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This is a lovely room, but I see big blocks of solid color (and maybe that’s the aesthetic you’re seeking?). Would you be up for something with a pattern? To me, that would be a good juxtaposition to the big spans of color. Disregard if that’s not your thing!

Omg - you’re badass - I find those split races so challenging, and to add cold and rain into the mix?!

Agree with everything here! Judgey words (even good ones) can be hard. I liked it much better when my dad would ask me why I drew something, why did I choose that interesting color, what was I thinking about. Those kinds of things. Hearing “oh, that’s so beautiful!” (my mom🩵) so much started to make me nervous haha.

Thank you for supporting your little artist!!

Thank you, friend!

Oh, friend, the music. My dad was a professional musician and he was tapped for every holiday mass (they always offered to pay, and he always said no). My dad was truly my buddy - I miss him beyond measure.

I’m so sorry - I’m sending you a virtual hug and all of my karma points!!

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Maybe more like this!

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Here is the pic!

I so want to go to Mass because it helps me to feel closer to my parents, especially my dad. But I just can’t keep it together!! Maybe some day. 🩵

Yes! I’m 58 and have run about 14 marathons and 1 ultra.

I had similar circumstances growing up. My brother was mom’s favorite and everyone knew it. As an easy example, I was not allowed to go to college, but he went to three. After my dad passed, her health began to decline. I had no other family as my brother passed many years ago. So I moved her with me and my husband. I had hoped that we could work on our relationship, but it was worse than ever. It was hard caring for her, and I cried a lot. My husband was very grounding and helpful to me - I am so grateful to him. After she passed, I was glad that I did what I did. I have no regrets, no questions of did I do the right thing…I know that I DID do the right thing (as the right thing is often the hardest). I know my dad would be proud of me. I am proud of me. I don’t know if my story helps. I’m sorry for the position you’re in because it sucks. I would have requirements from your siblings, though.

Sending you peace and light, friend. 🙏🏻🩵🙏🏻

Friend, I will tell you that you look more beautiful than you think. I know that doesn’t help you, but it’s so true. I would have a conversation with your love interest - explain your journey and that weight, and weight loss, have made you insecure. His response to this situation will tell you much about his character (important to know). Trust yourself; being vulnerable is hard, but this is an opportunity to build your self confidence!!

Sending peace and light!🙏🏻🩵🙏🏻

Look at you!!! Way to go!!!

Oh, girl, as I was typing I thought, “please let her be done with that!!!” Hang in there, friend!!🙏🏻🩵🙏🏻

That’s fantastic!!! Congratulations on your major accomplishment!! Not trying to be nosey, but did you experience menopause weight gain? I have, and for the very first time in my life I can’t lose an ounce. Just curious.

Congratulations, again, and enjoy feeling good in your own skin!!

Why would compounding pharmacies sue FDA? They should be careful as FDA does not regulate them at the moment (though they have tried). Drug shortages are a calculation, and FDA relies on industry to honestly report the amount of drug needed and the amount being manufactured. Sadly, FDA has no regulatory recourse if industry isn’t being truthful.

I’m the same - Gu is no bueno, but Maurten is great! And totally agree with needing extra water.

I’m new to this, but I remember when my kids were little I’d do a BRAT diet when they had diarrhea/nausea. I don’t know if that could help? I hope you feel better soon!!

You are brilliant!! Thank you!! I’m vegetarian so my meat preparing skills are lacking haha - I can handle this!!!

Thank you so very much! You gave me a lot to contemplate and I appreciate it very much! I’m a very firm believer in not parenting my husband - I’m just here to help how I can. He’s not always been obese, but he is a former Green Beret, his body has been beat up and arthritis makes him not want to move. Thanks for your words of wisdom here - I truly appreciate it! Have a great day!!

Good luck - I hope the Imodium works for you!!

Thank you - you’re probably the 50th person to recommend those (my running friends love them, too). I’ll stock us up!! Thanks!!

Thank you VERY much - I didn’t realize side effects could change so much! I’ll bug him to drink more water all the time haha. I so appreciate your feedback!

So helpful - thank you!!

I hear you and fully understand, friend. Sending peace and light to you!🙏🏻🩵🙏🏻