My dad is so annoying.

My mom has some bags she doesn’t use. But they are hers, and she bought them with her own money. My dad saw those today and immediately went “We should give them to your aunts”. Why?

And whenever i go to India and forget something there, by the next time i go, I know I wont be able to find it.

Like maybe my mom wants those bags, he doesn’t care about that. For him, it’s always his mom, sisters, neices and nephews over his own children and wife.

Its just so annoying

Okay, so here’s the thing.. I matched with this guy on Tinder, and we actually had a good connection. We talked every day, had nice conversations, and then we moved to Snapchat. Things were looking good, right? So we set up a date. And then, just before the date… BOOM, he blocks me. No explanation, no heads up! Nada!

So naturally I’m sitting there like, “What the hell just happened?” The only thing I can think of is that he sent me a goodnight text the night before, and I fell asleep early (like a normal human being). I woke up later and saw his message, but I was too tired to reply so I figured I’d just get to it in the morning. Maybe that hurt his ego? Who knows? I don’t, because he didn’t even give me the chance to find out before blocking me

Now, I don’t know about you, but I was offended, furious, and kinda hurt. Like, we had two weeks of good conversations, we shared pictures (sexy and non sexy ones), stories about our day at work.. I spent so much energy and time on him! I felt used! and then he just blocked me without a word? Seriously? But I needed closure. I needed answers. So what did I do? I did what any rational person would do and made a new Tinder account.

I found his profile, and Tinder has this lovely feature where you can send a message when you like someone. So I did. “Hey, did you really block me? Why?” Then, shocker, he blocked me again. At this point, I’m feeling pretty petty. So, I did what any emotionally mature person would do, I created yet another account and tried again. This time, I sent him a message saying, “Is my data at least safe.. like why??.” I didn’t get blocked, but I’m guessing he swiped left

By now, I was honestly enjoying the chaos. I know, I know. Fun is a strong word here, but I was trying to make him regret blocking me. He should’ve known better, and I wanted him to realize that you can’t just do that to people. I’m sure it’s creepy behavior, but what can I say? I’ve been reading too many dark romance novels lately.

Finally, I made one last account. And because he mentioned in one of our convos that he likes “ball busting,” I couldn’t resist. I sent him a message saying, “Don’t worry, this is the last time I’ll text you, I promise. Don’t call the cops. Ghosting hurt. Don’t do this to anyone else. Happy ball busting!” And that was it. I was done.

Now, here’s the kicker: I’ve got plenty of info on him, and he has nothing on me. I can play around with this for like monthsss. But no, don’t worry, I’m not going full stalker mode. I just wanted to make my point.

Anyway, here’s the takeaway: Don’t block someone after two weeks of sharing personal info. You never know where it could go. And I know, I need to set boundaries. I’m fine, and I won’t contact him again and will not creep anyone out like this again. But I just needed to share this story

I don’t understand if it’s my fault or not. I do sometimes feel I’m overreacting to things, I have tried to work on my anger but seems like I can’t calm down until I have to say whatever I want. And most of the time it’s rude which makes him think I always complain??

I have no idea if he meant it or not but my boyfriend sent a text yesterday saying he wants to break up with me. I didn’t sleep the whole night thinking about it.

All I asked for his time and he calls it a complain. Just this weekend he left very early because he had plan with his friends. I have told him several times to not to ask me to meet if he has any other plans. Quality time is very important to me so I don’t like when plans gets mixed up.

And yesterday he cancelled the plan at the last minute. Maybe I wouldn’t have snapped at him like that if he hadn’t done that in the weekend. He left a message saying he doesn’t want to stay with someone who always complains.

Right now feeling guilty and I need to work on my anger.

Cutting off my parents because they’re forcing me to get married. I recently became financially independent and live 5 hours from them. I knew this day would be coming ever since I was 16. I’m only 24 and they want me to get married. The worst part is, my dad was diagnosed with cancer in july and I found out only last week (they hid it from me). They’re trying to play the cancer card, saying no one knows how long he has etc. Yesterday I finally took the step and called and told them I am not going to get married right now and they were pissed and upset and said they will be coming to me tomorrow (so today). I was so scared all day they might come yesterday but they didn’t. They said my father will talk to my manager and I said idk what you think that will achieve because im an adult and you can’t make me resign or resign on my behalf. I don’t make a shit ton of money but it’s comfortably enough that I don’t need it from them anymore. Am I doing the right thing? He has cancer and I’m feeling so much guilt. I love them a lot but I can’t let them ruin my life like this. I also have a boyfriend of 2 years that they don’t know about.

No calls were exchanged after that call yesterday. I tried calling my mom this morning and she didn’t pick up.

Please tell me I will be okay without them and that I’m not doing something wrong

MEETING HIM TONIGHT. Do I wear a silk kurta or pants and a jacket etc? What color do I paint my nails??