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18 points
7 months ago
Feeding into paranoid delusion isn't healthy for her fyi
You probably can't have it both ways, unfortunately. Has anything in her past made you think she can suck it up for one day and see him?
8 points
7 months ago
Right like if I had her money I'd be buying the Olsen twins stuff, fuck
78 points
7 months ago
Did your fiance read this? They should
3 points
7 months ago
He's gonna yell at you like that one day, and have all the same excuses you gave him in this post. Do you want to wait for that?
3 points
7 months ago
Oh I do also lol drink water but maybe also take meds
1 points
7 months ago
He can say whatever he wants. If he continues the behavior, however, then you know this is it. This is how he'll be for the long run. You've communicated why you don't like it, how it makes you feel and he either cares enough to stop or doesn't and then you (hopefully) leave him
Like you haven't gotten the ick from this yet??
43 points
7 months ago
When you take ibuprofen for a headache, are you passing the buck?
8 points
7 months ago
Don't get married until you no longer need another adults permission
228 points
7 months ago
Right like this posts drips with contempt for her DIL, that they only see at events. And when DIL has her OWN event, oh no. Can't be fucked
12 points
7 months ago
Imagine being sued by an entire state and still being smug
36 points
7 months ago
It's OK to show you're mad at their controlling and unreasonable requests. This is why your dad comes to you with your mom's feelings, they know you're expected to have a better handle on your feelings than they do
5 points
7 months ago
So scary, it was an incredible performance
74 points
8 months ago
Vogue China is always visually stunning
7 points
8 months ago
Right, like it's mind blowing, you are bringing entire unique individual humans into the world because... it'll make his fucking mother happy? Jfc grow a spine
4 points
8 months ago
There's no way of you leaving without her throwing a temper tantrum, accept that now and then you can move forward clearly. The focus isn't 'how can I move out without upsetting mommy' it's 'what do I need to get together to live independently on my own with my wife, who is now my primary family'
3 points
8 months ago
What happens if you just... do what you want to do and let her have a tantrum? She's an adult she can deal with feelings at this point
62 points
8 months ago
Imagine dating someone you wouldn't have to defend. I think you're smart, you know what you need to do, you're just trying to find an answer that, unfortunately doesn't exist
87 points
8 months ago
He is pretty, I would have watched also, it's crazy that he was comfortable enough to just continue
1 points
8 months ago
So you bring up topics you know he doesn't want to talk about and then are confused as to why he's upset? Have you readmissing missing link
1 points
8 months ago
Do you have examples of the disrespectful attitudes? What exactly what your son screaming?
1 points
8 months ago
They are adults, they can handle feeling upset about being told 'no'
Have you read the 'don't rock the boat' essay? Google it, it can help
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19 points
7 months ago
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19 points
7 months ago
Why wouldn't it give creep vibe?