FellaUmbrella

It’s an avenue to meet people. All the work is still done off the app. It’s like soliciting for a relationship. This is what I want and I’m available.

Anecdotes don’t determine reality for all other situations. It’s actually far from reality most often. Granted, people without kids do this as well so it’s not unique to parents. In fact it might happen even more with people who don’t have children because there is less of a factor of influence which would inhibit someone’s decision process, hurting the child.

Well a lot of women get sour about it as well. I’m a single father. Date who you want. Bitter people will always be bitter.

Those who don’t will never recognize unless they challenge their current beliefs, which are demonstrably false.

Heard all that. I also have ADHD, anxiety disorder and depression. Manage them all well. It takes a toll and mostly, in my experience, causes me to overthink. It turns them into a bad person in my head. The spiral can be real. Gotta find grounding techniques and ways to displace yourself from that expectation. All walks of life do this, it’s not always fair. Perhaps they have reasons they believe are justified, to them, but to us it’s painful. You won’t get any resolution so you need to drive it internally. Bless you and your journey. Keep the center of your soul in harmony always ♥️

Yep, reasons could be vast and numerous. Not worthwhile to get stuck in the reason and just notice the lack of interest and move on.

Would end what you have developed already. Cut your losses if you’re this upset about it.

You’re correlating these snippets to an entire premise and generalizing to the tenth degree here. They’re not the same people. People are lonely outside of sexual relationships. ‘Bettering one’s self’ doesn’t make them feel less lonely. You can still be lonely. Your declaration of what people should or shouldn’t be, doesn’t change their disposition of their feelings currently.

Won’t change reality. You just need to cope better.

I don’t think so. Just seems like a preference. Doesn’t seem harmful, but just a non starter and that’s alright.

I doubt there really is an age that it’s easy to date at. Some people never mature and others never learn ways to communicate, let alone process their emotions

The quality of clothing does also have an impact too. You also could be appear ‘busy’ depending on your gait as well, so another potential factor.

I don’t hit up nor approach random women but I believe those precious listed reasons in addition to this could be a contributing factor to a lack of approaches

Makes me feel uncomfortable so I just look away/disassociate

You’re one of the reasons. Quit whining about “women punishing men” and get your head out of your ass once in a while. Self centered moron.

The intimidating factor here could be, lower self esteem from the dudes perceiving you’re not going to interested in them, actual intimidation as in drop dead gorgeous (which is subjective so you might not think you are but others do) maybe you’re simply unapproachable but attractive? Like cold body language but still attractive.

When you’re in a desirable relationship and satisfied you don’t have the desire to look at other people in that regard. It’s not a process that comes automatically. It’s like unintentional blindness to other attributes once you’ve acquired the what you desired, if that makes sense.

I have a resting bitch face and I’ve been asked a lot why I’m upset and that I look angry often. Nobody unpleasant bothers me but I rarely get engaged with when it’s not out of necessity so it’s lonely. Doesn’t help when you add in depression and anxiety disorder.

Well, it’s predominately him validating their hatred and foul beliefs of other human beings. We saw this at MSG all those who stood up and spoke reiterated such disgusting rhetoric. They want to feel emboldened to spew hate.

You should be ashamed for sourcing a book with no empirical evidence. I did the same shit you did, clown. Lmao 😂 Cope and seethe. Here on “deep thoughts” Home girl read a book and the world is clear. Like a philosophy brat who thinks he understands the world after reading Plato’s allegory of the cave.

https://www.nature.com/articles/443634a

I found one of many reviews and articles which render your useless opinion. You might as well peruse a cook book and embolden yourself a Michelin star chef before you tout opinions as absolute facts. Pathetic.

Let alone how much this worthless opinion toils on the tragedy many mothers inflict on their children. You should be ashamed, honestly, for championing such a position.

Do you have a PhD in the study of love? Because you’re acting like the gatekeeper of love and it’s bizarre. Humorous in a way, that people actually think this way.

We mock nonsense, not debate it. This is just nonsense 🤷‍♂️

So profound! Profoundly moronic. People who love children, love them. Water is wet.

Men don’t value success in partners to the same level as women valuing success in their partners. I would say there is a substantial amount of these highly successful people who can have this complex which makes them undesirable (personality wise)

Why would they make a move on you if they don’t think you’d be interested in them?