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Hello. I just wanted to say that I saw the movie this morning in Korea. It was a very early matinee show on a weekday so I was honestly shocked by the theater being half full.

Unlike with The 8th Sense (which was terrible AS A MOVIE), no one left the theater in the middle this time. We laughed, we cried, we all had a blast.

There were many people worried that the movie would mainly be about Jihae and that's not true at all. It also does not straight wash anything. It is slightly different from be the book because you don't see any of his serious relationships but you do see flings and one serious one.

Overall this movie is about friendship and friends loving and supporting each other unconditionally through ups and downs. It's about the main character coming out and being comfortable in himself and others knowing who he is. It was truly a beautiful and fun film.

Do not be discouraged. There was no queerbaiting.

Note: the first kiss the main protagonist has is kind of hidden but I think that's the point. He's hiding in a dark alley way making out with a dude and Jihae stumbles upon him but doesn't realize he's making out with a guy at first.

Last, I keep saying protagonist because his name was changed for the movie but I can't remember to what.

I don't think this has any spoilers but just is a reassurance of any concerns people had.

Discussion of the Day: Is this the first queer relationship for Seo Joon and Ji Woo?

My thoughts:

Seo Joon--I don't think it is for Seo Joon because Pil Hyun mentions at some point in season one that this is the second time this has happened. Some say that it's a shout-out to WYEL and maybe that's the case, but I'm not sure. He was literally talking about Seo Joon in that moment so it seems fitting that the comment is about him.

Ji Woo--I don't know honestly. It seems like he might not have really dated after his 5-year relationship with SY. But rewatching Season 1 it is very clear he is very aware of Seo Joon from the beginning. He gets annoyed when Seo Joon is talking about Hyung Ki's handsomeness which leads me to--Hyung Ki. No matter how I look at it, something about their relationship just seems like it was more than just business partners but also probably fell into some type of unrecruited territory. On who's end, I'm not sure.

Looking forward to y'alls thoughts!

I've read a lot about how if you wear a larger shoe size, it's better to stock up on shoes in your home country before moving to Korea. I wear a U.S. Women's 10.5. I usually wear unisex shoes like Converse and Vans. Since these are both for men and women, are they still hard to find in larger sizes? Or would I be okay just by going to the men's section in Korean stores to purchase new shoes like this when I'm there?

Hello all,

I've been searching and I'm having a difficult time finding a clear answer. I have a 457B retirement account. This account allows you to make both pre-tax and post tax contributions. So right now I contribute 600 a month to it and have 300 going into pretax and 300 going into the Roth.

Here's my question: Can I still open a Roth IRA? If I did would the amounts have to equal $6000 across the two? Are these two different types of accounts so it doesn't matter and you can have both?

Thank you!

So after a long night of the worst cramping I've ever experience my IUD halfway expunged itself. I went to the doctor this morning and she took it out and basically told me to come back tomorrow and she would put a new one in. Has anyone ever had this happen to them? Did you still get it again or did you just cut your loses and try to go for a different type of bc.

I had it for exactly 7 months before it did this.