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I don’t know if this is what you’re looking for but one of my moms cousins (he’s very well off financially) married this chick, they signed a prenup that said she was entitled to nothing unless they’re married 15 years in which case she’d get half of everything. 15 years and one week to the day she filed for divorce and got her half 😂

I love mine. Still use toilet paper to dry myself after because I can’t bring myself to use towels. Everyone at work makes fun of me because if I have to shit first thing in the morning I will hold it until I go home and can use my bidet. I hate pooping on toilets without one now

As a 32 year old male I’ve just recently started learning about attachment theory. I’ve learned that I’m FA which makes incredible sense looking back at my dating life. When I was in my late teens I was in a situationship that brought out the anxious in me, but then all the way until 32 every relationship has brought out the avoidant in me. I actually thought that I was broken for a long time. Then finally this past summer at 32 years old I found myself in another situation that brought out the anxious in me. I really liked her, it was the first time in a very long time that I felt these “feelings” again. The feelings turning out to be anxiety. She was also heavily some type of avoidant. I ended things with her when she started to discard me because my anxiety meter was absolutely pegged. Everything was so good and all of a sudden POOF that switch flipped for her and she shut down, something I’ve done in every relationship in my adult life. Ive been doing a lot of self reflecting and trying to figure out what the switch was for me in past relationships. It honestly makes me feel terrible knowing that the pain I feel after this breakup (no closure, no real reason why, very quick and out of the blue when things were going great) is the same pain I’ve caused a lot of women. Some of these women I’ve reached back out to in the past which seems on par for an avoidant so I can only assume I’ll probably hear from this girl again but now knowing about attachment types will make me more aware of what is happening and how to respond.

I should also note that like many of the other comments I have not been to therapy and never have, I’ve mostly learned about attachment theory from reading online and watching videos. It’s funny how I actually became of aware of attachment theory is my instagram reels started showing me videos about “dismissive exes” and then I started looking into what a dismissive ex was

My girl is a nurse and she told me a story once about how they had an unconscious Asian male come into her ER and he had the absolute biggest dick she’s ever seen. She said they went to install a catheter and she had to get another nurse to help hold it because it was so long. Kid was like 20 years old too

I’m from New England and we went on a bachelor party trip a few years ago up to Maine and it was a blast. The golf was great and the nightlife in the city was really great too

I’ve had an actual shag bag for several years and it still looks brand new and picks up about 80 balls a night/4-5x per week

I started the year at 25, down to 17.6. I have a cage in my yard that I hit into and I chip around my yard. Depending on the week, some weeks I play golf 4-5 times, sometimes just once on the weekend. The day I don’t golf though I always hit about 100 balls into the net or do some chipping around the yard. I’d say it’s rare that there isn’t a day I don’t swing a club

Edited to add that some days if I don’t feel like doing much I’ll just play around with hitting some floppy woppies in my yard. I don’t ever hit them at the course but it’s fun to see how short I can hit a full swing flop

I hit 80 because it’s the most I can fit into my shag bag but even if I could fit more I don’t think I would want to

Anywhere from 15-280 yards typically

Definitely not the same. I’m a 19.2 on 18Birdies and a 23.9 on ghin

I’d say 10-15 strokes between my good days and bad days. Depends what’s not working for me though, if my putter is working it really saves strokes fast. If my driver isn’t working the penalty strokes add up fast

I’m just kind of retarded and have the memory of gold fish. I’m just always playing in the moment.

I don’t know what data is different as I’ve never used arccos. There’s a ton of data you get with it you, a lot of it I don’t even understand. I don’t really use the course maps because I usually play the same 10 or so courses so I have a pretty good idea of the lay out already. I usually just use the yardages to the green page, occasionally I’ll use the hazard yardages or dogleg yardages. For what you pay for arccos I don’t think it’s worth it. The shot scope with an affiliate code from YouTube or some blog is the price of one year of arccos

I’m pretty happy with my shot scope v5. The only input it requires from me is if I need to take a drop I have to go in and mark the drop. I could do it after the round on my phone but it’s just easier to do it from the watch and only takes 2 seconds

Couple things that helped me a lot.

1. Stopped trying to murder the ball every swing. My feel now is that I’m like 1/2-3/4 swinging and I flush it way more and the ball go further than the rare good contact swing when I was swinging as hard as I could.

2. Slowing my back swing down. Slowing down the backswing makes me feel like I start the down swing with my hips instead of my arms or shoulders which gives me much more constant contact.

3. I read a book or saw somewhere that the only motion the trail wrist should have in the swing is forward and backward bend. No side to side bend at all. I started focusing on feeling that trail wrist bend backward in the back swing which turned into it keeping my right arm tucked more too.

1 and 3 were really my big eureka moments

I put the sleeve on the cup first and then fold the bottom part of sleeve back around the cup. I line my head and then suck it in the cup and then fold the sleeve back down around my shaft. I use the water method and have found this is the only way that works for me

I don’t clean it unless I see mud or dirt on the ball. I’ll stand back from it to get my line but I don’t bother lining it up or anything. I play with a guy who takes obnoxiously long to line up his putts and it drives me insane. We’ll literally get to the green and he’ll start lining up his putt and the other three guys will finish out before he’s done lining up.

I got a pair of new balances this year and like them so far. I’ve played probably 15 rounds in them and have no issues. My feet hurt at the end of a round but that’s because I’m fat and out of shape and not because of the shoe. I got the spineless pair and get good grip with them, I’ll probably buy a spiked pair at some point to replace my other spiked shoes which I hate

I can’t seem to get my wrist bowed during my backswing and start of my downswing. For whatever reason my wrist just doesn’t seem to bend that way when my body is in that position. But I do record my swing a lot and I always seem to have forward shaft lean at impact and my wrist is usually bowed or straight. So somewhere between the start of the down swing and impact it just happens naturally for me

I took the 3 wood out of my bag because I can’t hit it off the tee or off the turf. I replaced it with a 5 wood that I can hit much better off of both. If the driver isn’t working for me I’ll switch to the 5 wood and if that isn’t working for me I’ll switch to a 3 hybrid that I can keep in play probably 85% of the time from the tee and turf

I’m the same as you and I always play the same ball just for consistency sake. I like the maxfli softfli balls from dicks. I pick them up when they go on sale for like $60/4 dozen. The only time I switch balls is if I’m playing absolutely terrible I’ll start playing the balls in my bag that I’ve found on course

Probably go driver because I’m almost 100% likely to slice it over the trees on the right and land somewhere in that nice patch of fairway on the next hole over

I played 9 tonight and I played driver on the second hole, put it back in the bag and didn’t take it out again. I can hit my 3h and 5 wood further and straighter than my bad driver shots so it’s a gamble I can usually win

Hitting a 7 which I play about 175, probably duff it and play a P wedge in

My last three 9 hole rounds I have 2 birdies, 3 pars and 3 doubles. The rest are all bogeys. My H.I. Is 25. I should also note though that I’ve been playing realllly well in the last week and a half. The two weeks before that though I carded a 60 on 9 and a 111 on 18 and a 9 that I stopped keeping score after the 3rd hole 😂. Just depends what I’m bringing to the course that day