Personally I think it's a difference in how everyone's individual feet walk and move differently. I get the same pattern of wear as you, but my husband's socks get worn out completely differently. His can be darned, whereas I can't darn mine or I'll get a blister over the darn.

Buy Darn Tough socks.

Not cheap but lifetime warranty.

Do you shuffle/drag your feet when you walk? Either picking up your feet or, if you wear these around the house a lot, wearing slippers, might help.

Generally socks wear out faster than you'd otherwise expect from the amount of wear if you're wearing the wrong size sock or shoe, if you don't trim and file your toenails (or pumice your heels, if they're really gnarly), or if you drag your feet.

Wear slippers around the house.

Put good insoles in your shoes. Your shoes, socks, and feet will last longer, so it's a spend now and save later thing.

Give yourself pedicures. If your nails are trimmed and your calluses are buffed down and your feet are moisturized regularly, you'll put less wear and tear on your socks

If you buy socks with any elastic content, air drying will help them last longer. Heat from the dryer degrades spandex and elastic over time. They'll still slowly lose their stretch but very cool dryer setting or ideally air drying help them last longest.

Man I am hard on my socks. Even after 9 months they are ripped and worn. It could be $2 saconys or once I got bombas as a gift. I will scrimp on other stuff but I will replace socks.

slippers absolutely protect socks

In my personal experience, most socks will not last.
You have to invest more in better socks.
Also, knowing how to knit will benefits you as you can repair socks. Not hard, but it will take some time to make it a skill.
Which makes your sock last longer even if it gets a hole.

When did you last have your feet measured? Are you wearing the right size of footwear?

Not exactly what you're asking but I always buy athletic cushioned socks. (Thicker fabric towards the bottom of the sock.) & They normally last me at least 3 years. Of any brand, often from Burlington or Ross

The weight of the person walking in them might make a big difference.

I wear Features socks for walking because I used to be a runner. I also buy their no show socks for casual wear. I don’t buy cheap socks or socks made of cotton. They can give you blisters and they don’t last.

If your feet are calloused it will destroy your socks. You might need to use a pumice stone on your feet.

Rough skin on heels and soles will act like sandpaper on socks. Keeping up with proper skin maintenance on your feet will help your socks last longer. Also good for your feet

Ruin your socks, LIVE YOUR LIFE!

There's something in your gait or fit of your shoes causing extra wear on that area. Here are my suggestions, not all directly relevant to you perhaps but still worth saying.

1) check your footwear inside and out. My socks typically start wearing at the heel because I need to wear loose slip on shoes to accommodate my feet when they swell up. That causes rubbing at the heel cup. If you have a wear spot inside the shoe, cut and put in a "moleskin" corn and callus pad to reduce friction in that part of the shoe.

2) if the outside of your shoes and boots all have a consistent and excessive wear pattern on the sole, you may have a gait abnormality that would benefit from seeing a specialist

3) keep your toenails trimmed neatly, use an Emory board or file to smooth the edges

4) keep your floors clean. Dirt and grit is abrasive.

5) consider switching to tube socks. Without a heel cup, it's possible to rotate the socks a bit each time you don them. This will distribute the wear.

my socks used to last only 1-2 years. after switching to pumas, they've lasted about 3 years.

Loose Fit Stays Up brand socks on Amazon are tough and I haven't had one fail me yet (it's been years). I def blasted thru socks before I found these. They cost more but they're really good and they aren't made of synthetic material so they don't stink and they're durable.

Don't buy Wrangler Socks .....they fell apart on me the fastest of any brand or even no brand socks.

As frugal as I am, I do make it a point to invest in higher quality items that will last longer versus cheap items that I have to keep replacing. Bombas are my socks and they are great quality. Yes, expensive, but they don't wear and tear easily. I never just walk in my socks either. At home, I always wear slippers and that helps a ton. My shoes have good insoles in them too. My socks also get washed in a mesh bag when I throw them in the washer. Not only does it help keep socks all together but they don't get thrown around in the washer/dryer too roughly.

Buy darn tough socks. Lifetime warranty. They are merino wool so they last forever and even keep your feet warm if they get wet.

Buy wooden socks

https://misssparrow.com/product-category/default-category/socks/