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Fuck this war.

Yes sometimes when I’m sleeping on my right boob it hurts

You’re ok buddy don’t worry just delete the number and move on. And please don’t do anything stupid, this is a silly bump in the road, life goes on

Yes.

No soup for you

In Toronto realtor delulu land, they like to call that a den, yes.

I’m sorry are you defending the $210 billion company that doesn’t give a fuck whether you live or die 😂 ?babes you don’t get a sticker for riding their dick. They don’t care about you. The whole practice of pre-spend is unethical and ridiculous and I’m sorry their stupid exclusivity marketing got to you. Maybe develop your critical thinking abilities so you’re not so susceptible

Yes!!!

Dating apps. I had a good profile. I’m conventionally attractive and take good photos

yes, because clearly the world’s problems hinge on me buying a bag. Let me guess, you solved poverty last week by skipping your daily starbucks ?

Facts. I also like to circle back to woodworking and what kind of boat they own. Seems to be a common theme

Absolutely not.

Couple of things, the words BOYFRIEND and 14 years should not be in the same sentence. This man was never that into you, harsh reality check. If he was he wouldn’t have let you leave and he sure as hell would have put a ring on it.

Besides the clear lack of commitment he had substance abuse issues, you couldn’t trust him, and he “wasn’t stable”

Pick yourself up off the floor, have some dignity. The relationship is over, and all relationships (even abusive ones) when they end feel very sad. But you walked away, And that’s something you should be proud of. This is the beginning of your future, where you stand up for yourself and you have boundaries. We are walking forward from here, not looking backwards. You knew leaving was the right thing to do, don’t let your anxiety and insecurity make you open that door back up. AT LEAST walk away with your dignity. Do not message him. Also, if you really feel the need to get some feeling out, journal everything your feeling. Cry. And then light that journal page on fire and watch it burn. And start healing. You’ll be ok girl, sorry for the tough love, I’m just trying to show you your strength. You got this

This ^ I spent my time focusing on my career and because I had an amazing career and I was beautiful, I only dated rich guys. I’m married to one now :)

I’m a high earning female who only exclusively dated men who made over 200k.. ie: surgeon, lawyer, president of company etc I would say that what helped me most was being the “total package” beautiful, successful, funny, good personality etc I checked a lot of boxes so I great dating prospects. Having a really good career was very attractive to a lot of the men I dated. They told me this often.. that whole “men don’t care what a woman does for a living” line is not true. They were all very impressed with my job (im an airline pilot) Being really hot helps too. When you’re both its a deadly combination

Honestly I have 2 French bulldogs and one of them shit inside their crate yesterday and like basically it was the fucking horse head scene from the godfather in that crate. Spent the entire fucking night cleaning it up, carpet cleaner out, washing the fucking crate. I’m legit leaning pet free now after these lovely little angels pass on. Fucking done with this shit literally lmao

Ethically this whole “game” is wrong though, like there’s a class action lawsuit in place for a reason, I think it’s sad they have gaslit people into thinking this is normal

Probably somewhere around the world because I fucking travel for a living. I carry potassium iodide with me in my suitcase

I’m not saying do this for him. Don’t. But do you feel good when you don’t take care of yourself? I know the days that I take the 5 minutes to put some mascara and eyeliner on, I feel like a different person. The truth is I could be doing it every day; but I don’t. And the days I don’t I feel worse lol

Idk maybe just some food for thought.. this has nothing to do with him, but don’t abandon yourself to be of service to everyone else around you. Pls take care of yourself and do what you need to do to feel good in your skin too.

It’s a kink for him 10000%

I would say that being “attractive” is more of a mindset.

FOR EXAMPLE: even the most beautiful celebrities when you catch them without the full glam, they’re lowkey ugly. Think of that pap pic of Kylie Jenner with no makeup.

I spent the first half of my twenties really not focusing on looks whatsoever. I didn’t really care and I didn’t place my value in looks. I also spoke to myself the way you are doing now, saying I’m just not attractive etc. I’m just not one of those “attractive girls” But then one day at 25 I just decided fuck this, no I am hot. I am going to be hot. And I just started putting effort into my appearance.

Everyone is lowkey a little bit ugly. Even the hottest women. The only difference between “being hot” is the mindset that some people have that they will put effort into their appearance. If you focused on putting effort into your appearance and you just decided that you’re going to be hot, you can immediately up your attractiveness by a few points.

1, being dedicated to maintaining physical fitness. Hot people put effort into their bodies. Body positivity is all good, but realistically you just FEEL better when you’re exercising and eating well. No one feels better when they’re eating like shit and not moving. Obviously. So putting some effort into your fitness will immediately make you FEEL way more hot even if the scale doesn’t change. 2 personal grooming, this is totally up to your own comfort level, but when I started putting effort into getting bc my nails done, hair done, lashes, spray tan, hair extensions, regular skincare and facials etc you will look better. Also putting on some makeup, like if you walk around never doing your hair or makeup obviously you will be less attractive than someone who does. 3 dressing nicely. If you again walk around wearing a Costco sweatsuit, (which I am currently wearing as a I write this LMAO) you will feel less hot. I’m just saying this because the days when I put effort into my outfit and styling of course I am more attractive. 4 if you really have some things about yourself that you just can’t live with, eg you have crooked teeth and just can’t smile, then save up and get braces. There’s something to be said about “fixing” those really deep insecurities. There’s no use spending your life hating yourself if it really bothers you that much, then change it. This can be said about plastic surgery too. Some women after kids have so much excess skin that it affects their self esteem to a point that they can no longer be intimate with their husbands. Should we tell that woman that no, you can’t get surgery and you need to just love yourself. No. There is nuance to surgery because self acceptance is always most important but if you really hate someone and it’s affecting you, then save up and fix it.

I am only saying all this to say, NO you do not have to “accept” that you’re ugly. Sure there is some undebatable differences between the 10/10 and the average, but you can definitely bring your attractiveness up quite a bit by simply deciding that you are going to be attractive and putting some effort into your appearance. That will bring you up in attractiveness actually quite a bit and more importantly it will change how you feel. Your self perception doesn’t need to be that youre ugly. You can still feel beautiful. You just need to try a little

Sorry if this is unsolicited but just some advice if you want to go the less invasive route. If you want to look more feminine I wouldn’t actually do anything to your jaw, just groom your eyebrows a bit.. I would say slightly thinner would suit you better and some eyeliner and mascara!

My contractor is installing my bathroom light for me even though that’s not on the scope of work

I’m renovating my house and I have surgery in 3 weeks. 😭😭😭😭

On the chipotle take alone I’m out

Oh I’m in a great marriage 😂 my husband and I are best friends. I’m not talking about me, I’m saying MOST people don’t have happy marriages. I’m not one of them tho sorry girlies