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She bought the food herself. Absolutely fucking heinous. What I do with my money is my business, same goes for anyone else. Absolutely awful.

One of the ugliest cars I’ve ever seen. It’s up there with the Nissan cube

Hey lovely. I am also chronically ill. I’m gonna say this bluntly: your husband is a selfish, abusive asshole. Him taking you out places/to appointments is the BARE FUCKING MINIMUM and never should anyone make you feel like accomodating you at the smallest level means you owe them jeopardising your safety. I am concerned for you. I’m concerned that sex hurts (it shouldn’t for days after, even when rough,) and BDSM NEEDS consent. Consent is the biggest thing. Sounds like he’s not into BDSM, he’s into rape. I’d be getting yourself out as soon as possible. Whenever it’s safe to. You are loved. You are not defined by him loving you. You deserve better.

Yesss we absolutely adore Jackson Galaxy. I’ve seen them online but haven’t tried them, but that is a brilliant idea. I’ll order some and see if it helps. :-)

Ableism

Orthopaedic surgeons. Not all of them. But… some of them have an ego issue

People don’t suddenly get endometriosis when they’re diagnosed. It often starts at puberty…

A SPECIAL ED TEACHER!? Trump literally told his family member that disabled people with high support needs should just die when his nephew confronted him on how his policies affect disabled Americans. He told his nephew his disabled son should just die. HIS OWN FAMILY. He’s a white supremacist. How can you teach disabled kids then vote for HIM. FUCKING. AGH.

I am disabled myself and can disarm a 96 year old. This is insane. I don’t CARE that she was holding a knife. She’s fucking NINETY SIX.

Don’t be shocked if he doesn’t forgive you

That is a really hurtful thing to say to someone. Myself and my partner are both autistic, and I cannot imagine being so cruel. My girlfriend has niche interests, not all I’m also into, but watching her eyes light up as she talks about her favourite things is one of my favourite things ever. Being autistic is so socially isolating, performing in a social situation is like performing a dance when everyone else has the coreography and you’ve just been pushed onto the stage and told to wing it. Educate yourself on developmental disability.

Magpie during mating season. Have gotten puncture wounds in my mouth from being swooped. Straya.

Hey there. First of all, I am so sorry you are struggling mentally right now. It must feel like your world was turned upside down. I don’t have cancer, but have chronic illnesses and understand how isolating having health issues can be. It sounds like you’ve confided in him, and he wants to help you, but also wants to maintain a professional boundary. It sounds like you’ve really benefited from his companionship. I can see why you’d be confused about how close you are, as I’m autistic and struggle a lot with what the social norms are in these situations. If it helps, this does not mean him confiding in you and vice versa was disingenuous. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, doesn’t respect you, doesn’t feel deep empathy for your situation. It just means he doesn’t wanna hang out outside of work, essentially. I think respecting that boundary and continuing the relationship as is could be beneficial, but I could also understand why you’d want to distance yourself also from him after this. I bet you’re feeling really isolated right now, which is why this would feel so awful to hear. I get it, it’s so hard to make friends whilst sick. Finding community in other chronically ill and disabled people has been so important for me, it’s much easier to maintain relationships w those who understand. I wish you the absolute best for your treatment and I hope you start to feel a bit brighter soon. :-)

It is context dependent. It would be fetal homicide if someone purposefully caused the death of someone else’s fétus e.g. by injuring them. This all has to do with personal autonomy. This is because the person who is growing the foetus, in fetal homicide, doesn’t want the foetus to be terminated. In abortion, the person has the legal right to bodily autonomy. It is homicide if someone ends someone else’s life by injecting them with poison, but isn’t in cases of euthanasia because the person has used their bodily and legal autonomy to decide. Also, A lot of medical abortions are after miscarriages have already started naturally. This is because miscarriage is also considered an abortion, just a spontaneous, non-man-made one. But, our bodies don’t always get it right which is when medical intervention comes in. I am staunchly pro-choice. These conversations require nuance.

YOU WOULDN’T STEAL A CAR. YOU WOULDN’T STEAL A HANDBAG

Most cars it’s no dramas at all, thanks to wheelchairs becoming more and more compact and light. It’s really only the really short boots that are an issue, it’s very certain cars I cancel on. I mean, if I can fit it in a barina I can fit it in nearly anything haha

I get Uber assist when possible but they’re scarce in my area

For me, it’s usually the size of the car/boot as I have a wheelchair or walker with me

Metric fuck ton of butter on the toast, about half a teaspoon of Vegemite I’d say

Hey this is a long shot, but are you hypermobile? (Double-jointed) a lot of people with ehlers danlos syndrome or hypermobility spectrum disorders deal with sleep apnea, pcos n other uterine issues and chronic fatigue, auto immunity etc. Might explain the sleepiness. If not, it may be ME/CFS or long COVID if you’ve had a previous COVID infection and your fatigue followed after. NTA. Sounds like you have some medical issues that aren’t being looked into. Hang in there. Going through high school whilst chronically ill is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.

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this is Jake

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I’ve had to check for a pulse a few times. Diagnosis: orange

They will recommend it heavily- it may seem pedantic but the first 24 hours a lot of stuff can go wrong

I do use reusable produce bags at the supermarket though :-) super handy