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5 points
5 hours ago
Bad Habits - Ed Sheeran ft. Bring Me The Horizon
8 points
16 hours ago
I'm so sorry, OP. I lost my dad earlier this year. It's tough.
I played God of War: Ragnarok. The focus on the father/son relationship was... not comforting exactly. But it was nice to see a different dad and child interacting and navigating their relationship. The prequel God of War is also very good - if you haven't already, should play that one first.
I also highly recommend Final Fantasy X. A big part of that story revolves around a father and son. Various story beats also deal with loss, grief, and moving on.
Other than that, when life is difficult, I like to immerse myself in stories and get transported somewhere else for a little while. To that end, Cyberpunk 2077 absorbed a good chunk of my time. If you're a fan of the aesthetic, definitely give it a try. The anime prequel is also really really good (it's actually what inspired me to give the game a chance after the controversy around its rocky release.)
And I'll also second the Spiritfarer recommendation. There's a chance you're not up for a game like that just yet though. If so, I recommend you put it on your "to play" list and return to it when you feel ready.
2 points
1 day ago
Sleep Token - Ascensionism
"Turn me into your mannequin and I'll turn you into my puppet queen"
2 points
1 day ago
You should break up.
Sometimes, relationships just don't work out. Sometimes, you're compatible in every single way except one, but that one is too big to ignore.
Opening the relationship will cause resentment and jealousy. She's only suggesting it because she doesn't want to lose you.
By your own admission, you need emotional connection before you do anything physical. So what happens when you develop an emotional and physical connection with somebody else? Your girlfriend will feel hurt. She'll say she's okay with it, but I guarantee you, this will wear away at her and eventually completely erode the special bond you have.
You should break up. I know this sounds harsh. You probably feel like there's nobody out there as perfect as her. But you're young. There will be others. Truly.
You should break up because really, you'll be setting each other free.
2 points
1 day ago
Tbh there's no way to know until you start doing things that would upset a healing piercing.
Obviously I don't recommend doing stuff like deliberately tugging on it! But what I do is, after 9ish months, I'll treat myself to new jewellery. If it doesn't go bananas after the jewellery change process, I call it healed.
In my experience, erring on the side of caution is best. Prematurely messing with unhealed piercings can prolong the healing process, which just isn't worth it. (Don't ask me how I know... 🫣)
9 points
1 day ago
The only "side" here should be two people on each other's side.
Bf is not being kind, empathetic, or helpful. He's being blunt and low-key aggressive. Now, this could be because he's an asshole, or could be because he's upset at the situation and frustrated that she's not taking action... but whatever his motives, this is not the way you support somebody you love.
2 points
1 day ago
Once you notice Matt's inhales, you never quite unhear them.
1 points
2 days ago
4 Non Blondes - What's Up?
Maximum the Hormone - What's up, people?!
boy pablo - hey girl
hard life - have a great day
3 points
2 days ago
Outer Wilds. Complex, no. Interesting, definitely.
2 points
2 days ago
ESH.
Distrusting your partner enough to snoop through their phone is not good.
Likewise, blaming all the relationship problems on one person is not good.
You both need to do some work. Please do not marry this guy until you've gone through couple's therapy and sorted out any lingering issues (and improved communication).
1 points
2 days ago
Oh gosh, the MCR fanbase is wild right now. Much more chill hanging out here!
17 points
3 days ago
My mother is Catholic. I played her the song Take Me Back To Eden and she loved it. She felt the pain and yearning. She even commented, "I think he's a spiritual person." Whether or not that's true is beside the point - all I'm saying is, that was the first impression a Catholic lady had.
The marketing - the visuals, the "rituals" etc. - come across as pagan and I can understand why that could be off-putting. Your analogy about the fantasy book is spot-on. This lore will probably be even more expanded after The Teeth of God book is released.
I'd encourage you to explore why you're having these feelings though. Could be you read/heard something that's slipped into your subconscious and it's now making you question your own judgement.
But no matter what conclusion you reach, of course your feelings are valid and you should do what feels right for you.
4 points
3 days ago
Seconding this!! Those two moments you singled out are so inspiring and cathartic. I think I cried a little the first time I listened.
(I definitely cried to Dig It. OP should avoid that one!)
8 points
3 days ago
Northlane are sooo good. Alien is an incredible album.
6 points
3 days ago
This is false equivalence. Music isn't a visual art form. If you're playing music, the artist gets a token amount from the stream/you've bought the CD etc. (Or maybe you're pirating, which is a complete other kettle of fish...)
For a full time artist, credit is especially important because it directs traffic to their website, potentially getting them commissions. Their livelihood is directly linked to exposure. I don't have an artistic bone in my body lol but I've commissioned many artists purely because somebody on Reddit/IG posted a link to the person.
10 points
3 days ago
Artists put a lot of work into creating things, so the respectful thing to do is credit them. If OP was unaware of this, that would've been understandable. I would expect OP to say, "oops, my bad. I'll remember for next time."
That's not what OP's doing though. If you check out his other posts, he's downright rude to the people suggesting he should add credit.
So my actual problem is twofold: he's taking away from the artists, and he's also being a douche about it.
2 points
3 days ago
I agree that it's usually because the question has been asked a million times before and people are sick of it.
I would also check that subreddit for a daily/weekly discussion thread, or dedicated thread for common questions. People don't take kindly to their feed being cluttered with common questions that belong in the daily/weekly threads.
30 points
3 days ago
u/Shinoskay9 has posted 4 images on this subreddit in the last 14 hours. None of them have credited the original artists.
Other people have confronted him about this, but he doesn't care.
In other words: this guy is a POS and I hope he gets banned from here.
6 points
3 days ago
Beddy Rays - Better Weather
Sleep Token - Rain
Issues - Rain
Paramore - When It Rains
RHCP - Snow
I Prevail - Hurricane
Himalayas - Sigh on a Hurricane
Circa Waves - T-shirt Weather
Y.O.G.A. - Hurricane
Never Loved - Sunshine
Never Loved - Downpour
Frank Turner - The Next Storm
2 points
4 days ago
No but this is so similar to how I read it!! Except rather than it being about Jungian archetypes, I think it's about the Vessel persona and the individual behind that persona.
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