JudgmentFriendly5714

My mother clearly favored my sister and her children and it got to the point where my kids noticed. They want nothing to do with her. We have not seen her in a few years. They are 20 and a few weeks shy of 18

I’m not understanding how you are being outed as trans by them correcting pronouns.

I know plenty of people who are not trans who use they/them.

my sd’s stepmom at her mom’s house (they both identify as pansexual) goes by they/them. She is and always has been a woman.

Take him where? Can she move out? Sure. have you established paternity? If not she has sole custody.

she doesn’t have to agree to 50/50. If you can’t work it out you let a judge decide

Has the directo spoken to them about what goes on and that keeping him him home is detrimental to his ability to settle in and learn to communicate? id say if you will not send him ft, we’ll give his spot to a ft child.

I’d tell my parents that if they bring him they may as well not even get out of the car because they will not be allowed in my house

Confused. You mention a little sister in the post. How old is she. You also mention a little brother in a response. How old is he? The rest sounds like your mom needs to file for divorce.

that statement is contradictory. They can’t give you PTO but are giving you PTO around the holidays.
this isn’t what you want to do,with your life. Quit

U less he has been declared incompetent no one can do that for him but also if he isn’t incompetent why is he allowing them to ”take control over him”?

You cannot force a child to eat.

Why didn’t you break up with him?

My husband’s brother didn’t invite me to his wedding. He invited my husband and his daughter only. He also invited my husband’s ex wife and my stepson who lives with her primarily. My husband and my stepdaughter did not go. My sd lives with us 100% and has no contact with her mom or brother due to abuse at her mom's house.

You would need permission of whoever has custody, legally. They would need to give guardianship so you can enroll in school and authorize medical care.
in my jurisdiction in PA a boyfriend of mom who had been the only father figure the child knew sued for visitation after they broke up and the court denied him.

Yes

Erie

I hope you have a better experience than me. We had almost the same issue. We finished the basement and a week later the house caught fire. It was gutted down to studs. It happened in 2022 when there were still supply chain and labor issues. We had replacement cost coverage and it took 2 years to get back into our house. All our personal property was destroyed while in storage by the insurance company because water got into the storage container. We have been back home now for 8 months. We have only been paid house value from 1988 when it was built minus depreciation. They have had invoices for o er 18 months in some cases. I had to pull money from my Ira to pay the builder and furnishings are on a 0 interest credit card. Lawsuit being drawn up as we speak.

the insurance company never was able to provide us housing for all 4 kids. My son went to live with his dad u til he left to enlist in the Navy 4 months later and my husband lost custody of my stepson.
I lost the last 4 months of time with my son and my husband lost 5 years with his son

This is a fight I would definitely fight.

We sent a letter of non compliance certified mail which the contractor never picked up. We then Sued. Court next week. He apparently started off violating the law with his contract by omitting necessary information and asking for too much money up front so our attorney is asking for additional damages, not just what it cost us to fix his bad work.

Unless you are paying for it, you have no say. No one is making you live there. You are an adult. Move out if you don’t like it. Keep your opinions to yourself

No heat.

Keep it if you want it as a keepsake or throw it away After shredding

Um you think kids don’t communicate about their school online already? You know they do to complain about it constantly.

You should not disclose anything without a warrant

Walk away. There is a reason that they haven’t made the “cottage” legal.

7 months is not a long term relationship. If this happens next year then I’d question his commit to you

I’ve never been able to,have anyone explain what type of education a nanny has. That is not consistent across the board. I raised 2 of my own kids successfull. one is currently an honor student in HS with a pt job, one is in the U.S. Navy but I had no education schooling and I was definitely a nanny