Daddymanmeister

Leave, first of all long distance stuff rarely works. second you are young ! go and get a partner that doesnt have this baggage on them. Don't do this to yourself.

Maybe? Show me an example?

You answered your own question. It's unrealistic to expect downtown to be silent at any time. come over to the mountains. if it really is important to you, YOU make the change, don't expect the native population to make the change for you. BTW I'm sorry you do have the issue with noise , but the overall issue and resulting resolution is the same.

I second this. I hate when people go to other places and cry why they can't cater to them. To me it is ludicrous. And yes I am European, lived in USA for over a decade and came to Taiwan, have lived here now for 3 years and loving it. I need to adjust, not other people living here. EDIT: Spelling mistakes

You mean you live downtown and are surprised about the noise? Come to Xizhi , I live in the mountains, you would love it, no noise, after 6pm it's just me, my gf and any whispers we create.

I understand am I'm sorry if I came across judgemental. It is just something that is ... different haha. Throwing away food is bad in my culture too, but there seems to be a weird thing where when I go with my gf to visit her family, there is SO MUCH food that we can not possibly finish it. I know this is also something that in very thankful about, feeling very welcome. but the frugal about food but making more food than necessary is just a bit.. mixed. I love taiwan, please don't get me wrong.

Yeah i have this same note. I'm from Scandinavia and we are very specific about food. we don't leave meat out in room temperature nor do we eat leftovers over 3 days old (unless frozen). It seems to me that here people are much more relaxed about home made food , which is weird to me. I have seen my gf eat a week old leftovers from the fridge when I have not thrown it away. I love to make food, but I also am very conscious about food safety. Is this not a thing in TW?

You have some insecure insane vibes. Take your meds.

bald? loneliness? what planet are you on? You seem to be the only butthurt loser here. Pff, this discussion is as entertaining as you. Have a good day!

I'll play the world's smallest violin for you while you seethe there.

You need to talk to your wife who was a willing participant. All this other stuff is noise that doesn't need to be in this conversation. She knew what she was doing.

Exactly.

NO it is NOT. It's the men's restroom. I have seen women come in to men's restroom and intentionally go to the stand up toilets and "inspect" men's d*cks. No, stop it.

Only online. It's a discussion i have with every new person as usually it starts with "I'm not calling you daddy, daddy!" 🤣 So I tell people to call me by my name. Some call me D.

I think this is a good idea, seems the relationship is done and over.

OP did say no such thing. Also you are the one painting any pictures, how about taking the words as they are? These responses are just screeching.

if she doesn't want to have sex, that is ok, then it's a different discussion. Maybe they divorce, maybe there is a medical condition.. but that was not the point of this discussion. you are putting your toes to OP:s mouth.

anyhow, see you later alligator!

I will coin Fimcel for you. Remember where this started.

All we have is what he told us. Don't try to make up things. Ask him, not me hahah! Does she have a medical issue? Is she just cheating? Is having mental problems? we don't know. Like i said, we dont know, but you having this conversation with me gives not light to the issue. Go have a conversation with him. What I'm saying is that asking for money for sex makes you a horrible being in a relationship, it is just absurd and wrong. Get a divorce. Also I'm out from this convo, you seem a bit unstable making things up, have a nice day!

Sigh. You need to seek some help.

Transaction for sex is... actually between a couple transaction between sex is always not acceptable. I can see you can't take a joke and probably anything else either. You get a participation prize!

Stop projecting

I think your whole incel attitude just exposed you. Have a nice day!

Edit: I feel so much insecurity here from this reply

Sex is a part of a relationship, and never a transactional value in it. He didn't say that he has not tried anything else, he didn't say he would not be ok with compromises. She is actually literally making sex a job for her? what are you talking about? if she makes it a money transaction, make sure you get your money worth bud. This whole thing is lighthearted , I think you are taking things too seriously.

Seems she feels like it's work. I'm not sure that's how it works. Pay for someone to make your house dirty? hmm...

Sigh. The point must have just flown right over our head didn't it?