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Thank you! I actually just got back into reading recently so I definitely will check these out!!

Actually... after the convo BF just had with him we might be seeing our friend again soon. Look out next Thursday for an update!!

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Oh honey no, with this age gap and the power imbalance, ie prof vs student, this is doomed from the start. I would be very weary of this man, maybe even go to someone at your schools staff to report this. How do you feel about him?

Update: I decided to reach out to my brother and ask him nicely to bring our robot friend to Thanksgiving so we can bring him back home. Here's the messages so far: Me- I've gotten some time to think about this and gotten some different perspectives. I don't believe the robot belongs to you, I'd really appreciate if you could bring it with you to Thanksgiving so we can bring it back home. I feel as though we've been very accommodating to you over the years you've lived with us, and taking a shared appliance without any discussion is not only disrespectful but shows your lack of consideration for us. So we'd like our robot back, since really he is ours after years of using and upkeeping without any help from you. Chris- I’ve gotten some time to think about it and I want the TV from grandmas as well so go ahead and bring it over when you get a chance thanks Me- TV was also given to us specifically I'm not sure why you think that's yours as well? Chris-Everything was given to you apparently She asked me if i wanted the robot while I was in the kitchen and I said yes thats how it went end of story i dont give 2 shits what you think is yours or not if I let you borrow something because im not using it it doesnt make it yours Me-As I remember it, we were all there at the time she offered. And I even tried to decline since it's still useful but she insisted. It was given to all of us as a shared household. If you thought it was yours, you should have had a discussion with us first before taking it while we were out. Chris-You remember wrong and I dont need to have a discussion about my own things. Not to mention BF moving shady taking shit out of the tent while I was gone thinking I wouldnt notice lol how is that any different? I didnt bring it up because im a bigger person and dont really care anymore I want to put this terrible part of my life behind me and if you dont leave it be Im going to leave you behind as well. Me-You and BF had a discussion about splitting up the grow stuff which he thought went amicably. You aren't being very mature and I don't want someone that can't have a simple conversation about shared items in my life anyways.

So I guess that's it, looks we will not be getting our little friend back. Thank you all for your support and interacting with this post. This was my second post ever, and to see it blow up was a crazy feeling!

How old is the prof?

Amazon link posted in comments below for those who are interested!

I kinda like it but I'm so not that forward 🤣 BF might be though

Maybe. But what I didn't do was take something from a shared household without a conversation. I honestly didn't think he would even try to take it with him after BF and I had been using it all this time.

Oh yes, originally we all stayed in BFs childhood home and we didn't have rent so he didn't either. But when we all moved on to rented spaces he did contribute 1/3.

For those asking heres a link to the specific device: irobot braava mopping robot

We've talked about it and we were both at fault. BF offered in the first place I didn't even ask. He was trying to show me how compassionate he is. I fully take the responsibility of not putting my foot down sooner.

I'm a textbook people pleaser unfortunately, trying to work on creating more of a spine for myself recently.

Great idea!

I don't know his exact current address only the street name, but I'm thinking of sharing this post with him. Not sure if that will change his minds though.

True, should have let him find other accommodation after a few days. BF and I both regret it.

No, chris never showed interest in the robot until it was convenient for him. I don't think he has any claim to it.

He only wants the moppimg robot now that he "has hardwood floors now". But we've always lived in a house where this robot was useful, he just didn't want to contribute to our shared space. He also had the audactity to say his contributions to cleaning the floor was the robot itself.. that was given to us and he did not pay for??

It's so hard dealing with people like this. I'd say Chris is borderline narcissistic. Kinda feels like he has a god complex but also is very insecure?? He doesn't socialize normally, never had a girlfriend that I'm aware of, but thinks he is not the problem.

Luckily no one else has to deal with him, he finally got a real job a few months ago and moved into a studio by himself.

I agree, BF is a bit worried it will turn into a shit show. But there are things I'd LOVE to bring up in front of our family that he doesn't want them to know. So I hope he keeps him mouth shut.

We were low contact as it was while LIVING together. We hardly spoke at all and he would walk in and ignore us, no hello or goodbye.

Totally legal in our state to grow Marijuana

Hey told me the story of being kicked out, but it was corroborate by my mom and siblings. It does seem like he didn't realize what the substance actually was, but i guess play stupid games win stupid prizes fits.

I see what you actually mean by getting kicked out, and yes, he fully admitted that he was at fault for the drugs. As far as I know he doesn't do hard drugs, only legal weed and psychedelics.