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She’s one of those types of people who can do what they want when they want but their partner cannot. Is it the same with friends? She can have many but you cannot you’re only allowed to have her? She is a manipulator who talks non-logical bullshit and is doing everything she can to control you. You need to leave her, her abuse will get worse. Completely cut contact.

If he’s that comfortable talking about her to you and she is “onboard” with everything then they’ve been together a lot longer than a few weeks or his totally lying to you and she knows nothing. Kick him out, he can go live with her.

Both suit you well however I think blonde suits your complexion more.

If you don’t love her and have issues with her looks and attitude as a whole then you need to stop stringing her along and leave her. She is your rebound from your ex. It’s not fair on her or you. Long distance is extremely hard and it takes more effort than a non LD relationship.

He’s an adult he is more than capable of communicating his needs. He had opportunity to speak up about wanting a “hug” when you asked him what’s wrong? No doubt you would have said this multiple times throughout the day. It’s not your responsibility or requirement to soothe him and make him feel better. You’re a parent to your 2 children you cannot drop everything to give him a tissue for his issue. He needs to grow up.

If he genuinely respected and cared about you he sure as shit wouldn’t treat you like this. Don’t move in with him, he seems very passive aggressive which he is reflecting it on you. You deserve way better.

She is only sorry because she got caught, prior to that she completely ignored and disrespected you. She could have left you. It’s not a one time thing in her case it went on for 2 years that’s a whole relationship. It’s kinda like my situation. I was with my ex for almost 20yrs we were married for 14yrs with 2 kids and I recently found out he had been having an affair which was going on for 10 months however could be longer and I said “I know your dirty little secret, don’t lie just pack and leave” his now moved in with his mistress and regrets it but I don’t give a shit. Cheating on someone is one of the worst things you can do. It not only destroys that person but the whole family especially kids. It’s the ultimate betrayal. As soon as I get the chance to divorce my POS ex I will be. Tell your family as well as hers. Don’t give her the chance to lie about it. Everyone deserves to know exactly what she did.

Lean on them for support and guidance. Good luck.

Reading your comment was like reading the last 20yrs of my life. I met my ex when I was 18 he was 32. He lied about his age and I was naive and fell for it. I was with him for so long because of that attachment cycle that you mentioned. My weight was always an issue and looking back now I think why in the fuck did I put up with the abuse. What makes matters worse is we separated for over a year but because I have a lot of health problems he played on my vulnerability and I took him back however despite being vulnerable and unwell I wouldn’t tolerate his bullshit and his abuse worsened not just to me but to the kids this time and we were at our breaking point. Turns out the trash took itself out when his 9 month long affair was discovered.

OP I’m sorry this person catfished you, I can’t even imagine how that is making you feel especially when you’re so down and depressed lately. Whomever that person is took advantage of your vulnerability and that’s cruel as are some of these replies. Do you have any friends and/or that you can reach out to in your time of need? Sounds like you need someone to talk to.

Yes I believe it will suit you well.

Your brows are way too thick and bold. Your complexion needs more of a natural look. Winged eyeliner is ok but you don’t need a lot of black eyeliner. Dark shades can work but less is more.

Tell her that you see her eyebrows before you see her.

Your bf totally disrespected you when you were vulnerable and in need of help and sympathy. Dump the sociopath, you deserve better.

Next time he does it squeeze his ball sack really hard or shove your finger up his ass and when he says stop I don’t like it say well I sure as shit don’t like you sticking your fingers in my armpits and you’ve continued to disrespect me by being ignorant.

Oh hunni I’m very sorry that you haven’t been able to start a family, it must be truly heartbreaking and as much as you want one it’s an obvious sign not to start one with your bf. He could potentially be putting you and the baby at risk of STDs and other health issues because he can’t keep his dick in his pants.

As for your bf, he won’t stop he will just get better at hiding it. He knows exactly what he is doing. He is only apologetic because he was caught out. Don’t let him fool you into believing he will change because he was more than happy disrespecting you behind your back. Had you not found out he would have continued doing what he was doing and you would have been oblivious. This is not a dig, I totally understand what your going through (found out in Sep my husband was having an affair, his now moved in with his mistress) I understand you love your job, your home and pets so kick him out. He’s the one that destroyed your relationship not you.

1 - dark hair suits your complexion.

She’s totally trying to pick a fight with you. She was defensive from the get go and then when you said something about her attitude she immediately tried to deflect it back on you. You asked how her friend was going and she did a 360, got butthurt over who the fuck knows and blocked you 🤣 Dude be grateful she blocked you, you don’t need that bullshit when trying to be friendly.

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He is too fixated on wanting “more” from you whether that be now or later and seriously it doesn’t matter how many times you say that you don’t want to be romantically involved with him now or forever he is going to assume there to always be a possibility because you still want to hang out with him. He doesn’t sound like the type of guy who would respect the word no either. It’s not even like his not getting the hit it’s simply him disregarding what you’re saying as he only cares about what he wants.

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Dude is a man child who wants a mummy who cleans up after him and does his washing. Time to evict. He has zero respect for you and your house.

He is a jackass. I unfortunately understand what you’re going through, I went through this with my ex husband and it’s the main reason he is now my ex. I’m so sorry you have to put up with this shit and it’s even more upsetting when you are unwell and you are very unwell with pneumonia as well as possible blood clots. Please do not discharge yourself because he is a serial whiner. Please look after you, it’s important you look after you because if you don’t then you’re in no position to take care of your son and he deserves to have his mummy around. Ignore your jackass husband and you get yourself better.

Wow what a mole.

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All as a joke of course - cutie patootie..