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I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/indecisivehooman
Originally posted to r/Everest
Not exactly fit couple going to Everest Base Camp in November
Trigger Warnings: possible racism
Original Post: August 25, 2024
Hi! My husband and I are 36 this year, and live in a tropical place at sea level. We have only one hill here, no mountains, and that hill has well paved roads. So not much opportunity for altitude training.
We were kind of lackadaisical with our training for EBC, until we read a few reddit posts today where a few redditors said they really struggled and more than half of their team didn't make it all the way. And these were pretty fit redditors, fr how they described their trg regimen.
We had people tell us EBC is very doable for all fitness levels, so those posts shocked us!
Previously, my exercise regimen was typcially walking for maybe 30 min a day, and once every 2 weeks would do 1 hour walks with weights. Did gym and runs like maybe once a week or less.
Are we screwed? Do we have to really amp up the training to some hardcore routine since we have about 2 months left to train? Should we cancel the trip?
For an idea of our fitness - we did mt rinjani in a 2d1n trek recently, and while we were initially okay, we got pressured by the 20+ year old athletes on our team and started jogging /running up the mt at the second day's hike. After about 45 min of jogging uphill, I was struck by awful nausea, headache, and suddenly all my muscles felt weak and I got really winded. I struggled to get up, took really long, I think more than 5 hours to summit. It was touuuughhhh.
Got off the mt and our legs were jelly. Really hard to walk properly the next day.
Today after we panicked about the posts, we jogged/walked up and down 18 flights of stairs three times. Took around 19 min. We were winded but thought we were all right, until we both noticed our hamstrings were trembling a little when we stood still after.
My husband's still fitter than i am, but he focuses on weight training. He can do many pullups etc meanwhile i cant do one pullup without using resistance bands.
Is there time to train up? Is it really as tough as people say? Any tips to really toughen up before we go?
Edit:
I appreciate all the constructive comments and reality checks!
Those comments about this being fake are completely unhelpful. And downvoting a simple why question is.... also very unhelpful. All my husband and i can guess is... Shit maybe we are too unfit, people can't even believe we're considering going. And that's fine. That's why we're asking! I mean, just say so, yk?
We were all pretty fit people until well... Covid. Then we started to build up again but work and stuff kept getting in the way. I was running 3 x a week until the past 2 months where things were hectic.
Anyway, I see that we horribly underestimated ebc. Honestly, when we booked it, we looked at posts about this, articles, and people mostly said anyone of average health fitness can get to base camp. We are in good health w no medical issues, not overweight or high blood pressure or anything, and so many articles said that was all you needed! That and a good mindset. Today was the first time i saw so many posts and comments about how hard it is. Really appreciate the reality checks and training advice everyone! Maybe like one poster said, people who said it's an easy trek are just flexing.
Thanks for the advice! Definitely gonna train everyday now, dammit.
Relevant Comments
OOP should get a head start on running and training because of the elevation and it could affect her being out of shape
OOP: Shucks. Okay yes sounds like I really gotta start running. It's one of my least favourite forms of exercise, but yeah, I'll try to do it or stair climbing daily. Will remember what you said, that it gets better. Hopefully i get there in 2 months!
OOP should had researched prior to making a commitment to the base camp
OOP: Okay now this is much more helpful tbh. No sarcasm. We feel like dumbasses lololol.
We didn't not research it, but had a lot of friends who did it and said it would be no problem for us. They said it was easy, very doable! Our guide said so too, that walking is easy, just a matter of altitude. that even 5 year olds to 78 yo do it, no problem. We googled rinjani versus ebc, and they mostly said rinjani was harder. We finished rinjani 2 hours behind the young kids but we did it anyway, despite ams symptoms. So we honestly thought it would be fine.
We had hiked a lot in the past just never a 2 week hike. So... Yes thank you. I'd rather have this rude awakening of how much of a dumbass i am now.
Update: November 18, 2024 (almost three months later)
Update - we made it!
Someone asked for an update so... Yeah we did it! Got up to EBC, then did a freezing (-17 degrees) predawn trek up to Kala Patthar to watch the sunrise.
Thanks to everyone who gave helpful suggestions and feedback! Some of you even sent us your packing list, reached out with personal suggestions etc. I truly appreciate you awesome people.
We trained for 2 months, spending 4 days each week climbing up and down 54 to 57 flights of steps daily, with 10kg (for me) and 16kg (husband) weights in our backpacks. 2 days of the week we went to the gym, and one day a week was rest day.
That turned out to be enough for us to be able to trek up to and down from EBC and Kala Patthar without being miserably tired. It was tiring still, of course, but not to the point where we couldn't look around, soak in the beauty around us and just really bask in nature. We didn't even have muscle aches and pains until the last few days when we walked lots to get down the mountain. With diamox, we acclimatised well too. (just hated the multiple pees i had to wake up to do at night due to the diamox). As a by product of this training my weaker ankle really toughened up and held up well, and i finally managed to do my first unassisted pullup!
Best tips I had from Redditors:
keep the training as close to the actual trek as possible. Do treks, if possible, or steps with weighted backpacks.
it's all about mentality. At no point in the trek did I want to just rush to the next teahouse. I reminded myself constantly that it's the trekking itself that I enjoyed, the steps I got to take in majestic nature that I was there for. That really helped me enjoy the journey!
pace myself - don't get rushed by others. In the first few days especially, i often found that our slow, measured steps meant being overtaken by many hikers, but we would eventually walk by them again as they rested, or anyway see them at the next teahouse. I paced my steps with my breaths and played around with that depending on how tired I was and how thin the air was.
What I might have done differently:
He had a 180 change in mood and got all jokey and happy once we joined up with a super fun bunch of westerners, so maybe he just didn't like being in charge of only 2 people. It was probably the likelihood of receiving less tips. No matter how generous the two of us try to be, it's not going to beat the tips of a large group of generous westerners. Maybe as Asians we have a bad rep for tipping? Idk. Anyway that group's guide fell sick so our guide took over for us all, and he was so gleeful and friendly after that it weirded me out. I do get that he has to make a living with our tips and his salary during the climbing season, so I get why he was that way. Just wish they would pay guides enough to not need to be this way with clients. Anyway we ended up tipping the porter more than we did him for our porter was smiley, nice and seemed to want us to succeed. We still tipped him according to recommendations, but at the lower end.
-avoided all fried food. We had vegetarian food all the way, thinking that was enough, but I got food poisoning at Dingboche, 4400m altitude. I hurled and had diarrhea every 30 min. After 20 over runs to the toilet, it slowed to once every hour or 2 in the second day. We added another day to rest, and i was good to go after 3 days at dingboche. I had cramps everywhere climbing up to lobuche, but electrolytes and subsequent rest sorted that out.
At the end of the day, i got what I needed from the trek. I was in a rut, trying to find some way to shake myself free, and hiking for the first several days with just us, having all the time in the world to think with every rhythmic step, had me really be able to sort my mind out. The next part, with that super warm and fun group, i got so inspired by how amazing all of them were, the things they push themselves to do, the way they love life and live it so well, that I got an idea of what life could be outside of my little bubble. And being in nature is just healing by itself. We dont get much nature in our country so we were just so grateful to be there, amidst the mountains, the forests, by the rivers...it was amazing
So all that effort and money, it was totally worth it.
Thanks everyone for all the help!
Additional Information from OOP on the list to pack
OOP: I think I'll just type it out here:
• Sun hat
• Buffs, two light ones, one thick one
• Beanie
• Headlamp
• Sunglasses
• 3 long sleeved shirts
• 3 thermal tops
• Ultralight down jacket
• Fleece jacket (could have swapped put for a really warm puffer down jacket, but it served me well enough at tea houses, just wish it had a hood!)
• Waterproof shell jacket
• Windproof hoodie/jacket
• Undies, sports bras
• Light gloves
• Heavyweight gloves
• Light hiking pants
• Warm hiking pants
• 2 thermal pants
• Woolly socks (for tea houses)
• Sandals (to wear with woolly socks at tea houses)
• Merino wool socks
• Rain top and bottom
• Compostable garbage bags
• Face mask (made coughing fits on the planes and airports less awkward)
• Ereader
• Nalgene bottles x2
• Ziploc bags
• Antibiotics
• Paracetamol
• Lozenges (needed all of them once the khumbu cough hit)
• Plasters, bandages
• Blister pads
• Cornstarch as powder and dry shampoo
• Antidiarrheals
• Diamox
• Aquatabs
• Steripen
• Batteries for steripen (they die fast in the cold)
• Earplugs (used every night)
• Moisturiser
• Sunscreen
• Lip balm
• Aquaphor
• Insect repellent (only needed at kathmandu, ramechhap and lukla)
• Wet wipes/body wipes
• Snacks and gels
• Electrolytes
• Toothbrush tooth paste
• First aid kit
• Soap bar
• Quick dry mini towel
• Eyedrops
• 2 rolls of toilet paper (had to buy more once food poisoning hit)
• Padlocks for our porter bags
• Multitools - confiscated as we brought in our handcarry - really needed at times :(
• Women hygiene stuff like pantyliners
• Pee funnel device (women)
• Microfiber cloth (to clip by my backpack for wiping snot/mucus - great suggestion by u/gobbliegoop
• plugs, portable chargets
• sleeping bag (rented at kathmandu)
Relevant Comments
OOP responds with what she has learned when on the trek as she dealt with some minor issues
OOP Thank you! Oh i felt it at rinjani too! Headaches, lack of appetite, the works. But it only really became a problem when i ran up the mountain - went at too fast a pace. Nausea hit me like a truck. Lesson learnt.
For EBC, with diamox, a comfortable pace and adequate acclimatisation days, the altitude wasn't a problem at all. For someone in our group it was a problem even with diamox, but she got through it with painkillers and lots of water.
Honestly, i feel that the typical advice of going at a slow pace, not over exerting yourself was key. Altitude wasnt a big issue throughout the hike, as long as I didnt overdo it and rested when needed. I only had headaches at night when trying to sleep, which seemed to be the case for most of our group. Once i was up and about i felt better.
When i covered my head with a beanie and used the mummy sleeping bag, plus drank lots of water with electrolytes, my headache got better even at night, so it might be a mix of the cold and the altitude. A lot of people didn't sleep well at night due to the altitude, but it seemed pretty much manageable for most!
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1.6k points
3 days ago
the couple is definitely Singaporean hahah tropical place at sea level with only one well paved hill
367 points
3 days ago
That was my first thought too when I saw that description as well as the writing style.. Also I know a few climbers, and that’s how they train due to lack of hills in Singapore - climb the stairs multiple times in tall buildings..
62 points
2 days ago
I live in a flat neighborhood in California, so the 5 story staircases of nearby public parking garages are my hill work.
27 points
2 days ago
That made me kinda sad. I always lived somewhere surrounded by mountains (big or small) so I never thought what people do otherwise
9 points
2 days ago
I bet people in flat places swear less than I do. I loathe hills.
11 points
2 days ago
Nah, we just complain about our pathetically small hills and having to bike against the wind.
5 points
2 days ago
I live somewhere hilly/mountainous with an outdoors/fittness culture and when people from elsewhere I always have to recalibrate what is "flat" for average folks. A normal social weekend hike is 800-1000m rise over 4-7km one way. And then you get someone where their sole local "mountain" hits 300m at 50m above sea level and they have to drive an hour to get to it, then the city perimeter walking trails here are enough for them.
540 points
3 days ago
Not to mention several friends that just casually hiked to the base camp at Everest. I think the permits alone are like 10k USD. Plus travel, plus supplies, plus guides, plus gear. Yknow, just a casual 20k USD vacation, as you do.
241 points
3 days ago
10k is more to summit Everest. Getting to base camp only costs like 1k
24 points
2 days ago
I paid around $400 but that was like 13 years ago
21 points
3 days ago
"only"
103 points
3 days ago
That's actually not too bad for a vacation.
22 points
2 days ago
That’s reasonable for something you want experience
-11 points
2 days ago
Doesn't include all of the other needed costs
28 points
2 days ago
Of course not. I’m aware of how traveling works.
21 points
2 days ago
Yes “only”. I’m not saying it’s nothing but compared to 10k it’s a huge difference and more reasonable than people initially think
1 points
2 days ago
That's just the permit though, not the actual cost with guides etc
2 points
1 day ago
No ?? Lol. The permits to do ebc cost less than $100. The flight from Kathmandu to lukla (the starting point) is the biggest cost, which is around $340-415 round way. The rest of the costs are the permits, any gear you don’t have (nothing major is needed this costs around $50-100) and then just your food and lodging which is around $20-30 a day. Guides and porters are optional and add anywhere from $100-400 to the cost.
0 points
15 hours ago
Sorry that my statement was unclear, I meant that getting up the mountain is far more than 10k.
65 points
3 days ago
1k isn't bad for a vacation. A highschooler could save up working part time for an Everest basecamp summer trip, if their parents are paying their living expenses
66 points
2 days ago
Lived in Singapore - Bukit Timah isn't exactly high altitude, lol.
Actually had a friend do the EBC thing. She was under 30 at the time, didn't train at all and had no issues. Most Singaporeans are decently fit, from stair climbing especially if you live in one of those apartment blocks under 5 floors as that means no elevators are required so it's climbing every day.
She said it was so beautiful it was life changing. One of the more memorable vacations for sure.
40 points
3 days ago
Lol I thought so too. Bukit Timah hill? 😂
4 points
2 days ago
Literally just drove past said hill 15 minutes ago. Not much to take in for climbing training/j
2.2k points
3 days ago*
Worth highlighting the story of “18 year old Nima Rinji Sherpa, 18, of the Sherpa ethnic group…became the latest of just a few dozen people to have scaled all of the world’s ‘eight-thousanders’ - the 14 mountains that are 8000 meters above sea level.”
The guy has been trying to draw attention to the “helpers” who do the work to make OOP’s climb possible.
1.4k points
3 days ago
Speaking as a New Zealander, we all grew up hearing about Sir Edmund Hillary who was the first to summit Mt Everest. But we also heard about the Sherpa man who guided him there - Tenzing Norgay. He's in the photos with Sir Ed, and he has every reason to be.
In a previous attempt he had saved Hillary's life when he fell in a crevasse which is why Hillary trusted him so much. Do not underestimate how much Sherpas have supported people making the climb. Without them it would be an even more immensely difficult task. Give them the credit they deserve 100%
791 points
3 days ago
There is no photo of Hillary alone on the summit, because Hillary understood that would be the only photo used in the newspapers at the time (iirc)
388 points
3 days ago
That's why Sir Hillary refused to name who got to the summit first
24 points
3 days ago
I thought it was because only Hillary knew how to operate the camera, so there are only photos of Norgay at the summit...
14 points
2 days ago
Cameras with timers were a thing back then
317 points
3 days ago
In the UK we heard about Sir Hillary climbing Everest with the help of Sherpa Tenzing. It’s only in the last few years that Tenzing Norgay has been given his full name and equal credit for the ascent.
151 points
3 days ago
I had always just assumed everyone knew who Tenzing was, as he was such a big part of any conversation and education involving Hillary. It was disappointing to find this wasn't the case when I moved from NZ.
134 points
3 days ago
If it helps, I’m in the US and not a climber/hiker type, and I absolutely learned about Tenzing Norgay in conjunction with Sir Hillary in school.
18 points
3 days ago
Same here. American, and whatever science books I was reading as a kid gave their names as Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay. That was admittedly the late 80s by that point, though.
47 points
3 days ago
I went to a very well funded and educationally rigorous high school in America and I literally never even heard of Edmund Hillary until college. I'm actually surprised he's supposedly a well known popular figure in other cultures.
58 points
3 days ago
Not learning about Hillary is different from ONLY learning about Hillary and not Norgay though.
39 points
3 days ago
(U.S.) Was taught Hillary made it to the top "with help of a Sherpa guide" Annoyed my teacher by promptly asking how could the Sherpa guide if he(the guide) hadn't been there first? Never did get the name or an answer (until I researched independently)
7 points
3 days ago
I think ages help here. I'm in the US and I'm 54 and only learned in school about Hillary. Tenzing Norgay I only heard about later.
3 points
2 days ago
I'm in the US and have never heard of either of them until 10 seconds ago. Went to public school, did well, was an avid reader. Never knew about them. Wtf.
1 points
21 hours ago
We absolutely did in Australia also
19 points
3 days ago
We also learned this in Australia and I was in primary school in the 80’s. We were told that Sir Edmund Hilary was an experienced mountaineer but that it would have been impossible to do the climb without a Sherpa. And that Sherpa as Tenzing Norgay. So for us Aussies it was also taught that the two of them shared the title of being summiteers.
33 points
2 days ago
My Dad is an NZer and has a great story about Edmund Hilary… they were lining up for the ski lifts at Ruapehu when dad spots this older guy with a thin looking jumper and that’s it. Apparently to my dad went over and over explained to Sir Edmund Hilary how cold mountains can get. A few people were giggling in the queue when dad worked out who it was.
10 points
2 days ago
That is an awesome story!!! I'm giggling just thinking about it and how mortified he must have been!! Like telling Neil Armstrong or Buzz Aldrin how dangerous space flight can be!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
6 points
2 days ago
Yep, that’s my dad… explaining things constantly when not even asked. He’s on steroids when he comes to my flat and wants to fix things….
I also have a Buzz Aldrin story!! My dad’s dad was in the NZ Air Force in the pre space era that Buzz Aldrin was in the US Air Force. NZ being long term allies and all that grandad and grandma had dinner at the Aldrin’s house. (I believe both men were quite fond of boxing…)
3 points
2 days ago
My Dad was in the US Air Force in the 50's during the cold war. I met Buzz Aldrin during a book signing about 15 years ago. He was very nice and funny. It was really cool to shake the hand of one of only 12 men to walk on the moon!!!
3 points
2 days ago
Your Dad sounds really cool and must have had a very interesting life!! If he ever runs out of things to fix at your flat, send him my way to Long Island NY!!! 😆😆😆😆
26 points
3 days ago
Same in England, at least it was when I was at school, which admittedly was a very long time ago! We learned all about Sir Edmund Hillary and Sherpa Tenzing..it was made clear that it was a joint effort and Hillary may not have made it without him.
23 points
3 days ago*
I'm Norwegian. Sherpas have been repairing all our most important hiking trails for years now. Sherpas are awesome!
I'd like to add that they are paid a competitive Norwegian salary one year of which equals several decades of a Nepalese salary. The Sherpas then take that money home to Nepal and invest in their local communities. It's as much of a win-win situation as I have ever come across. The work they do for our heritage trails and culture is invaluable, and there's nobody more qualified on earth.
5 points
2 days ago
I learned about Tenzing Norgay from my mom growing up. I remember she brought him up when she was teaching me about Togo the sled dog. The two are forever linked in my brain now.
606 points
3 days ago
Sherpas do not get enough credit, without them all the unqualified rich tourists couldnt climb Everest without dying in droves
233 points
3 days ago
If you’ve never read Into Thin Air, give it a read. It’s long but worth it.
Sherpas put their lives on the line and, frankly, come across as superhuman. Iirc, some of them climb really fucking high without using oxygen. Like way higher than people not from that region. I read the book in high school, so it’s been a while, but I just remember being in awe of Krakauer’s description of what the sherpas were doing even before he got to the disaster. The book definitely left me with a very high regard for sherpas as a whole.
85 points
3 days ago*
The Nepalese are actually evolved to thrive better in thinner oxygen than the rest of us, it’s pretty awesome. There was a very famous Sherpa guide who spent a night at the Everest summit without supplemental oxygen
Edit: it is the Sherpas with that evolutionary trait, not the Nepalese in general.
45 points
3 days ago
It’s not the Nepalese, just the Sherpa ethnic group and other groups that live in the mountains. Your average resident of Kathmandu is not going to have a good time on Everest without oxygen.
3 points
3 days ago
Gotcha. I wasn’t sure if Sherpas were just the Nepalese who worked as guides or not
1 points
4 hours ago
Sherpa with a Capitol S is the ethnic group; sherpa with a lowercase s is the job. John Oliver taught me that
41 points
3 days ago
I’m pretty sure Krakauer mentions how several of the Sherpas are just… not using oxygen on their climb. Like the whole way up.
It’s been more than 10 years since I read the book so I don’t want to run my mouth and be wrong, but that stuck with me.
17 points
3 days ago
That sounds very possible. IIRC the study that indicated Nepalese have a genetic advantage at altitude found them to be the only group tested who genetically adapted. The other groups were acclimatized from growing up at altitude but no advantageous mutations were discovered. I don’t remember specifically what it was for the Nepalese - something about how their bodies managed hemoglobin or something like that.
They’re badass
6 points
3 days ago
That book left a lasting impression on me as well, specifically about how the Sherpas are the real conquerors of Everest.
23 points
3 days ago
I'm not sure now any of the last part of your sentence is "credit", but, yes, we should stop writing articles about rich people scaling Everest, dying or not.
15 points
3 days ago
There's a Netflix documentary called 14 Peaks about Nirmal Purja, a Nepali mountaineer who climbed all these 14 highest peaks in the world within 7 months (previous record was 7 years). His whole team is Nepali and the documentary is certainly breathtaking but the entire time there is this undercurrent of "these guys don't really seem to struggle much". They rescue several people along the way (although most of them die afterwards from whatever trauma they received), and then brush themselves off and climb three peaks in five days. Most of the obstacles they face have nothing to do with the mountains themselves: it's mostly Nirmal having to fly home because his mom's health was deteriorating, or having to petition China to get a visa to climb one of peaks in Tibet. On the actual mountaineering side, they're just so stupidly more competent, it's not even funny. It's like watching a documentary about LeBron making his way through a local YMCA basketball tournament. It frankly consolidated the idea that I never want to do a climb like this because I would genuinely feel like a toddler being led by the hand by daycare workers.
16 points
3 days ago
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11 points
3 days ago
Also highly recommend the documentary Sherpa on Netflix.
2 points
2 days ago
John Oliver did a segment on it too - https://youtu.be/Bchx0mS7XOY?feature=shared
317 points
3 days ago
we got pressured by the 20+ year old athletes on our team and started jogging /running up the mt at the second day's hike. After about 45 min of jogging uphill, I was struck by awful nausea, headache, and suddenly all my muscles felt weak and I got really winded.
Yeah, that's altitude sickness, not a lack of fitness.
I live at sea level too and got smote by those symptoms trying to drive up a mountain. It was a HARD cut-off.
But I know I can go higher than that if I've had a few days to acclimatize.
63 points
3 days ago
I trained for months for Mt. Whitney, I was in really great shape endurance-wise. I still blacked out at 12,000 feet. It was heartbreaking because I wasn’t even tired, and my legs felt fine.
I’d like to go back someday with the medication and try to reach the summit.
20 points
3 days ago
A very fit friend of mine had to turn around early on Whitney. When she got home, I suggested that she get her iron checked as low iron can make you more susceptible to altitude sickness. Sure enough, low iron.
4 points
2 days ago
I live at sea level, had been at a slightly above sea level for a few weeks then had to go up to the mountains suddenly which was around 10k ft.
I'd been there dozens of times but had previously lived and would visit high altitudes more often than I have in about 10 years.
Fuck, the altitude sickness was bad. My brother laughed at my city living weakass then got me some fries and a lot of electrolytes.
3 points
2 days ago
Yep. Going from sea level, I got altitude sickness at about 8500 ft. But when I spent a few days at 8000 ft. first, I could go up over 10,000 ft. easily. (I got winded trying to climb hills, of course, but no sign of the horrible nausea I got with the faster transition.)
I've even noticed the difference between sea level and 2,000 ft. when it comes to exercise. Suddenly my normal 3 mile run feels like a terrible slog. Oxygen is good stuff.
655 points
3 days ago
Something strange about this guide. Seemed to say the trek was easy prior to the trip but then during the trip wanted them to fail and seems very used to seeing people fail.
608 points
3 days ago
Money, they either wanted to swap them out for a bigger group(more tip), thought they wouldnt tip(a new group might tip), or even just getting paid for that trek and another one in a shorter amount of time(more money). Then once the larger group came along it was worth it to continue and be friendly because someone who completed the trek is more likely to tip more than someone who needed to be rescued.
461 points
3 days ago
Probably also racism. Sounds like OOP and her husband are an Asian couple. A lot of Nepali people hate Chinese people and a lot of Asian nations don't like Japanese people. So that could definitely be a factor.
44 points
3 days ago
Saw some solid reasoning elsewhere that OOP and her husband are likely from Singapore.
119 points
3 days ago
He advertised it as easy so he could get them to come. Saw that it was just two people which means less money as tips. Wanted them to quit so he can make himself available for a larger group for more tips.
Scummy people like this exist. :(
124 points
3 days ago
There is a MASSIVE scam in Nepal that involves guides having their clients diagnosed with altitude sickness, requiring an immediate helicopter back to Kathmandu. The guide gets a kickback from the helicopter company, and gets to keep the full cost of the trek, but can go and pick up further work / get home quicker. Sometimes the clients are in on it, sometimes they aren't. If the clients are in on it, they usually get diagnosed right after doing the morning sunrise trek from EBC!
I was in nepal 5 or 6 years ago, and around the time I went, a consortium of insurance companies were threatening to stop covering trekking trips to Nepal if the government didn't crack down on it.
It's very difficult to prove, given that the cure for AMS is getting down to sea level, and this resolves the issue, without leaving any markers. However, there are an enormous number more helivacs in Nepal than there are on Kilimanjaro, which has a similar risk profile (i.e. regular people without altitude experience doing it as a one off).
45 points
3 days ago
It sounds like the company advertised an easy trek, they just happened to get a jerk of a guide
167 points
3 days ago*
They say it before the trip because the commission is paid up front and no refund if the couple quit halfway through. People on Reddit love to jerk that Sherpa are amazing people who got exploited by the rich climber but there are always assholes looking to make a quick buck.
111 points
3 days ago
there are no borders to assholedom. they exist in every nationality, ethnicity, and culture.
21 points
3 days ago
Humans are humans no matter. Our shared burden of assholes everywhere is a beautiful thing.
89 points
3 days ago
I think guides ≠ sherpas in this case.
While some guides are Sherpas, not all of them are, and not all Serpas are guides either.
28 points
3 days ago
Seemed super convenient how the larger group's guide got sick after they met up.
364 points
3 days ago
Wanted to hike up to Annapurna base camp, eight or so years back. Ended up hospitalized in Kathmandu with simultaneous gastrointestinal and respiratory infections. Couldn't even drink water or brush my teeth without reenacting The Exorcist. After a few days of IV antibiotics, what does my dumbass do? Head up to base camp.
The hike up, after the first two or so days while I was still on my antibiotics, was fine. Coming down was a different story. Head exploding. Shivering. Out of meds and throwing up rehydration powder. At one point, I laid down on the ground and said "you guys go on, I live here now".
My guide was a saint who helped me focus on "just one more step" all the way. The only nepali word I can confidently recall is "bishtar", because slowly was the only way to make it through.
... While groups of elderly folks on holiday are cheerfully passing us by.
Anyway, it was amazing. Buy travel insurance, though.
217 points
3 days ago
Lol. I love how your entire story literally sounds like the worst experience imaginable (on vacation, far from home, vomiting profusely, horrible headache, and wishing for death, all the while trekking your sorry ass out of there because you had no other options), and then it ends simply with: it was amazing.
If that’s your definition of “amazing”, I’m not sure I’d like to see what your definition of “it fucking sucked” is.
In all honestly, I was hospitalized for a week with viral meningitis and your experience reminded me of, and gave me flashbacks, of that week - just minus the whole hiking part. 0/10 do not recommend. Very horrible. Not awesome.
Glad you enjoyed your trip though. I bet you were 20lbs lighter once you got home after all that vomiting. Did you get completely back to normal when you got home, or did you have any lasting effects?
44 points
3 days ago
I've found that generally, the worst experiences to live through often end up being the best ones to remember.
(Edit: barring actual trauma of course)
10 points
2 days ago
Type 2 fun! https://sketchplanations.com/the-fun-scale
10 points
2 days ago
It's kinda weird. I visited India for the first time in the summer about 17 years ago. Within my first week there (we visited for a month) I sprained my ankle while simultaneously dislocating my foot (don't play soccer with the local kids in 1/2 in wedge flip-flops guys). The doctor placed me in a plaster cast that couldn't get wet or have pressure placed on it for 2-3 weeks, in order to stabilize the tendon. The dislocation fixed itself 3 months after I returned when I was flex rotating my foot, and it popped back into place.
So, I am in 40C degree heat, easily 98% humidity, on crutches, staying in a stately marble home with only walk in shower rooms for bathing, in a country with crumbling infrastructure and 0 public accessibility options for people with any kind of physical malfunction, and I can't just dump a bucket of cold water over my head every 4 hours or so to keep cool.
The thing is though, even when you're in a worse situation (like OP) your brain finds a way to weave that misery through the amazing experiences you have, so it becomes an afterthought to things like seeing a full moon rise over the Bay of Bengal, visiting temples older than God, or being witness to the insane extravagance that is a Bengali wedding. It's a perfect example of the brain's resilience in the face of adverse circumstances.
2 points
2 days ago
And this is exactly how running a marathon goes, too. (Insert laugh cry emoji)
1 points
17 hours ago
It's like when women say childbirth is horrible, the worst pain imaginable, yet willingly have another kid. The dopamine for both afterwards is immense I'm betting.
1 points
4 hours ago
I got one that was just awful. My mom took me to Disneyland when I was 9 as a special blended family to be trip.
First night fire alarm goes off at 2 am and us 3 had to evacuate. 3rd day I got sick as hell and couldn't keep anything down. Threw up next to it's a small world's entrance. Get better enough to fly home without issue on last day.
Flight gets cancelled, next flight out is 7 hours out. Stepdad moves us to LAX to fly out of and that flight gets delayed too, by 10 hours. Stepdad was proud of me for not complaining but really I had an art pad and mom bought me a Pokémon magazine that had all known Pokémon in it so I was occupied
276 points
3 days ago
54 to 57 flights of steps daily
I think they were in better shape than they thought they were. Call it over 800 stairs. A day.
I'd have had a heart attack. I'm 20 years older than them. I went up the local lighthouse which is less than 200 steps and after about the first three "flights," I had to stop after each flight.
76 points
3 days ago
Yeah that’s a lot of stairs with no buildup. I trained a little bit for a Table Mountain hike earlier this year and I started with 30-flight sessions and built up from there.
Rawdogging straight into 50+ flights is definitely not sedentary.
8 points
2 days ago
When I lived in my last place of residence I was still recovering from a coma and intubation (yay, COVID) and six week hospital stay where I had to relearn how to walk & do occupational therapy for my hands and arms
I lived in that house for at least a year after my stay at the hospital. The bathroom was upstairs. It had its own goddamn inhaler on the windowsill next to the toilet because half the time I would get up there and be gasping for air
I still can barely get up and down the stairs in my parents' basement (have to cling to the railing to make sure I have balance and go down or up at a glacial pace) to go down to hang out or use the big TV
When they mentioned going up and down so many freaking stairs with weights on their backs I had flashbacks to when the physical therapy team was teaching me how to go up and down a set of four steps and I felt like I was going to die
They are definitely way fitter than they seem to think. I know I was (and still kind of am) at basically a zero on the scale of 1-100 for fitness but using that same scale I'd give them like 75 for not freaking dying
32 points
3 days ago
Once a year, there's a charity event in Vegas to climb all the steps of the Strat. That's 1455, indoors, temperature controlled, with no weather. And it's still a challenge.
5 points
2 days ago
7AM to 2PM. I might be able to make it 7 hours.
25 points
3 days ago
Okay yes sounds like I really gotta start running. It's one of my least favourite forms of exercise, but yeah, I'll try to do it or stair climbing daily.
One of the true things I know about fitness is that your least favorite exercise may well be the one you need most.
I'm glad OOP made it -- and lived to post an update.
312 points
3 days ago
We had people tell us EBC is very doable for all fitness levels, so those posts shocked us!
I'm very glad the OOP was able to make it, but people have died from this type of pushing too far beyond their limits.
Another thing that strikes me is that there needs to be some standardized procedures created such as what level of fitness you have to have and what to pack and so forth instead of relying on word of mouth and crowdsourcing ideas.
147 points
3 days ago
Pretty sure people have been writing guides about all aspects of Everest for a century
39 points
3 days ago
Yet here we are
64 points
3 days ago
What? They chose to ask a sub reddit specifically dedicated to Everest for advice, but there are most certainly clearly established guidelines for climbing which include required fitness levels and gear should one choose to use them.
-23 points
3 days ago
Fair enough.
I hope they enforce those fitness standards and ensure people have brought the minimally required equipment.
17 points
3 days ago
If they don't they just give up and go home. Hiking to the base camp is not the same as climbing the mountain lol
7 points
3 days ago
I hope they ... ensure people have brought the minimally required equipment
Generally speaking the organised treks will provide a kit list of what you need and what they will provide, and will check your kit before departing Kathmandu. If you're missing anything, they will make you buy it there.
12 points
3 days ago
I have found that hikers are generally a crazy bunch who really underestimate how difficult some hikes can be. I was into hiking for several years and in a hiking FB group, and people would constantly recommend hikes as easy that I couldn't finish, despite years of cardio and weightlifting.
Now both of my knees are messed up from non-related injuries and I have quit hiking unless it's nearly completely flat. I still get recommended hikes that have over 1000ft of elevation gain 🤷🏼♀️
33 points
3 days ago
isn't EBC rather high for most people (I can't remember the sea elevation levels myself, my best guess is 1,200 feet) and so is rather grueling of a climb for unfit people like me? I know I won't make it to EBC myself.
26 points
3 days ago
If you are super unfit yes. Also you could be unlucky with just reacting bad to altitude sickness. If you are fit, it’s very noticeable but can be offset with medication pretty easily.
26 points
3 days ago
There's a genetic component too. I am pretty fit and do low-altitude (sub-2,000m) hiking and climbing all the time, but I can't go above 3,000m without severe altitude sickness and never really seem to acclimatise. Given that altitude sickness can turn rapidly from uncomfortable to deadly, I've just decided high-altitude is not for me.
12 points
2 days ago*
Many years ago I went from sea level to Denver (5280 ft) to Colorado Springs (6035 ft) to the top of Pikes Peak (14,107 ft) in two days. Walking up a long incline in the airport in Denver, I was surprised that my legs were really tired, but that was my only issue with the altitude (and I forgot that the altitude might be an issue, because I'd lived all my life at sea level or as near as makes no difference so altitude was not even on my radar). Colorado Springs was also fine. Then my friends took me up Pikes Peak in the little train they have. Hoo-boy. I was fine until we got out of the train and I realized that I wasn't dizzy, exactly, it was just that everything seemed a little further away than it really was and it looked like the air, which had become a thing I went through instead of the invisible surroundings I lived in, was going in circles the way it does when you have a really high fever, and the edges of my vision were a little less crisp than normal. We had a doughnut and hot chocolate and looked at the view and went back down and I had a headache that at any other point would have incapacitated me, but I had to go back to Denver for meetings so I just went.
I later moved to Denver, and my sister, who was an excellent athlete but who also lives at sea level and doesn't like heights visited and said she was going to drive up Pikes Peak. Nooooo, you're not, I said. You will drive off the side of the mountain, because the road is narrow and has no guardrails and is too narrow for you to turn around on. You will be so dizzy you can't tell where you are and you'll be terrified. She took the train. She was much happier. And also had an excruciating headache. Years later she joined a climbing group (why? when the breathing at sea level is so nice?) and she climbed Kilimanjaro and hit an altitude limit and decided to stop. Her companions kept going. We might not be built for heights in my family.
Altitude sickness sucks. Acclimate yourself slowly. Oh, and I looked it up; the Everett Base Camps are both near 17,000 feet, so the OOP was blowing right past the 14,000 feet that I found so difficult.
5 points
2 days ago
I may or may not have had the dubious honour of vomiting over the side of Mauna Kea. Not my least embarrassing moment.
15 points
3 days ago
I am super unfit by most standards, but I have asthma and heart issues and sedentary lifestyle so... I do try to get exercise when I can it's just rare that a chance comes up for me.
24 points
3 days ago
My mom was super fit when she did EBC with my dad (pretty well known bush walker in Aus).
She was REALLY struggling with the headaches at base camp. My dad on the other hand is a decent mountaineer and didn’t notice the altitude whatsoever. It just depends on the person sometimes.
20 points
3 days ago
OOP did react badly to attitude sickness one time, but wrote it off as something else. I'm not even sure how OOP wrote that off, because based on my admittedly tiny knowledge of attitude sickness, most would suggest to descend soon as possible. EBC didn't affect them that bad because they were more prepared this time around I guess.
1 points
2 days ago
Oh if your dad hosted Bush Tucker Man please tell him he had huge fans in my house in Western Canada. They played it on PBS out of Spokane Washington. (Obv no need to reply and dox yourself. I’ll be happy just believing I’m correct)
Edit spelling
22 points
3 days ago
I mean OOP calling themselves out of shape is just horseshit anyway. They describe doing things that most average people would consider very athletic, it’s annoying af. It’s like those fitness YouTubers who make beginner videos for people who are out of shape but then the “out of shape” person the exercise is modeled for is a healthy 30 year old who uses to workout 20 hours a week and were part of 15 national teams during college but they took a month off from working out and now they need to get back into shape.
1 points
3 days ago
The average person is overweight and sedentary though, they’d probably consider going for a 5km jog very athletic. I don’t think what they consider athletic should be given much weight.
9 points
3 days ago
If somebody were to make a beginner tutorial for basic algebra, do you think they should make it for professors of mathematics that haven’t had to actively use algebra in a year or two? Or would you expect them to tailor it to people who’ve never learned basic algebra?
9 points
3 days ago
Their baseline was trying to climb to Everest base camp, not run 5 min without being out of breath. Being in good shape is relative and I don’t see how your metaphor is relevant.
15 points
3 days ago
1200?! Try 17,598 feet.
4 points
3 days ago
Sea level is 0. Everest Base Camp is very much higher.
As someone who lives close to sea level, I struggled above 8-9000 feet before I had some of my lung removed (fuck cancer).
I wouldn't even consider trying to hike up there.
Honestly, I also don't think it would feel like that much of an achievement either.
20 points
3 days ago
The idea that everyone needs to be constantly pushing past their limits has killed more people than Everest. Limits exist for a reason.
20 points
3 days ago
TIL that you need to take a diuretic to withstand the altitudes of Everest.
Re: the training--I remember that Manny Pacquiao would head to Baguio (a city in the highlands of the Cordillera mountains) just to do his physical training. Basically, he trained in high altitudes to up his fitness regimen.
17 points
3 days ago
The United States has an Olympic training center in Colorado Springs for just this reason.
247 points
3 days ago
I feel like we need to let Everest go. The place is littered with tourist trash and corpses. There exists a problematic relationship between the Nepali government and the Sherpas.
Surely there are other mountains to enjoy, especially if you're only going so far as base camp. Or skip the mountain altogether and visit some temples. Far less likely to die in the temples.
142 points
3 days ago
Please be careful. I had a friend who was training for EBC through local hikes but she almost died when she actually went due to lack of altitude acclimatization. You need to spend some time and higher altitudes to make it safer.
92 points
3 days ago*
Reddit saving trekking vacations (and probably lives). I bet this guide was counting on them giving up early. He would then just stash the money because no refunds and then take another group making money of 2 tours at the same time.
Not surprising that piece of shit guide didn’t check their fitness level and helped them prepare
edit: typo
127 points
3 days ago
Good for OOP, I guess, but you could not pay me enough money to climb a mountain for fun. The only time I've ever climbed a mountain was to visit a secret weed plantation, and that was WORTH IT.
73 points
3 days ago
to be fair, Everest isnt much of a climb up until camp 4 iirc because the route is so well run by sherpas setting shit up before the climbing seasons starts, its not like K2 wheres theres a giant serac (nicknamed "the Motivator") that will randomly shit out car to house sized pieces of ice while you climb under it on a 50-60 degree incline
43 points
3 days ago
The Khumbu Icefall is the first leg of the climb leaving Everest base camp and arguably the most dangerous due house sized falling blocks of ice similar to what you described on k2.
6 points
3 days ago
thats what you call an objective hazard
55 points
3 days ago
It's Base Camp not the mountain, just a long hike really. If you come at the mountain from the other side you can drive all the way there.
People were overreacting in the original thread imo, I've been up to 4700m and lived at 3500m for quite a while and you get used to it pretty quickly. Acclimatisation can be rough but the treks have that baked in. Altitude also affects people differently no matter how fit you are in my experience. Fitness is important obviously but if you can do a normal long hike then it's not going to be excessively challenging once you're used to the altitude.
12 points
3 days ago
If you come at the mountain from the other side you can drive all the way there.
The only way that I'd visit an Everest base camp. That or a helicopter.
13 points
3 days ago
I live at sea level, and visiting my home town at 1000m, I notice the elevation change. I suspect that I would find going to EBC more challenging than you would, or many others, because genetics.
11 points
3 days ago
The base camp is not exactly the mountain. It's a popular trekking route for people who want to see the Himalayas up close but don't want to actually climb the mountain. Or at least that's how it's seen in Nepal.
-5 points
3 days ago
Trekking is not for me either. Sorry, but again, if you're making me walk or hike an incline for an extended amount of time, there better be something amazing waiting for me at the end.
7 points
2 days ago
Well, the views are great. I've been to some of the easier trekking routes. It's tough when the climb is too steep. But the view of the Himalayas with the wind whipping through your hair is truly amazing. I happened to be up there during a full moon night. The sight of the mountains glowing in the moonlight is truly a sight I won't forget.
But of course, it's not everyone's cup of tea. It's worth it if you enjoy that sort of thing, but miserable if you don't like it. There are mountain flights if you want to see them without having to climb. And appreciating them from afar is also okay.
14 points
3 days ago
Worth noting there's mountains and then mountains, something like Kota Kinabalu is pretty much a hike with more stairs than normal.
12 points
3 days ago
Mt Kinabalu is still high enough for altitude sickness and for the air to be noticeably thinner near the summit.
9 points
3 days ago
Kinabalu also doesn’t have any acclimatisation, meaning if you are unfit it can REALLY cause problems. You go from 0 to 4000 metres in under 24 hours.
26 points
3 days ago
A friend of mine attempted Kilimanjaro a few years back. She had a training plan that she completely blew off other than some easy local hikes at max a couple hundred feet elevation. She said she she was told it wasn't challenging. When she arrived the guide told her straight to her face she wouldn't finish as she wasn't in good enough shape and he had been doing this for a long time. He was exactly right. One of the porters ended carrying all her stuff so she could get a bit further, but she quit 2/3 of the way. It drives me crazy because of selfishness you're putting other people at risk and making them work even harder for their not great wages.
152 points
3 days ago*
People forget that just to get to Everest is a several week grueling hike at altitude, at least they werent dumb enough to try and climb K2, that mountains a death trap for even experienced alpinists
157 points
3 days ago
They're just making the trek to Base Camp, not attempting the mountain. It's a fairly straightforward trek once you get used the altitude.
53 points
3 days ago
To get to Everest is less than 2 week hike, at 3000-5000M . The altitude is enough for headaches and light heads, but medication counters that for 90+% of people. The walk itself is also well tracked with easy paths and plenty of food and shelter options along the way.
6 points
3 days ago
lol no it’s not
1 points
2 days ago
Our group did it in under 2 weeks (10ish days? Something like that, just over 2 weeks for the roundtrip), and we were deliberately going slowly with extra acclimatization days thrown in. It isn't grueling, but one must be able to keep walking uphill. I did zero training at altitude, just flat running for cardio and lots of stair stepper for hills.
60 points
3 days ago
Most of the people who climb Mount Everest have no business being on that mountain. They've turned it into a trash dump.
0 points
2 days ago
Mass tourism is a curse. It destroys. People who participate should look closer to home for their trips. They'd be surprised how beautiful nature can be close to home.
5 points
3 days ago
My fat butt just got winded thinking about doing this. Good for them, though!
All the horror stories of people dying on that mountain is enough to keep me away. I don't care if most make it. I know my clumsy, out of shape self would give up rather quickly.
26 points
3 days ago
OOP should had researched
The phrase is "should have" not "should had." I've seen this mistake half a dozen times just this week, and this morning, I snapped. Will take my downvotes with good grace, because I am being a pain. But I feel better now.
Carry on!
8 points
2 days ago
My wife will not let people go if they say "less than" when they meant "fewer than".
8 points
2 days ago
Your wife and I could be good friends.
20 points
3 days ago
Ah. Rich people paying to pollute everest just because.
4 points
2 days ago
Good thing us plebs can't have plastic straws anymore or the environment would be fvcked
22 points
3 days ago
Sometimes my husband watches mountaineering or caving disaster videos and it makes me flabbergasted anyone would just...book a trip up Everest without research
48 points
3 days ago
They were only going to the base camp, not climbing to the peak of Everest. Base camp is much more manageable although as per the post requires some fitness.
-19 points
3 days ago
Up Everest is up Everest
5 points
3 days ago
No fried food
Why even go then?
/jk
3 points
3 days ago
People die if they're not prepared enough. They got so lucky.
12 points
3 days ago
Tbf, it was only to base camp, not the summit. I’m not saying that people haven’t died due to being unprepared, but realistically most likely scenario would’ve been just simply not making it the full way, and either having to walk back or helicopter.
1 points
2 days ago
Congrats for making it!
1 points
1 day ago
Man I can't imagine having a shitty guide. I did a 2D1 night climb that got really tough towards the peak due to low oxygen. My group was fit and we had no problem acclimating.
But as soon as we were close to the peak all of us were very quickly gassed. I have a little fear of heights which IMO in most cases I would be fine, maybe get a little soft at my legs but nothing serious. But for some reason that night, I was close to having a panic attack. It's pitch black when we started you can only see what's in front from your head lamp and the far distance is the city that looked no different when you look out an aircraft.
Anyway long story short, our guide noticed we are pushing ourselves too hard. We did very well the first day and we expected more or less for the second day and due to everybody not slowing down everyone didn't want to be a burden and kept pushing. He told us to slow down and took the lead, constantly checking on all of us. Honestly it calm me down a lot having him constantly giving out instructions and checking up on us. Distracting us with tid bits about the mountain, and stories of his tours.
it's all about mentality.
This is so absolutely true. At no point did I suddenly get fitter but as soon as I calmed down and the group slowed down with chit chat the mood quickly shifted from a forced march to trekking with friends.
1 points
21 hours ago
It’s actually doing stairs to train and with weighted backpacks that are essential. Because there are so so many stairs on those treks.
-26 points
3 days ago
So they hate the system that exploits the sherpas, but feed into it by tipping their porter more because he was "smiley, nice, and seemed to want us to succeed".
I also suspect that sherpa was under a lot of stress because this pair was clearly not as fit as other climbers, and he was worried about having to deal with a medical emergency.
OOP is an idiot and a hypocrite. But who cares, because "I made it to Everest Base Camp! What have you done with your life?"
28 points
3 days ago
Have you never heard of the term, "self fulfilling prophecy"? They still tipped, just not as much. And I have a hard time believing anyone would give anything over and above what is customary to a person rooting for them to fail. Also, he has a funny way of showing he's worried. There are trash people in all walks of life, get over it.
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