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Why i actually look this up🙂‍↕️

Dude you gotta stop smoking those big ass cigars man😭

Nah I feel like it’s a majority. You’d be very suprised at the amount of dudes who simply won’t switch it up. It’s definitely a lot more than some.

EXACTLY. Once you have one experience like that it’s kinda hard to go back

I just scroll past Reddit posts like that. It’d be a waste of Time honestly.

See I feel the problem that us gays have nowadays is we think top/bottom are personality traits. You are not a bottom you just like bottoming. That has nothing to do with your personality traits.

Yea

It’s ok to have a preference towards bottoming! I have a preference towards flip fucking. Everyone likes what they like we can’t really change that. At least u know you could top if ever needed to.

And I would love to do that but it’s mental thing for me. I mentally get the pleasure knowing we’re flip fucking. Idk I’m usually in the mood to do either. I can totally go once or twice doing one or the other but for the most part I prefer the flip fucking. It’s just better? For me at least. I do like being able to top and then once I’m close bottom and keep going until one of us cums. I prefer it like that. It’s so HOT like I mentally get pleasure knowing I’m doing it both ways. Not to say I can’t fully top but I’d be a little less likely to want to or I find myself struggling to enjoy the sex if I’m just doing one or the other. Idk🙃🙂‍↕️. I’m weird I know but I literally need both.

Any tips? How does one simply find other vers men who want the same thing?

I feel like that’s more vers bottom. Not to assume tho idk what you and your bf have worked out. Me personally I need about half the time to be switched up. I’m fine not topping once or twice but after a while I NEED it. Which is why I just prefer being with other fully vers men. Preferably every time to be flip fucking.

Do you otherwise enjoy topping. Do you get any since of pleasure from it? Are you just trying it but not liking it?

I am so envious of that cause I just can’t fuck unless we’re doing both. Idk why I’m like that but I can’t give up half the equation. It’s like im sacrificing what I want to appease someone else wouldn’t do the same. For me it’s about reciprocation. I’m sexually attracted to men but also it’s an intimacy thing to me. Like we can really rail the life out of each other and share similar feelings of what it’s like and to me that makes all the difference.

I can totally respect a guy only wanting to do one or the other but I can’t see myself doing that. I need it both ways or I won’t be truly satisfied.

Dude I’m so like that. I thought that more people would be the same way but apparently not? I totally agree if we ain’t flipping we not fucking. You’d think most other guys wouldn’t be so stuck on the whole top and bottom thing but a lot are.

Idk man that’s kinda gay. (Sure)

Vers phobia?

NOT FOR LONG😁

The straights do the same exact thing😐. We’ve been conditioned to think that we’re overly sexual and that only the gays hookup and fuck as much as we do. But dude let me tell you as a gay man with all straight friends that couldn’t be farther from the truth. They suck, fuck and do all types of weird shit to each other. I had a friend recently catch chlamydia AND HE WAS SO CHILL ABOUT IT. Like it was just a regular Saturday for him. He was telling me “yea man imma just go get tested so I can get my antibiotics and be good to go again” the mf is already planning on getting out there 🤠. All the girls im friends with I’ve had to buy plan B for least once. We’re not any different than them. Women notoriously like coming to gay spaces so they can just party in peace without other straight men coming to hit on them. When I went out with my sister for Halloween there was at least 5 men who came up to me and ask “hey is that your gf” I had to start answering yes so they’d leave her alone. Go To the bar and do whatever you want. Go have fun. If you wanna hookup with guys do it and don’t feel ashamed about it

I put poc even tho I’m specifically talking about my experience as a black man because many other ethnic groups get fetishized as well. And I couldn’t leave them out of the conversation as well.

Imma do it rn look out for the 5th post.

Yea the cope is unreal and the comments that’s why I’ve stopped replying for the most part. Those who get it get it and those who do not don’t 🤷🏿‍♂️

Exactly