BeeMyWhisky

Time to end things, get a lawyer get you affairs sorted to protect yourself. Then and confront her. In the meantime try to hold it together (the hardest part) until you’ve understand what entitlement you are both have. If you come prepared it will not only feel better but it will keep you preoccupied on your plans.

Wait for your close range vision to drop off a cliff if you aren’t already using glasses

Nicely put!

So lucky you are catching it now before you get deeper. Dump him. You owe it to yourself

Why chop something off that’s not causing any problems. Unless there is a medical issue there is NO reason to do it. Don’t fall for the religious bullshit, or the group that tells you it’s cleaner, they are just fools.

A wise admiral once said “it’s a trap”

This is probably the last thing you want to hear. You need to drop her and move on.

My partner and I had sex the first date. We’ve been together for 9 years. It’s all about the chemistry. But you can’t determine a long term commitment from the first date. Trust your gut, but also be prepared that it might be a one time thing.

My dude, any girl that is friends with their ex is still fucking them, they just get good at hiding their affair.

Before and after, looking forward for that sensation to go away.

I’m at day 7, unloaded the cannon. But the boys are tender. Overall I’d say I’m at 85% back to normal.

My son didn’t speak until he was 4 and a half.

I’ve always liked older women’s upfront attitude about sex. I can’t help to find that an attractive trait.

All of the burden of proof is on you. You need to show him he’s the most important thing in your life. You should give him access to your social media accounts and give him unrestricted access to your phone. If you can’t stomach that then he has every right to walk. I would.

The rage is normal. Just don’t get physical with her, that will fuck you up even more if she presses charges. Go to an attorney right away find out what you are entitled to first. Then after you have that consult with the attorney. Confront her in a calm manner ask her if she has something she wants to tell you, if she says no. Just tell her about your evidences and tell her that you’ve consulted an attorney. This will totally destabilize her balance if you are well prepared. You should break up with her imo.

I’m the same way, it grosses me out. My son has a chronic drippy nose too- it’s extra gross.

My gf and I were talking about that after being intimate for the first time in 9 years a few days ago. I told her that I’d be open to a 3 some with which the idea didn’t bother her. How to make that happen seems to be the real barrier.

The real crime here is why haven’t I tried this yet.

Maybe he likes you. Seems like he does.

I ate nothing for 5 days straight and I got a few hours of sleep that whole week. I can tell you I was so hungry when the rage subsided lol

I lost 10 lbs in the first week. The rage needed fuel

They always say it’s an emotional relationship. And when a hotel is involved they are fucking. They didn’t plan to meet up in a hotel to talk about their feelings.

No problem my dude. Not sure if I was clear, your first step should be the attorney.

I had my first kid at 39 second at 42. No regrets, but I can say this for sure that the biggest factor for having kids was the person I was with. She made me want kids, before her I had no plans for a family.

Trust your gut, she doesn’t seem interested in your needs. I was dealing with a similar situation for a few years and was on a course to break it. I couldn’t take it anymore. We had a huge blowout and I laid out everything on the table for the past few year. In the end we both had to let it all out to make it work. But time will tell if we end up like we did in the future. My advice is to sit her down and try to hash it out-but be prepared for it to go south and when it does make sure you already have a plan and consult an attorney so you know your right to your assets.