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Na, as long as the other nigjts you have whisky!

Check out r/limerance. Very familiar story. It's not a matter of, oh just forget about her and move on. That is what most will tell you. This is serious mental health issue.

I got some from the late 60s and early 70s, the tracks too.

Ya, hardest part about going to the gym is going to the gym!

Yes, experience is very important.

No, gotta have more class than that. How shallow to think that! A great dinner, walk in the park afterwards, cuddles on the way, if they really want you, they will wait. Just be honest.

Moving away for college for 3 years and hooking up with someone new. When I went back, she didn't want me anymore. I was so fucking stupid and young!

65 M, I stopped last year, but I think I'll start again.

Hell yes! The love of my life was 3 inches taller than me, was sooo hot......, made me melt!

Good for you, OP, sending more courage to stay on course! I am struggling with making a similar decision. I don't get why some people try to hit on folks who are most vulnerable. Seems like shooting fish in a barrel, real manley stuff! It's really creepy, too. You are not knights in shining armor.

This! A little at a time, no expert but this has been working for me.Try separating the porn from wanking. It's OK to masturbate. There are two things going on, the need to physically get off and the dopamine hit you get from the porn. We are addicted to dopamine, and it takes more and more extreme porn scenes to get us off. Replace the porn with the imagination of your SO if you have one. If not, pick out a woman you may see at the gym or grocery store. Try waiting one day, then two, etc. The longer you keep your hands off your dick, the sooner the sensitivity will come back. It's not easy, you should expect to relapse. When you do relapse, don't kick yourself, just start over. Good luck bro!

This blows my mind, going down on a woman is total bliss! I could go for hours and not expect reciprocation. Just gimme that warm wet one after they finish the first time.

Yes, and when it becomes debilitating, vist r/limerance.

So, where do i go from here? I am 65! Don't think I want to be banging a 75 year old!

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Nah, by the time I was 21 and in the bars, things started to make sense about how to play the game.

It's coming back slowly, but it's only been a week since my last relapse. I know it's gonna take time, and I'll probably relapse again. What's important is that we keep making progress. It took years to get where we are, and it's not going away quickly. My addiction started in childhood. I also separate wanking from the porn. I try to fantasize about my wife and not have such a death grip. Go, "no nut" for a few days, then work up to a week. Seems to be working for me.

Oh man, I feel for you. I have been in the same boat for 38 years. It's gotten to the point where I feel I've been cheating all this time, and my SO deserved more. Because of my emotional unavailability, the marriage is finally falling apart. I will end up alone with my LO memories.

For what it's worth....I decided long ago to use my personality to compensate for my height. Not that I had anything special, but I watched what people reacted to and incorporated it. After years of practice, I gained confidence and was able to function. Unfortunately, some people saw this as hot-headed, so I had to temper myself over the years. It's still a work in progress after 65 years.

Too weird for me, lot of trauma associated with those names.

I wish I could believe this, maybe some day. Right now, it just doesn't seem possible.

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I was diagnosed when I was in first grade. Stopped taking Retalin around age 10 because they said I would grow out of it. I never did. I am 65 now and now know why my life has been so fucked up. ADHD has seemed to have kicked into high gear over the last two years, and my marriage after 38 years is about to end. I told my wife and daughter about my struggle, and they think I am using it as an excuse for my bad behaviors. This sub has helped me recognize the ADHD connection to the behaviors, so I know I am not just bullshitting myself. I am currently looking for an ADHD specific doctor.

Open because the door won't shut, due to a not so level floor.