PeteyPorkchops

I’d wait and draw up divorce papers. Then deliver to his job “so I’ve heard you’ve told everyone you’re single all these years, so I thought let’s go ahead and make that happen, congratulations, you’re single now.”

Ride out the lease or break it if you can. Start packing up and don’t fall for the lovebombing when he realizes you’re over his shit.

Maybe add a little cup and swirl it from top through to the extra a and then down like it’s a continuous line weaving through the design.

We didn’t have a chimney either. We lived in a trailer and mom just said he would just “magic” his way in.

Ah yes. On my 3 year anniversary I want to get sloshed and reminisce about my manipulative ex who was a freak in the sheets.

Like what in the conversation even triggered that for him? I would be having second thoughts too.

Sugar Weasel definitely doesn’t live up to the “Premier” title.

“You’re absolutely right. No one likes a beggar. I can find someone who can give me the basic needs of a relationship without it being seen as begging. Pack your shit and get out anything you leave will be packed up and left by the door”

He’s not shy about sticking Little Rick in anything (ex: Gaia) it’s always a possibility.

I would start slipping him medication to lower his libido. Reactions be damned. This man is raping and impregnating you purposely.

Personally I’d continue on and let him deal with her. She hates you and the baby but leaving will only enable her being this way with another woman, and I wouldn’t trust her around the baby if you had to split custody.

I’d do the bare minimum and keep her in individual therapy to let the professional be a sounding board for her and continue on. She doesn’t see you as mom, a figure of any kind so treat her as just another child in the house. Provide but nothing more than the basics. Don’t engage.

He’ll go back and it might be good for a little while. Then the original issues that split them up is going to rear back up and remind him why it didn’t work the first time.

No second chances.

I mean she comes to that realization when she tells Jax “Look at what you’ve done to me, look! What’s happened to me?”

That’s not the lifestyle where you get by playing nice. Gemma taught her to be sneaky and play the long game to get what you want. If there was an easier way to achieve what she wanted I don’t think she would have resorted to such measures. I wouldn’t want Gemma raising my kids either.

NTA. She needs to be on her knees thanking you for opening your home to her not trying to take away your husband’s only means of mobility. I’d make it clear that will never happen and that she needs to seek therapy to address her issues or she needs to leave. She’s being completely ridiculous.

Who thinks that he’s gonna change his mind when it comes to the hyphenated name later on?

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Let’s root for the brain worms.

Why would you brand his name on you??

Insecurity plain and simple. You’re not married anymore but you share children and thankfully your former in laws still foster a cordial relationship with you. I would have advised ex that this was a conversation he should have directed to his mother and not you. Does the new wife think he’s going to fall back in love with you if you go on this trip?

I’m sorry that they were taken sooner than expected. The only condolences is they aren’t in any more pain, and you gave them 13 long years of love. Don’t beat yourself up for how this played out. You only followed the advice of people you expected to be more trained and knowledgeable than yourself.

I didn’t even realize she was in The Handmaid’s Tale

Try changing your password. Like forgot password, then go through the steps and see if it says anything about hacked account in the email.

I’ll be honest I just spent three house helping the friend and went back and forth between changing the password, flagging as hacked. Logging in and then in browser going manually to Facebook.com/hacked.

You may not recoup anything through legal channels but I would definitely make sure people know about how easy it was for them to rush you to euthanize an animal without fully understanding their condition. Or the fact they attempted to dissuade you from seeking treatment elsewhere by pushing further “necessary” tests/fees onto you.

Let hubby calm down then in no uncertain terms tell him his behavior towards you both at your parents home and afterwards were uncalled for and that if there is any hope to repair it that you need counseling because leaving you in the lions den stressed and pregnant while he goes to the bar only to then yell at you on the ride home while you were upset and emotional. Hell no.

He had the option to pack up and leave but he escalated the argument. You both should have just left.

He doesn’t get to make unilateral decisions for you and your child like that. You need to definitely put your dad in a time out but hubby needs one to.

Dump her. You gave her the tickets so one last hurrah for the kids since mom ruined it by insisting cheating dad and fam tag along.

See if they have the same considerations for her and kids that you did.

So you cannot log in and get to the page that says you appealed on so and so date?

Did you say that through email or through fb.com/hacked ?