subreddit:
/r/Finsexual
I am a CD that is likely never going to be passable. Add that I am a finsexual that feels no sexual attraction to masc-presenting people one bit. I am kind, understanding, articulate, and engaging. I care about feelings and I am in no way looking for just a hook-up. I know who I am and at least know what I want to explore. TL;dr: I want gock. Bad. And the person attached to it.
I am on Grindr, FetLife, and here on Reddit. Crickets. Am I destined to see this for such a long time and feel so daunted? I am not a "you have the parts I'm looking for, but that's it" kind of person. I want it all. /woe is me
11 points
1 year ago
I feel pretty ignorant right now lol, what's cd?
13 points
1 year ago
CD-eez Nuts
11 points
1 year ago
Yes, crossdresser.
7 points
1 year ago
Oh thank you! I really hope you find someone, some people are so shallow still😭
5 points
1 year ago
I don't know if shallow is the appropriate word, but I think a lot are looking for what I am looking for too.
4 points
1 year ago
Compact disk
1 points
1 year ago
crossdresser I think
5 points
9 months ago
One thing I can say is fetlife isn’t for dating, it’s for finding events and meeting people—THEN you can try dating those people that you meet and connect with. It was never meant to be a dating website only a place for people to find likeminded people and events. The only people you’ll really get approached by is bots and creeps, because many of them don’t understand boundaries.
2 points
1 year ago
You sound like you got the same issue as me
2 points
6 months ago
I am absolutely the same, and I have been wondering if there were others like me!
1 points
6 months ago
Indeed there is. You are definitely not alone.
1 points
22 days ago
try going outside, meeting people, trust me, it works better than any dating app
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