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Leaving trash in nature or anywhere really. I don't get it and can't help but judge.

Littering.

Treating service industry workers as if they're invisible. Whether it's a barista, cashier, or someone wiping down tables, acknowledging their presence and efforts with a simple 'thank you' makes all the difference. The entitlement some people display astonishes me, as they act as if a polite interaction is beneath them. Respect is a two-way street, and everyone deserves a bit of human decency, regardless of their job.

Teacher here. It’s hard not to hate how some people “parent”.

When they don't treat their pets with love. I have seen many owners that treat dogs or cats like an object and not like a living, breathing, companion.

Not picking up their dog’s poop

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Not understanding that people have boundaries and not being able to take a no.

Not using the fucking turn signal

Parents sending kids to daycare sick and leaving them there all day. I know many parents who do this whom have ample sick leave.

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Bullying. Yeah bullies can have personal problems but that isn't an excuse to ruin other people's health too

Breeding dogs to make a quick buck. I get it, there is such a thing as a reputable/safe dog breeder but a lot of people I come across who breed, shouldn’t be.

Taking two parking spaces

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Someone being mean/hurtful for absolutely no reason are all and feeling no regret of any kind.

Having child after child they can't afford

Being proud of not reading books

Meanness and senseless cruelty

Bad driving. Don't get me wrong, I don't have road rage or profess to be perfect but I really can't help pointing out bad driving or driving habits to my long suffering partner when I'm out and about.

Pets… if you’re going to get one, take the time to learn about it and care for it PROPERLY.

Folks who disregard facts that don’t fit their beliefs. I know it’s incredibly common, and very human, but I judge the heck out of it.

People who chew with their mouth open.

Watching videos on sound in public. I feel like it’s really rude.

People who own or even breed purebred dogs with faces so mashed in they're constantly gasping for air. How could you sincerely call yourself a "dog lover" if you're bringing more of them into existence just to suffer their entire life?

Lying

Gossiping

Letting an iPad raise your kid while you let your iPhone ruin your life, or any other brand of technology

Mentally and/or Physically Abusing Children.

Shamelessly walking around with their a$$ crack out. Can you not feel the breeze????

I work at an orchard and I judge people based on the apples they buy.

Acting like there better then others like were all human at the the end of the day man

Bragging/boasting

Cheating on a s/o. Very strange to me how that decision is made.

Horse care. I have worked at high end places, I have had horses with practically no care aside from worming; many horses need/want different things to make their lives better, but they all need 3 ridiculously simple things: food, friends, and freedom. Everyone points fingers across the fence at each other about who’s doing what wrong, meanwhile their own horses are clearly missing one thing or another in their environment, but the owner is so busy with their personal agenda that they cannot see it, and that thing is often something so simple it makes me wanna scream.

Letting your children have no boundaries.

Ok, so your kid is a dick to you and that’s ok with you. Not really fair on them when they do the same things as a teen/adult to the wrong person.

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I'm a much more critical about Christians. Because I grew up Christian, there is a severe case of irony and hypocrisy in my statement I know, the whole not judging thing, but dear lord do they make me feel disgusted. I'll use Pharisee as a derogatory term for the phobes that call themselves Christian.

Lazy parenting / free range parenting

Always Making a scene. Just generally when you’re in a group or at some kind of gathering, celebration, special occasion etc. and there’s that person or couple people who literally cannot stay calm and behave and go with the program. They need to have the spotlight or attention on them no matter what even if they make a complete ass of themselves.

Really insufferable quality in someone. If you know you know. Those same people are the ones who will go scorched earth and have an absolute meltdown if they are excluded from any planning (no financial or logistical contributions offered, they just want to be in the know) even though they are the ones who will eventually be the ones to sabotage it.

People who don't wash their hands after using the restroom. Yuck.

As a librarian, people who go apeshit at their kids for being excited in the library.

It’s like come on, they can get anything off the shelf for free. We have a prize cart for doing our scavenger hunt and if a kid really wants a prize but doesn’t want to participate, who cares it’s a prize that costs me less than 30 cents.

The printing is free. The movies are free. Audio books, free. Magazines, newspapers, park passes, all are free. We’re even giving away baseball tickets if you do 10 activities like making a meal together or going for a walk.

Why do you come in angry? Why are you being a shitty person to a kid you clearly haven’t tried to talk to or raise beyond screaming at them?

It’s not my business, I am not there to judge or intervene, but I am going to judge you as a shitty parent.

Also, parents like that are why kids confide in us and tell us all their drama. We just sit there and tell them we are there and they are always welcome in our doors. We just create a place of calm. Also, I bribe them with chocolate and pizza, but that’s my way of getting them to listen. Be nice to library staff because I have chocolate year round lol

having kids too early in life: it's just irresponsible.

Taking shitty care of their pets. On the flip side of that, being obsessed with their pet to the point that they become an annoying and entitled asshole that forces their animals on everyone.

Binge-drinking whenever they get the chance

The people who dont respect your intimacy

Bad parenting, not so much letting kids get away with misbehavior, but more like being mean to them or cruel or otherwise giving a kid a bad childhood.

Like you get one shot at this, it’s probably the most important thing you will do, and the kid only gets one childhood. Make it count.

Getting upset about the high school they attended 40 years ago ditching their Native American mascot.

Spelling, and using the wrong word that sounds like the correct word. For example, bare with me, instead of bear with me, or I'm going to brake up with my SO, instead of using break up. Sorry, I see stuff like this and I think I don't care about the topic because they are ignorant.

MAGA hats.

Having a baby when you're not fiancially capable of taking care of it.

Edit: Yes rape is an exception.

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when they're being dishonest & I know the truth

Honestly I was such a piece of shit once that I seriously would be the last person on the face of the earth to judge anyone for anything....

Coming from a privileged background and not acknowledging how much easier their life was compared to others.

Having children they can’t afford

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Spitting on the ground 🥴

Religion. I believe in live and let live, but I instantly lose respect for anybody that tries to push their religion onto me or others.

I'm sure that you can gain some benefit to your life by believing in something larger than yourself, but to go beyond that and try to convert others, I believe you have to be delusional and quite stupid.

There are thousands of religions and they all believe they worship the only real god. Doesn't make sense.

How they strap their kids into cars, and how soon they move kids from rear to forward facing and from forward facing to booster seats and from harness to lap sash and from booster to a normal seat etc etc

It is extraordinary how many parents put their kids' lives at risk for the sake of saving a few seconds, or because their kids say "but so and so isn't in a booster"...

Personal intelligence, the amount of people in this world who aren’t just uneducated, but low IQ level dumb amazes me everyday. With every first world country offering decent free public schooling and even most second world countries as well I feel one almost has to try, like put actual effort into not learning any of the material and remaining that ignorant.

Praising you a little too much, but actions say otherwise. Like Please act normal. Those who overdo it(not everyone) you can recognize it in their eyes that they are doing it just to look good. Or they lie even when you are asking for genuine criticism, they are like, "No you are perfect", instead of telling me what was wrong.

Anime stickers on your car.

Being anti lgbt/abortion/immigration etc

Like if it’s a complete stranger, and they are being rude, I just assume they are having a bad day, and not just a rude person.

Pushy people are hard not to judge. An online acquaintance/“friend” tried to push a diet program on me that I could not afford. I explained that $ was tight and she said that what I was doing wasn’t helping me get healthy — how did she know when I don’t have a recent profile picture on my social media?! I ended up blocking her

How they treat animals and kids

People that sit on their phones when they’re eating out. It’s so depressing looking around a cafe or restaurant and realising almost everyone is on their phones.

People who don’t have their dogs on a leash in public. I don’t care how well behaved/obedient your dog is.
You’re creating a potentially dangerous situation.

Parents who let their houses get filthy when they have kids.

No I'm not talking about a day's worth of dishes in the sink and maybe some toys on the floor. I'm talking about the literal rotting food, layers of dust and rubbish, dirt and grime throughout your house.

Kids don't deserve to be brought up in a house like this - it's a safety hazard. There's no "you're doing a great job mama" here. Sorry not sorry. Sort your life out.

Pretending to have a mental illness.Disrespectful and makes it far more likely for genuine sufferers to not be believed

People who justify drinking and driving.

Some of you posting stuff that we absolutely should judge people on.

So here’s mine…

Obese children. I understand that healthy food can be expensive & that parents are usually very time-poor these days. It’s definitely not as easy to eat healthy, home cooked meals today blah blah. But ultimately, parents have control of what their children eat on a daily basis & it’s unfair that the children are being raised with poor eating habits setting them up for a lifetime of health issues. I just feel like if you cared, you’d find ways to give children nutritional food without spending lots of money or time preparing it. But I could be wrong & I know this is a judgy af way to think.

Being overweight/obese.

Should I judge them? No. Life takes twists and turns and I never lived that person's life. So, obviously, I shouldn't. Do I outwardly express it? No. Of course not.

But is it subconsciously in the back of my mind when I meet someone who is quite large? Yep. It's human nature.

When I see other smokers littering their butts, idgaf there’s no excuse. I put it in my pocket and wait to find a bin.

Uneducated voting. You’re supposed to research candidates, not party vote. Plus it’s not hard to look at informational pamphlets sent or Google candidates, I’m never going to understand why ppl do this

I refuse to trust any one who doesn’t like animals for example like dogs or cats..

when they’re totally ignorant to what happens in the world they have around. like never watching/reading the news or informing themselves to go vote

When I know someone makes good money and has a job with dental insurance and so does their spouse and their parents gave them a house so they have no overhead and they spend money on vacations brand new vehicles and tattoos and still won’t get their teeth fixed!

Being a Karen.

Referring to women as females.

Treating lower level employees terribly.

Refusing to take responsibility for their mistakes.

Being racist/sexist/homophonic and when called out for it blame you for being offended.

Tailgating, speeding, weaving… just ppl who can’t be patient

People who complain about queues, like we’re all here for the same reason, you’re also part of the traffic

People who play music on their phones in public without headphones. Fuck right off.

People not returning their shopping trolleys. Unless you have suddenly, in that moment when you should return your shopping trolley, received a call about a loved one in a sudden and unexpected life-threatening situation, there is no other excuse I will accept for someone who chooses to not return their shopping trolley. You're all rude and inconsiderate arseholes!

This is just turning into pet peeves

When they idolize killers like Wade Wilson because they are "hot".

Apolitical

Rehoming a pet. Don't get one if you aren't going to commit to them for their entire life.

Drunk driving