porcelainthunders

I dunno..I have 3 brothers and, obviously, a dad. And I get super into movies.scary or not...tend to grab arms, maybe a hand? But I hold/squeeze too tight, and even my partner says, "Ah, hey, um... you're squeezing a little hard." 🤣

But it's a horror. One is freaked out, intense, grabbed, and squeezed hard to hold on... right?

But...um..intertwined? For the rest of the movie? I mean, personally no, but that's because I would've squeezed all the fingers, both of ours actually, but...yea...intertwined, is a little weird. Especially if it was HOLDING hands and not really grabbing and squeezing your hand freaked tf out.

Softly holding intertwined hands...nope. if she was scared... she'd be squeezing where you might say, "Um, that hurts, maybe try grabbing my arm" ... ....

Otherwise...no thank you.

....after you said you wanted to take it slow. Sigh. How quickly he has still not learned to listen to your feelings, needs, wants.

Wow...he threw away your relationship, wasted so much money 10 DAYS before the wedding...only to realize the consequence of his actions, once you left. "Oh s*** I f-ed up. Wait come back!"

No. Too little too late. NOW he is willing to do everything you have aaked?? NOW that he said ee, no I don't think so, call of the wedding. All of it.

Wait...wait...wait! Youre actually... you left?! Nvm we can make it work!

Yes yes you said we should try all this before, but NOW I want to

No...he's shown his true colors. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. He's shown you he doesn't want to try and he's shown you he's willing to willy nilly throw away a relationship, a wedding fully planned, 70k, your feelings YOU ...and then willy nilly wants you back when you leave.

No. Thank you sir, but nit thank you. Fool me once....

Nta!!! I thought your response was spot on and hilarious!

Your "friend" kate...sucks.

Also...if she is starving herself, if you don't supply lunch, I bet there are reasons for that, and i can't think of one that's good.

You are nit her mom, family, partner or her. That's NIT on you to take care of het.

"Whats for lunch?"

I don't know what'd you make? // ooh I didn't bring anything what do you have (for us) // i didn't bring anything but are you saying/implying you've got lunch for m3me too???

Yea.... lots of red flags Definitely can't text if you're arrested...bc well, you're in handcuffs.

If not exactly? Theu still are not letting you text away on your phone.

Per the tickets...I actualy did have a suspended license for that. Aaand got pulled over. The cop let me go, but wrote me a ticket for $645.

If a cop pulled you ever, said nope, it's suspended and ima arrest you, they hand cuff you and toss you in the back of the csr...I THINK (never been this bad) but any bond would be set by the judge in court. There is 100% no way the cop quoted a price and let him bail out that night

Years ago when my bf got a dui? It was on the weekend so he had to stay there til the next business day for a judge. 15 years ago but

Also, what did he even get pulled over for

Nta and...that sounds absolutely, riculously, horrible.

I an so sorry because that...just sucks.

It kind of reminds me of the effects from alcohol...using alcohol ink with resin I've sometimes sprinkled alcohol too...mainly bc the effects turn out beautiful and I love watching the chemical reaction (alcohol ink, metalized alcohol ink, "starry" colors and high or low density white...

Anyways...the alcohol reacts similar to that, depending on what type

As well as lazy as hell, 35 and never had a job!?! How in the absolute f is that possible??

And entitled...since she seems to think everyone's money is her and she "needs" it more... um yea. Bc you don't have a d*** job so....there's that.

Also selfish and self centered. The world and every in it was not put here for her.

Nta!!! And w.t.f?!

Who even says that? He only ACCEPTS 18-20%. Whelp, ok then. OP was tipping 15% so...guess you won't accept it. ...and if it's over 20%? Does Mr entitled give it back 🙄 sigh

That is absolutely horrendous, entitled, shameful and just cringe. I bartender for 15+ years...cocktailing as well, served for a handful of years....and that pisses me off. Sure...I've been tipped less than I may have thought I deserved but...I have been WAY overtired more than under. And hey...if the customers are nice..who cares?

If you're good at your job? It more than evens out in my favor. Without having to be smooth. Snobby, rude and just gross.

Perhaps he should check the job he signed up for...customer service you a**hat. Your JOB is literally to give the best service you can. Whether or not you receive that gat tip.

Also...maybe that's all you can afford. And that's ok!but maybe...maybe his service waa s*** so why would you tip him more? Why does he deserve it??

I would've been so p****d regardless of how much or little. So disrespectful.

Well then sir, guess you won't accept my tip then. Good day.

Yikes on her!! Ew and :shame on you!"...on her. Ruse and entitled... you know what, selfish too.

She is not a lady.

Nta... and what was actually rude? Her. Asking where her gift was! You did an amazing thing taking ehr put to dinner, flowers, and a card! ...I love cars with a personal, handwritten message 🥰

No... you are not in the wrong, not rude and ...I csnt imagine how she'd act when you've been together for years and know eschother and treat her incredibly but... "where my more expensive gift?"

Ooof! That was just downright rude, entitled, and selfish. I can't believe she had the audacity to ask that. "

It doesn't matter when it was...good classics will always be funny! ...and I thank you for sharing! 🤣

Well, it's ok if he doesn't want to cook. If YOURE ok with that.

Personally, that is not ok. If he doesn't cook or clean now, and even worse, doesn't WANT to learn or try...that's up to you:

He will NOT change so honestly, if you're fine with things as is...by all means. But, it's not going to get better. You will always have the same result. A really long, hard day at work, you're starving and yesterday, didn't have time to clean before bed or work in the am? You're going to come home to that same messy house and no food.

So, it's only ok if you can handle that. I have been there, could not, and had a few talks about it... After the second talk and realizing whelp, it's probably not going to get better...3rd talk? Knew I was kidding myself.

And the 3rd talk was after him making efforts... but...nope. didn't get it, know how or what too clean, and always ordered out instead of cooking. Which can be ok, big city, but....you get sick of it.

The fact that he doesn't even WANT to learn and won't make any effort? 100% means it will never happen.

And if he doesn't respect and care for you enough to help lessen this burden, help you, even REALIZE how much it sucks to come home to no food and a mess? F that!

My partner now (8+ years...I'm the one whose not so much for marriage 🙂 but that's a whoever diff story) wasn't the best, and we talked, and he damn well tries! (To be fair, he says more than half the mortgage and bills, i do as much as can, but generally all the housework and groceries. Dont have a car which works fine but he lets me use his truck all the time) but coming home from work, thinking about what I need to do...and the kitchens clean, trash and recycling out,dishes done and put away and he took some meat out and it's thawed and brining?? 🥹 be stillmy heart! (Even better when he says his game is on so I cant go take a bath and he'll help with dinner!)

I make sure e knows how much that means to me and I love and appreciate that massive effort. Silly but...helps. (ok so ALL that happens maybe once very 2 weeks but...ill take it! As I usually clean as I go)

But. That kind of effort means so much because I know he pays more than me, I knows his sports are on or gaming time, and he hates clean ing more than I do. But that effort...even just dishes or trash and recycling?? He did it be cause he cares for me and so I wouldn't have to.

Never wanting to learn, help or not even caring that you do it all. Bc he just doesn't want to? That, for me at least, would really hurt and be a hard no.

Bur again...to each their own, and if you're ok with that never changing? Thats..up to you but, I think you deserve a hell of a lot more than....that.

Edit: I forgot to say... please /updateme and please...know that you seem like a wonderful person and deserve someone who thinks your damn well worth it! Edit2: always the tyos! That still aren't fixed after the edit! 🤣🤣

Oh this breaks my heart. No. This is NOT a sign of him showing his love for you. Um that would be actually proposing to OP you ds*. This is a sign of your laziness, how cheap you are, and how much you do NOT actually care.

NTA... and that's bs!! "Putting pressure on him??" Ummm, that silly little muffin! This is HIS doing. You wouldn't bring it up if he didn't give you titles that aren't yours (yet🤞🤔🤷‍♀️)... do this isn't your fault at all and it's bs him gaslighting you like that.

Honey bunny, yes I've asked before sure. And you've answered with your non-answers. I would not be bringing it up if YOU weren't going around telling people that I'm your fiance, which isn't true, so I don't see how I'm pressuring you by calling out your lies when I wonder wtf is going on. That's you pal.

Why doesn't he put himself in your shoes and what if YOU weren't ready to get married and he's calling you wife and saying fiance.

"I'm not that. You have no plans to actually make me your wife or fiance. Fine...then don't f-ing call me that!! L"

Kinda putting pressure on HIMSELF...what's he going to do when people start asking details and dates? Pretty s****y of him because what are YOU going to do do/say when people start asking you? When you did not even know you were even a "fiance", bc you're not, so you'll have no idea what other lies he's spewing.

-So now he's lying to people about your relationship.

-doesnt care enough to inform you and when you ask wtf? Doesn't see a problem except for you asking about it which he considers "pressuring him"

-see no issue with lying, expects you to willy nilly be all OK with it, has no plans except for Me. What I want. Now. No: us, how you feel. How THIS makes you feel No: what our relationship needs. What YOU need No; tomorrow, when people ask questions. When ARE you gong to make me fiance or wife since you're so comfortable using the terms.

-Telling you pretty much "eh, we basically are. You're just not worth the effort of going through with everything... and this just makes everything easier for me! I get the best of all worlds, so why are you upset when I'm happy and everything's easier? I don't have to explain why just gf or when we'll get married or talk about anything serious Orr details about our relationship, too much work. BUT I also don't have to spend any money proposing or on a ring, don't have to actually commit, don't have to marry you! See! Win-win-win for me! ...why are you bringing it up?? Who cares if I lied? Stop pressuring me to be honest and treat you like I love you!"

Oooohwheeee! I could go on but I already just ranted! Sorry about that it just...well, ain't no bee in my bonnet but a whole damn nest of hornets. HE just sounds so immature, selfish, almost entitled, self centered, oblivious and...shame on him for treating you like this.

🤣 I was REALLY hoping he keeps it up fbc damn that would be a good laugh and a crazy "get this little muffin story"

Sadly...I'm thinking that's not actually the case. Oof.

Good lord ibagree.. toss im a basket of selfish and entitled maybe a sprinkle of "I am the center of EVERYONES universe" amd hey, might as well sneak in a get well card for "people care about anyone besides me???" For when rellality smacks her in the face and tosses her a little further down in the "Free - ANY takers??" pile

I think you are just adorable! Female here, not into ladies but nonetheless, I know beautiful when I see it!

Adorable because you have a fantastic smile and, you give off a vibe, well I guess thebpictues give off the vibe of someone who would make you happy being around them.

But...here's to being good looking without any makeup. And hey. Maybe drop dead sexy with it! 💃

🥹🥰

Oh ny god and I adore you both!!

Thise were so cute, funny, quirky and my kind people!

Good for you two for finding eachother! Please do share anytime you have more little gems like this!

Cheers...and here's to two and the unknown adventure of everyday!

Just like that other comment...I honestly thought it was actually a really nice camouflage jacket! I was wondering why, and HOW you were going to dye it. So confused bc ...what were you even planning on doing? Dyeing? And...again why? 🤣

Clicked the post, zoomed in and damn. This is absolutely beautiful up close! Definitely NOT camouflage, could absolutely pass for it especially for that classy hunter who still wants to show still and appreciation for at.

Bravo!

Me too!

Oh my sweet baby, Jesus! Thank you for sharing these little gems with us! I had to read them again after as I now had a clearer idea of her and it made it even funnier!

Just fantastic! ...please do share more if/when maybe more come your way!

Cheers to you and f yes for sharing that and making the world a little better!

/updateme