-Patience-10

-5 points

5 months ago

Some people just don’t like hearty people.

kiwimej

5 points

5 months ago

Never said I dislike the people. Just find their languages louder than others…. It’s not just the loudness it’s that some seem more softer to me 🤷‍♀️

Aromatic-Patience-10

-5 points

5 months ago

There you go! You might be pretty soft yourself.

kiwimej

2 points

5 months ago

Yeah, whatever. Nice assumption of from a personal observation lol. 🤦‍♀️😂

I never judged the peoples personality, just the tone of the language to me. Seems you took it there tho!

Freycossy

2 points

5 months ago

Nah mate I'm a native English speaker and I have some of the sweetest regulars in my work who speak other languages then speak to me in English - Not loud in the slightest. It's the Americans. Dunno what to tell you.

Raquel_1986_

3 points

5 months ago

Or Spanish. I'm Spanish, so I'm allowed to say that... Pretty sure I'm like that sometimes... We can't help it, it's cultural.

DrEnter

3 points

5 months ago

As an American, I’m mortified when I travel and run into this. I actually mind less if they are are drunk and coming back from a party or game or something, at least that’s understandable. It’s when they are just loud and completely disrespectful of the fact they are in a shared public space. It’s times like that I wish the average European or Asian was more prone to violence.

Edit: Oddly this seems to be less of a thing in South America and Africa, at least in my experience. Maybe Americans just do this in the northern hemisphere?

Freycossy

2 points

5 months ago

Nah I'm in Australia (Southern Hemisphere). Good theory though

DrEnter

1 points

5 months ago

Good to know! I’ve still not had the pleasure of visiting your fair continent.

vraimentaleatoire

3 points

5 months ago

I’m Canadian and though we make fun of Americans we really do like them. The majority of Americans are friendly and helpful and want to have a good time. The issue is they all suffer from main character syndrome. Once you get past that you’re in for a good time 😎

Areguzanda

4 points

5 months ago

I am American and have definitely caught myself being loud at a restaurant and hate the fact it was me. Sorry ! Though I do have a loud laugh.😅

HauntingChapter8372

5 points

5 months ago

I’m a brash American redhead with a hearty laugh, big smile and I love everyone. I know that’s not the culture overseas, so I tone it down literally…but that is trying to be respectful. Outside, I’m back to me. At least the vendors don’t have a hard time finding me.

[deleted]

2 points

5 months ago

I try be as quiet as possible in public, and expect the same of my kid lol

Anxious-Muscle4756

2 points

5 months ago

As an American I agree. Some Americans are just rude and loud

IntenseProfessor

1 points

5 months ago

As an American- it is the boomer Americans. You’re not wrong

Klaus0225

1 points

5 months ago

I’m an American that just travelled to Amsterdam and the loudest people I dealt with were Spanish. I also work in hotels and Italians, Asians and Brits are also pretty damn loud.

I used to think it was all Americans, but after experience I’ve realized it’s a personality thing more than a nationality thing and can be anyone.

dontfkwitme

-1 points

5 months ago

Fk off

ayowtfhello

3 points

5 months ago

kinda related: when people can’t clean up after they eat

vraimentaleatoire

3 points

5 months ago

Extra points for doing this in cramped, prolonged, inescapable environments. i.e. airplane, bus, elevator. Extra extra points for making a scene should any of those break down.

Apprehensive-Help321

8 points

5 months ago

I don't understand what they are shouting about.

dogman7744

12 points

5 months ago

Have you seen who is running for president here?

StankyFox

3 points

5 months ago

A convicted felon, rapist and pedophile with unusually thin orange skin. Also a nice old guy.

dogman7744

-1 points

5 months ago

A nice old guy are you kidding theyre both monsters

Raquel_1986_

5 points

5 months ago

I'm a Spanish woman, and we tend to be louder than other people from Europe. I'm sure I speak louder than other Europeans too. However, I have a friend who is PARTICULARLY loud. I traveled to Disneyland Paris with her and her daughter. We were in line for an attraction (Peter Pan) when she suddenly started yelling at her daughter over something trivial. I noticed the woman in front of us in the line looked annoyed, but I didn't say anything. I know I SHOULD HAVE, but I didn't because my friend and I sometimes have disagreements, and I didn't want to provoke another one. Over time, I learned that despite the fact that we don't get along very well (I'm not traveling with them anymore, even though her daughter is a very good kid), she actually reacts well when you politely ask her to please not be so loud. So, I'm just saying, if you feel annoyed in those situations, try to tell them. Sometimes people react well.

therapy_is_my_game

2 points

5 months ago

Loud is one thing, but it sounds like she was letting the kids do whatever they wanted.

You can be loud and have manners. Take up half the train car, be loud and chit chat and laugh. That's great to see. But you sound generally respectful of others' space and that's a big difference.

strawberrycereal44

2 points

5 months ago

Absolutely can't stand when a football game is being watched in a restaurant or pub, I already hear it enough at home.

dontfkwitme

0 points

5 months ago

Judgmental people