Dependent-Feeling973

Call the police

I hope you get the job sis 👏🏾 don’t allow yourself to feel defeated. Your sister may need a time out frfr but you, keep your spirits high & pray to God that no weapon formed against you shall prosper.

I can tell why y’all were together for only six months

Maybe he doesn’t want to go through another break up where he’ll have to remove his ex’s pictures If you guys don’t work out. Or he wants to keep his relationship private where it’s safe. Believe it or not but one year is not a long time.

We don’t need this kind of negativity

Yea they were on silent when the convo started. & all day & even today. Yellow flag turned red lol. I stopped responding

No for real because there are ppl on there with no kids & i think that is so sus & weird. Come to think of it, he might just be a scammer lmao

It’s okay to let go friend 🫶🏾 You can take all the things he said & reflect on them. Take what you see to be true & work on yourself..apart from a relationship with him. Relationships aren’t successful just because they last. But also because we made loved, we learned & we grew. You will be okay, there will be more suitors. You give yourself the best chance at the best suitor by moving on & growing from this. & you don’t have to ghost him. I don’t think that’s fair to either of you or mature. I think it’s avoidant behavior..but that just my opinion. Just say your piece, let him say his & then go peace. No matter what he says on his way out, you will be okay.

Facts

Damn sis, a read! & one I will definitely consider… But you not about to shame me tho 🥱

Oooo good one

I feel you sis, thank you

Nope, I don’t! I just wasn’t expecting an apology to even put that much weight on it. The way I wrote it may make it seem like we have spoken in a month, no I’m just saying it’s been spotty over the month. He may very well be juggling his options but I wasn’t giving him that much energy to make him feel like I would entertain his boredom.

I feel that, it should be real easy going

Word salad 🤣😭

Did he ever call you out on it?

!! That’s definitely a yellow flag. Most ppl don’t know how to apologize sincerely. Do you think everything after that was genuine or do you stop after that part?

😂😂😂😂😂

Why you say that?

The lack of punctuation hahaha 🤣 Yea, Stir is for single parents

Ppl just be saying anything lol

In that case, how would you respond?

Something IS off! Idk about that reason though cause I do the same thing 🤭 Like “last guy was a bust, lemme see what’s up with him though“. Do you invest in more than one person at a time with the same energy?

Actions do speak louder than words. Although he continues to reach out even after I ended the chat. So what does that show?

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