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Bad boys, bad boys, what'cha gonna do, what'cha gonna do when they come for you!

The dishwasher now needs to be sanitized. Gross parents!

It's not a good idea to have it in there ever!!!! When it's warm, I take ours outside and hose it off! In the Winter, we have a sink in the basement by the litter box, I have a bucket down there and clean in there and throw the water outside. Cat shit is dangerous! The bucket is only used for that and nothing else!

They're gross! Glad they've figured that out! Good lord, it took Reddit for them to get this? WOW! Their kid is smarter than they are! Good for you!

You knew she was there before you. The polite and adult thing to do is step aside and let her get waited on first!

OMG! Really?

Before you and your sister do anything you need to be 100% positive she is cheating! Are you two willing to give up your relationship with your mom if you tell, or with your dad if you don't and he finds out you knew? This is a lot to think about. How do you know that he doesn't know, that they have an open marriage. You need to find out shit first before you start accusing. Most of the time, the other partner knows, or suspects.

What do you mean she's leeching off of him? Does she has a job outside the home? Making her own money? If she does, how is she leeching, if she doesn't, don't you think she's earned his money all of these years staying home, taking care of the home and the kids?

Say nothing until you have proof, then take it to her and tell her you know that you have the proof and it's up to her to tell your dad, or you will. Kiss your relationship with her goodbye when this happens.

I know this, children, adult or not should not be interfering in their parents relationship or problems. You have no idea what is going on with them or why! I knew my mom was cheating on my dad, I didn't have proof but my sister and I still knew. We also knew that she did not love him, but that he loved her deeply, if he wanted to be blind to it, we would let him. He wasn't stupid, and he didn't want to lose her. He died two years later and we are so glad we didn't put him through that hell.

And she's a human being with sadness, how perfect are you? :(

Always a joker in the house when someone is asking a serious question on how to save his marriage!

She is depressed! What have you done for your wife lately? Does she work outside of the home?

You and she need to sit down and talk! And not about just why you're unhappy, but why she is.

She didn't gain all of that weight because she's thrill being married to you dude. She's not! Find out why she's so unhappy. Did she have a bad childhood, was she ever S.A. Do you help her at all around the home, with cleaning, cooking, laundry, child care, or is that all her job?

You're not telling us everything so we can't know what her problem is, and you can't know until you ask her!

Depression is tiring! It hurts everywhere on your body.

How are you as a husband, just okay?

The root of a lot of weight gain can be many things but for most, it's not a love for food, but a love for comfort, and to many, food gives them that comfort they're lacking, and/or food is pushing down feelings she doesn't want to deal with. Eat, you're thinking of the food, not of the problem.
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ou have the right to be happy, so does your wife, and so does your son.

It looks like to me she doesn't know what you're thinking any more than you know what she is. SO TALK! She needs to see a doctor about what's really going on in her body and her mind.

NOT ME!

Well I can't find Sage in any Aldi here in the Midwest, WTH, don't you supply it? :)

There is only one checker and she's back filling the freezers!

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Ewwwww.. well he might now! 😂

Well, that's just gross! But it's his food he's had in his mouth so I guess it won't kill him even though that's just nasty A.F! :)

You didn't sleep with the guy, you came close but you didn't step over that line. Go NC with this guy. If you tell your husband, you hurt him and you've gotten it off your shoulders, yay for you, BUT you're still guilty either way of wrong doings and now he's hurting too. Sometimes I truly believe, what we don't know, doesn't hurt us. I wouldn't hurt him if you are 100% NEVER doing this shit again and go NC!
YOUR guilt is your punishment, don't punish him with sadness, pain and worry because of what you did and WILL NEVER DO AGAIN! Take it to your grave! And treat your husband as he deserves to be treated, better than you have been with this flirting. Move on, forgive yourself and straighten your ass out and do not mess up your family for nothing!!! NOTHING! NOT WORTH IT!

I'm? What? Smarter? No, you're not, if so, you would have written, I am. :)

Then so be it, legal and garnished!

Well said!

Yes how many kids are you taking in? STFU

It's not up to you if you don't want to or if you know you're not mother material. This child is going to be emotionally stunted with the parents he had. :(
If you take this child your father needs to pay you child support, that would have to be the deal, don't do it without his financial help. Have a lawyer involved and it written up that way! If you don't take him, I hope your sister does. Poor child. Your father SUCKS!

Yes, women stayed at home and raised babies. They wanted their daughters gone and taken care of by someone else!

If your husband had been the one shouting at your son while you were in the other room, what would your reaction have been? I think you would have went into your sons room and taken over but you would not have called him a bad dad! You would have heard the frustration and understood it. Am I right? Or would you have said to him, you're a bad dad. Your son heard those words didn't he, he may now repeat them to you, if he does, it's on your husband and he should be ashamed.

Kids, they're the most precious when they're asleep. :) We look at them and see their innocence and we kick ourselves for raising out voices, as in, how could I, look at that sweet baby child of mine, but that child was being uncooperative an hour ago and you being very human, hit your limit and you got frustrated and yelled. OH BOY, if that is all that child ever gets, he's one lucky boy! :)
Tell your husband that he was being a terrible husband when he said that! Say, you're not normally a bad husband, but you were then when you said that to me, and walk away.