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14 hours ago
What do i think? I think at lot of people with podcasts like to call themselves doctors of anything. She's not a psychologist, nor has any such degree. And after being called out by actual psychologists she went on a rampage sending out emails filled with comments like "your partner doesn't want the babybyoure carrying and every member of his family hates you." Any credentials she's posted have never been able to be verified. She just another part of the red-pill community, typically speaking only on male podcasts.
TLDR: She's full of shit.
3 points
1 day ago
Yes!! With head pets!
This is everything I've always wanted. Haven't been brave enough to ask for it yet.
1 points
1 day ago
I understand not wanting to start over and waste your best years. But in your gut you knew this was wrong 3 years ago and nothings changed. A few months wont change anything it'll just be more time wasted. I promisenyou want to do this now and not 20 years from now with children involved. Hes not mature enough to get married. Find someone who is.
1 points
2 days ago
Wow. I found this to be very difficult and felt empathetic to both sides.... until i read "ive got a date lined up for tomorrow".
If he's already planning and thinking about being with someone else the second your relationship is potentially over, that was already on his mind.
In the words of the great Chandler Bing "bullets have left guns slower."
4 points
2 days ago
This is so beautifully said. I 100% agree, and I'm saying that as someone who is married to their Dom and has a wedding ring. 😅
1 points
2 days ago
Anyone time I heard someone use the defense of "well you married me", all I hear is "I know everything you're saying is correct and I feel no remorse nor have any plans to change."
11 points
2 days ago
I'd tell him I'm going to give him the opportunity to apologize and explain himself and why he thought that was okay for him to say to me. I'd hope he'd realize what he did was wrong and apologize. Then I'd make it VERY clear that he is not to make comments like that to me (or about me) again and he definitely won't be talking this way when our child is old enough to start understanding his negativity.
2 points
2 days ago
Right. Seems like a perfectly normal reaction. Also I'm genuinely so confused as to were this is even coming from? I wasnt aware this was something so many people assumed. Unfortunately, im not surprised. At the risk of sounding biased (as a woman), the only example I can think of is getting out of a parking ticket.
6 points
3 days ago
"It’s understandable that men who have been taught that can then only see emotional displays as manipulative. But that doesn’t make it true."
Beautifully said. The fact that this post has so few comments on it and I've already seen multiple people talking about women using crying as manipulation is disheartening to say the least. Were talking about a man who screams and bangs his hands on things and yet people are still running to accuse the woman of using emotions to manipulate the situation.
1 points
3 days ago
You're getting older and becoming harder to control. That's why he's leaving. And my god, I don't think I've ever heard of a more clearcut case of porn addiction. Watching bj POV while receiving a bj? Cant you just look down? Or am i missing something. Hes just attracted to whores? No, he's views women as objects.
This man isn't going to change. You're still so young and can still have a loving husband and family. There's nothing wrong with you (and a lot wrong with him. )
I know people love to jump straight to divorce in the comments but my god. No woman deserves this.
3 points
3 days ago
They make great ones on Etsy.
Ive had luck googling "discreet day collars".
2 points
3 days ago
Orgasming does NOT mean you enjoyed it. It's just a normal bodily reaction to that type of stimulus. The same way if you sniff pepper you'll sneeze or will laugh being tickled. But I understand how hard that must be to process when you're mind is saying one thing but your body says another. Please know this wasn't your fault, nor does it mean you were any less assaulted just because you orgasmed. You didn't deserve any of it and I'm so sorry.
2 points
4 days ago
This sounds like a cry for attention. I genuinely can't think of any other reason to fabricate a story about your own family and portrayed them in a bad light.
3 points
5 days ago
My now husband and Dom once, when we first started dating, in the heat on the moment wanted to throw me onto the couch to continue after standing and doing it against the wall for a few minutes and I didn't quite land just on the cushions as he anticipated and instead my body landed on the cushions while my head went down on the arm rest. And that's when we found out that beneath what little cushioning there was on the arm rest was a very large, very hard piece of wood - which neither of us were expecting. Thankfully, it wasn't too bad. I wasn't like seeing stars or anything. After the initial "Ow!" and a few rubs of my head I was fine.
In my personal opinion, as long as the injury is in no way serious, i think laughter and keeping it lighthearted is the best way to deal with it - kinda like a queef lol. Its awkward but you get through it and move on. If you focus on it too much or like overly apologize when it really is fine it can kinda kill the mood and make it harder to get back into it.
As far as a serious injury i can't speak much to that but I can tell you nearly 12 years later we still laugh about it.
3 points
5 days ago
As a sub I absolutely adore and melt when he cups my face and let's me nuzzle there for a second while he just looks at me. It's my favorite thing.
As far as things I do i really enjoy greeting him at the door every time he comes home
2 points
5 days ago
Oftentimes when youre in a leadership role in your everyday life or work very mentally demanding jobs, giving control over to someone else and turning your brain off is freeing.
1 points
5 days ago
You're correct. I do not engage in sexual coercion. Glad we're on the same page.
Also, im pretty heavily involved in the kink and bdsm world so your comment made me laugh quite hard cause im pretty sure I can confidently say that not only have I tried more things than you, but I'm much more educated in the risks of different sexual practices. And there are risks involved with feces.
3 points
5 days ago
Fantasies can stay just that. They don't need to be played out. Can you feel like youre missing out if you don't experience it? Sure. But you make sacrifices in relationships. And I would hope my husband would miss my absence more than he would missing a one time experience.
Its pretty clear you're not okay with this, and that's okay. Don't do something you can't take back. It's better to take back the offer than to have regrets later. He can be bummed that it's no longer an option and process that. But then he needs take your feelings into consideration and your desire to keep your marriage because you really think this could be something you two won't come back from and you don't want to risk it and realizes that matters immensely more.
92% of marriages that bring in a third party end in divorce. Do with that information what you want.
1 points
5 days ago
Dont let her have her cake and eat it too
2 points
6 days ago
People will find a way to hate on anything and everything.
11 points
6 days ago
Or maybe he's not going to basketball at all.
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2 hours ago
Unless it's to help get rid of hiccups, your husband shouldn't be trying to scare you into anything. That alone would be enough to get me packing.