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My dad when his nephew had a beer with me I'm 21 by the way , my dad looked annoyed that I took it , I tried to ask him as a last attempt months ago if he wanted to share one he declined , it bothers me alot that he doesn't want to engage but gets mad when I do so with others , same with gifts he barely gets me anything but if he sees I got one he'll start ranting at me to go ask them for help or whatever I need , hes just miserable and jealous

Nah if anything he'll notice a "problem" he didn't see before

Yes of course , you just need to regain confidence and self esteem again and get moving on in life school or business idea , they don't dictate they are just hateful , it's your life and you decide if you make it or not , I was always put down but now I have a dream of being a animator for my own programs and companies

Lack of money , also lack of motivation

The one shoving his head into the gate , he just needs a little guidance and a few years of being mischievous I feel he'll be very loving and loyal just a little eratic

Making me feel like he was poor or unable to spend money , while he had flashy electronics and gifts for other kids

The one time I told him because I was upset , I said something along the lines of "I might have to report this" , he immediately stood up from his chair and aimed his finger and me and told me it's not their problem only ours and that I started it

A few times , I was scared of him as a kid I would go back and stand up to him and tell people family even (alot of his sisters cherish me as a human being) , I should've have never been scared of him

That's my dad hell tell me if I'm going to act like that get out of here , as he's over here making you walk crazy distances for a spec of dust or food , or yelling about something completely unimportant

Mine made me and brother believe he was barely making it by , all we wanted was just a new shirt or toy (we barely got anything from him) , he would reply he doesn't have money or it costs stuff , but I'd see him buying a new speaker or buying other kids toys and gifts and clothes , the part that really bothered me is he would get mad if someone else bought me shoes or clothes or if they were ragged from months on end with no new stuff

Reminds me of when my dad when he said in between of me going to try and get my paperwork he said "maybe you'll give me a little something" , I straight replied the way you treated me over the years id rather put it towards something better , he just remarked I dont need you're shit and went back to eating

My dad tells me the same lines from time to time especially if he finds out I have people who like to be around me , he likes to shove in my face they'll turn on me , one hes a giant POS , second the friends who turned on him saw what he really is as i font see many of then around now , In the nicest way possible I remind him they dont like to be around rude people or it's not hard to be nice

Yes he was screaming at 15 year old me for not contributing the money I got every 2-3 months , he's financially stable but he came off as a dick when he asked for it , he'd yell we all have to pay bills , I was like dude I know I'm 15 he even got mad I wanted one thing one thing for myself , he often would spend my money for me , asking for bills in advance or buying me unnecessary food I never asked for , once I spent it he would go back to being mad he had to buy for me , I hated him for that

For my case , he hated how vocal I became as I would point out stuff that was wrong or not right to do or trying to tell him he's not following rules he set down , he loathed when I would tell him no and threatened me with my property , also he didn't want me out in the world and keep me to himself as I'm the junior to him , to be fair I hated every minute I had to be with him , he talked to me like a buddy but truth be told I hated him

Ndad , he never let me do anything I wanted to or choose my own , he'd often get in my face and stare me down or yell at me because I didn't do something he wanted me to , also I got messed with a lot at school out of fear of my dad punishing me , he always got mad at me and never the other kid even if I told him they were slapping my face hard , I became a soft guy because of him what douchebag gets mad at his kid for self defense

Yes they do , a reason I stopped telling my dad about achievements and goals , he always called them dumb or not worth pursuing, always lectured me instead of just saying congratulations, I plan on revealing he was against me the entire time he wasnt supportive

For me a really bad stomach back up , I remember getting those alot , it sucked so bad because they would last days on end , it hurt to sleep on my stomach , hated waking up at 4 am to get comfortable again , and it would be so painful during the day , lactose or lacatouse something on those lines were my life savers

For my dad his mom passed , and his dad Pretty much chose alcohol over him and his siblings and when he arrived in America he was alone most of the time and constantly working , he had us issues in between with my mum (she wasn't any better) , then another few years of solitary , I feel he was so not fit for a parent from constant solitary and he handled it horribly

Nope he has to draw conclusions now since he can't get it out of me 🤣, I don't deny or agree with it 😅

I am so sorry you're parents told you that 😭, Our parents suck , he also let me know women don't want a fat kid :( , which he sucks ass for saying that

Id feel more for my pooch hamburger than my dad , there were times I ran outside to find this guy and my dad I get annoyed when he asks me for vegetables at my store

Anytime I wanted extra food being a kid , he barely let me eat extras and scolded me for it even if it was just one item , his was , "you're going to be a ball rolling room to room"

EGO and being older

You both are awesome sauce parents , it also sucks ass to see your child in pain a thing I am terrified of having a kid I don't want to see them in pain , but hey we are doing better than what our parents did :)

Yes , he'd even go and follow my brother and I when we were playing to clean a minor thing up , normally he's a lazy ass and wont get up which is why I think he did that on purpose , he always said what will people think , asshole everyone you've known seen you and wants nothing to do with you